Hello Mrs Edge. First, thank you for this great blog. My wife and I have been enjoying your captions, even though neither one of us would want to make it permanent like you did with your husband.
She usually only locks me up for a week at a time, but then she feels sorry for me, and unlocks me for an orgasm. I would like to try for longer, but she feels guilty if I'm too horny. Can I ask how you got past your guilt or whatever and learned to keep your husband locked up for longer periods? I don't want it to be forever, but maybe a month would be exciting. Thank you.
I never know how to answer these questions. I know how it sounds, but I have never felt guilty about denying Tom.Â
When we were dating, there was one night that he stopped by my apartment on his way someplace. We made out for a couple of minutes, and he put his hands down my jeans and gave me a couple of orgasms with his fingers. Then he told me that he had to leave. I asked him âBut what about you?â He told me that he was going to wait until the weekend when we had a proper date.Â
I was floored. I had never, ever heard of a guy who would wait. I thought about it the rest of the week, how he was probably so horny for me. But it must have flipped some kind of switch for me, because I began to enjoy the idea that he was horny and waiting for me. By the time we saw each other on the weekend, I could barely keep my hands off him. But that night, I definitely made sure that he took care of me first, and only then did I slowly tease him into coming for me.Â
I didnât know that this was called orgasm control. All I knew is that it was exciting to tell him to wait, or to not come yet. And I learned how to be very selfish. I didnât feel guilty because he really seemed to enjoy himself, and I guess I figured that he would say something if he were uncomfortable. And once we discovered the cages, Iâve always trusted that he seemed to enjoy being aroused all the time.Â
For your wife, Iâd have to say that you need to keep reassuring her that you are comfortable going longer. And donât tell her this while youâre horny. Take her to a quiet dinner or lunch, and let her know how you feel. Donât just tell her youâre horny, she know that already. Tell her how being locked makes you feel about her, if it makes you happy, or more in love, let her know. And if she tries to keep you locked up longer, donât complain. Let her get comfortable; she needs to test you a little in order to build her own confidence that she can do this. Some positive feedback there wouldnât hurt.
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