home is where your teeth sink, love

don't add comments/captions to my posts, keep it in the tags, please. 🔞🔞🔞 hi, I'm lace. in my 20s, queer, dom/top from Germany. this is an 18+ BDSM, text- and education-focused blog - minors, don't interact. age in bio or get blocked :)

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Don't leave comments/captions on my content, keep it in tags.

18+ only, minors, get out - you are neither welcome nor appropriate in this space. Minors don't belong in kink.

Hi, I'm Lace. You can use whatever pronouns you'd like for me. I'm a BDSM educator and dom with seven years of on-hand, in real life kink experience. Most commonly beloved as a brat tamer :D Please read this post attentively before interacting with my content or me personally.

Do not interact: CGL/ddlg/ageplay, the usuals (racists, homophobes, transphobes, anti-kink, anti sex work, pedophiles etc.), sissification, incest supporters, bestiality supporters, patriarchy kink - or if you're sensitive to the CW list below. If you disregard this, you will be blocked.

Content warning for heavy kinks such as CNC (somnophilia and intoxication), violence kink, piss play, blood play, monsterfucker, blasphemy kink, heavy degradation/humiliation, fear play, sadomasochism, breath play, knife play/gun play.

x Everything depicted in my posts follows proper RACK BDSM etiquette (consent, pre- and post-negotiations, safeword systems, aftercare, trust).

x My DMs are open.

x Do not use honorifics/titles of any kind when addressing me. Lace suffices.

x I'm not interested in you - if you're looking to find a dom, you're wrong here. This blog is for me to share past kink experiences, scene ideas, educational content or kinky interests. This blog is not to look for any romantic encounters. However, I'm not opposed to some sexting and flirting.

You can use the tags below to find my content.

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Uh, can I ask a clarifying question as a vanilla person? Is a power bottom just someone who's both a dom and a bottom? Or is it its own thing? And if it's its own thing, what is it?

No, you're correct. A power bottom is a dominant bottom.

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Lace, thoughts on having more than two people in a scene? Whether it be another fool or two subs.. or hierarchy with a secondary dom beneath you? Or with one sub hurting and teasing the other at your command?

Yeah.

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Whips or chains?

Chains used as whips, actually.

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That arched back is begging for a nice, rough, mean fuck and a load of cum shot all over your pretty back, Beau.

Then why don’t you come over here and do something about that, hm? ;)

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All cocky in public, but in DMs, it's, quote: "I- THE ASK YOY JUST SENT HELLO?!)"

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ballgag or muzzle 👀👉👈

Muzzle, I like my dogs all bark no bite.

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A few things to imagine if you're submissive and currently not horny (we can't have that, can we?):

• You're on your knees, blindfolded, and you can feel their fingers brushing over your jaw, stopping at your chin, their thumb following the curve of your lower lip, so gently... and then you get slapped so hard it makes you dizzy and lose any concept of where you are

• Someone tracing your spine with one hand, slowly, while your on all fours and arching your back, praising you for your perfect posture (that they taught you)

• Hot breath hitting the side or back of your neck, a wet, warm tongue drawing a line up to your ear, leaving a kiss right beneath it

• "That's all it takes to make you whimper?Just give me a few minutes to make you come entirely undone then."

• You're so overstimulated that your body automatically tries to pull away from any more stimulation, but your legs are tied to a spreader bar and your hands are tied to the bedframe, so their tongue and lips and fingers are making you twitch and cry out and lose every last bit of focus - without any control or power over the situation

• Pushed against a wall with their hand on your sensitive nipples, teasing, pulling, pinching, flicking, the situation too public to properly enjoy yourself or let a moan slip out, so you have to bite your lip and force yourself to not fight back, even though their mouth is on your ear, "Ready to stop being a pain in my ass for the rest of the evening, or do I have to put you in the car and lock the doors, so you can wait for me to finish my evening on my own?"

• Fingers caressing the inside of your thighs, drawing closer but never quite reaching

• "Do you need a reminder why I own you?"

• Someone going from kissing your jaw, to kissing and sucking on your neck, to slowly going to their knees and ripping your pants down or simply lifting up your skirt - and still throwing you an intense, piercing stare that reminds you that even on their knees... they are the one in control and you're but a means to their pleasure

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Incredibly grabbable waist btw

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Face to face or from behind?

Edging or multiple rounds?

Hmm, it depends on the vibe, but I prefer tp see on my sub's face what I cause.

Both, simultaneously lmao

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Fucking a Virgin or Fucking someone with experience?

The latter lmao

No front at virgins but people with experience just know the basics and it's nice not having to teach them those.

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Laughing and silliness during sex or Intensity and power struggle during sex?

I think both are good, but silliness during sex is something that's inherently necessary or you won't feel safe and secure. As long as it's not the majority of it. I can't do with people who joke and laugh the entire time, it destroys the mood for me - a certain bit of gross carnality is so important.

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hey hey hey lace, public edging or filming in the bedroom? also, loud or quiet? :3

- 💜

Tough one to start with 🫠

Filming in the bedroom... less public, even if I don't mind a bit of public fun every once in a while.

And loud, want my subs to make the neighbors scared for their wellbeing 😌

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Lets Play A Game of This Or That? (NSFW Edition)

My muse has to pick one or the other. They have to pick one. Not neither, not both.

Submissive or Dominant? Whips or Chains? Handcuffs or Shibari? Pillow Princess or Power Bottom? Voyeur or Exhibitionist? Blindfolds or Spreader Bars? Butt Plugs or Vibrators? Edging or Multiple Rounds? Knots or Ovipositor? Spanking or Scratching? Ball Gag or Muzzle? Strap on or Double Sided Dildo? On on one or Group Sex? Vanilla or Kinky? Lengthy Cocks or Girthy Cocks? Small Boobs or Large Boobs? Ass or Chests? Thighs or Arms? Hot Wax or Knifeplay? Loud or Quiet? Biting or Sucking? Collars or Piercings? Costumes or Lingerie Monogamy or Polyamory?  Laughing and silliness during sex or Intensity and power struggle during sex? Fucking a Virgin or Fucking someone with experience? Face to face or from behind? Phone sex or Sexting? Cumming inside or Cumming outside Being filled or Bukkake Dirty Talk or Degradation? Role play or Porn on in the background? Public Edging or Filming in the Bedroom? Condom or Bareback? Lube or Raw? Video Call Masturbation or Sexy Selfies? Blood Play or Breath Play? Face fucking or Anal sex? Leather or PVC? Morning Sex or Evening Sex? Clothes on or Clothes off?

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very quiet here because I had a 67 hour week at work and I actually just want to sleep

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not now, kitten, daddy is stuck in the endless loops of our late-stage capitalistic hell

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Pretty, innocent-looking faces just beg to be put in make-up and then get used as urinals until their mascara runs down their cheeks and their lipstick is smudged all over.