i die everytime

Hey !! My name is Mei. " they / them / she / her " • feel free to talk to me! • // art tag : my art \\

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I wont be online that much on this blog, cus-- idk??? Wont delete it tho.

Follow me on @hispids :0

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The art it calls me back, random people who keep appearing on my dashboard her about the make me throw away my blanket of procrastination.

•0 • i hope ur okay tho

[hellokittyismyspiritanimal]

Listen.

It’s not okay to have your child be scared of you. That isn’t respect. That’s control. 

It’s not okay to have your child obey you at all times in order for you to love them. That isn’t high standards. That’s manipulation.

It’s not okay to force your child become what you wanted to become. That isn’t wanting the best for them. That’s living vicariously through them.

It’s not okay to take away your child’s basic needs as a punishment. That isn’t teaching them. That’s hindering them. 

It’s not okay to dictate your child’s sexuality or gender. That isn’t normalizing them. That’s repressing them.

It’s not okay to berate your child’s appearance or intelligence for being what you think is sub-par. That isn’t toughening them. That’s bullying them.

It’s not okay to take out your stress on your child. That isn’t parenting. That is abusing.

It’s completely okay to distance yourself from your parents. That’s not unloving. That, sometimes, is self care.

[macleod]

Spanking your children is abuse

Not only is it just wrong to hit kids, research has shown that spanking leads to depression, anxiety, potential substance abuse issues, and anger management issues later in life that begin around the formative teenage years. (Source:AAP - 35,000 person study)

[macleod]

Official conclusion from the 34,653 person study:

Harsh physical punishment in the absence of child maltreatment is associated with mood disorders, anxiety disorders, substance abuse/dependence, and personality disorders in a general population sample. These findings inform the ongoing debate around the use of physical punishment and provide evidence that harsh physical punishment independent of child maltreatment is related to mental disorders

In other words, if you hit your kids “to teach them a lesson” you are perpetuating your issues and will limit their success and potential in life. Positive reinforcement has been found to be far more effective.

[macleod]

I’m losing followers for this. Sorry that science doesn’t approve or agree with your barbaric and out of touch discipline practices, but if you stop now you will minimize the damage done.

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miss. perfect 

inspired by - this song

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hey y'all made a new blog go follow and give luv

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Made a new meet the artist ! With a new monster sona..~ >:3

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Casper !!

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Bun bun ! - Shaded + non shaded // ps, should I make that my name?

[amberluvsbugs]

¨happy bd !!! ~

THANKZZZ <33

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<333333

[ikittycho]

[winterinthetardis]

*shows up 15 months late with starbucks* anyway here’s my vine compilation

[sparkle-fart-69]

Fuck, Millennials are fucking hilarious

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@rxdpilot 

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" pff i can survive without wifi.." *3 hours later* " OMG THEY DONT HAVE WIFI WHY I HAVE NO DATA LEFT, AA"

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aaaaa wip !!~

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happy late birthday!!♥️ @planteii

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Aaaa so CYUTE !!~ Thank y !~ oml luv y !! Aaaaaa Its alright !!~ 💕❤️💜💛💕💙💖

[planteii-blog]

HAD THIS CUTE OUTFIT ON TODAY,,, but I’m not cute, the outfit is ya’ll. ☆〜（ゝ。∂）

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U a pretty beauty

I am--Iam-I am what- ---aaaaa///:

[good-work-anon-blog]

The Good Work Anon Project!

Hello! Good Work Anon here!

As some of you know, I go around sending positivity around blogs! I just finished off all the blogs I wanted to send some positivity to first, so I’m going to start a project!

I have a notebook which will have every URL name written in for every ask I send! My plan is to fill up this notebook! So, to help me do that, I’m starting up this project!

I will be going around blogs and sending positive messages! This could be for writers, artists, RP blogs, anyone really!

How do you get a message from me? Simple! Rules are listed below

You can reblog this post!

Tag a friend(s) who you think deserves a nice message

Reply to this post if you don’t want to reblog

Even if you already have received an ask from me, you can reblog to spread my positivity around!

As always, keep up the good work everyone! -Good Work Anon

[colourpatternist]

Spread this post around for some positivity!!

[sleepyskele]

@ameb-stuff, @ambereddraws

[ameb-stuff]

@wonszusart @deet-doot-diz @caitielou-askew @intrepimid @kataki15 @sometimes-i-drawthings @unrestedjade @purrfecktlysinful, @theslowesthnery @moonphanter @that1nkyone @thefluffyslipper @holloweentwinkie @rimewasted-icequeen @calicocantaloupe @skeleratory

All those peeps are great artists in many fields, they need some love ok

[bettinalevyisdetermined]

This sounds like a great idea! Please do me, as well as a few of my friends: @undertsums, @manwhoworkswithgears, @ellynore-moonwood, @lucy-animates, @12-anna-21, @jenny-penny-art @hiimtryingtounderfell, @plushea

Thank you!

[undertsums]

WTH Tumblr why you not tell me these things!

Uhhh…I got no one important except maybe my sister on DeviantArt.

http://serifdraws.deviantart.com/gallery/?catpath=/

SHHHH DON’T TELL HER I SENT YOU SHHHHH

[yes-this-account-is-dead]

@crystal9999999 @chikoakihari @alpaca-sunshine @smolbeandoesart

the names above are some people who need more love. Share yours with them. I’m fine, don’t worry about me! 

[internetsoddity]

A hhhh thank you so so much! ;; <33 @ak-tastic I really wanna recommend this artist they’re so cool and sweet ahdbdna

[voidbunbun--moved]

@mar1mar / @mar1art

I RECOMMEND THIS CUTIE RIGHT HERE, SHE’S AMAZING AT DRAWING, AND SHE’S COOL

[xmar1marxx]

The amazing girl who tagged me @sara-bon-mun and bbys @teos-random-stuff @succsugar @hkittyg @lucinda-a @kaykenz1229 @mario-6m @7-sunshine-7 @alicesenpai69 @holychocolateicetea @naonychan @lzmka and @snowy-w0lf-568 ♡☆

[apple-piiiiiiiiie]

Agsdegrwfeh Thnk you Mari okie @wheatu @waterfox-studios @wolfcon-f @ehuante @rani-bow @roslue-chie @teakip @yeonorin @illogicalvoid @oootube2000 @akiaki-san @ak-tastic @ginny752002 @holioca @humankitty-chanart @jielyx @jermymaster @lucythereaderofminds @lindaevasn @x-nek0 @xthegreat @xtrickno @chi-chan-dessu @capn-oli @bonnie1229 @bitter-n-alone @kaykenz1229 E Y

[kaykay1229]

AHSEWFHTJLGGXVJRSGBHRDUSYUKFCE MARI HAN?!! OMG THANK YOU ; ;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;  These amazing artists @bonnie1229 @ally-kunlover35 @ahri726 @oreodsmasher  @jielyx @fab-potato-weird  @kira-vera @rocchan01 You guys are awesome! 💗

[snargicus]

@mana-chan @maconnookisama @123zagori are amazing people!!

[tulipnulip]

Ohhhhh!!! My thank you so much!! Well here’s my list of people who deserve love in their inbox!! @grim-reapers-soul @azenyanistan @thespudofwisdom @darii15draws @coolavaa @yvelandphantom @shaw-punsexualnerd @thisisclairerity @mottinthepot @shiido-r @red-eclipse-moon @silent-again

[meowsteryyy]

AAA thank youuuuuuuuuuu & heres my list ❤️ @tweety-is-not-amused @dawnovaan @kapiche @fieravent @giotanner @levtuve

[giotanner]

Oh gosh thank you a lot, this is made my day ;///; @rory221b @ginger-algae @juuria @sweetcreamdream13 ♡♡♡

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@moonlight-thechosenone @bennjamintallmadge @bunny-yams @deathdippedinroses @the-dreamers-boy

@hullomynameistrash @exadorlion @midnigtartist @astralogicala @twoscreamingbirds @sovroski @softlybrrahs @soft–scribbles

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@smallsapphling @theshyidiot @morriha @br00kel0hst @pixletta

[splotchee-moved]

@egg-boy-official @robbyparks @lyratemps @danimeow @zoinker-s @decorativepistachio @ocean—prince

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@floffle @vyarakolarova @cinnamon-saeroll @because-im-cosmic @cultistleader

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@drawbunii @tragic-miracle @exoticsushimaniac @planteii @abbyg14 @eontwinlatias @itsjustwhale @everyone who needs it

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everyone just YALL