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@poemsoflionessluv
Do yourself a favor and learn how to walk away. When a connection starts to fade, Learn how to let it go. When a person starts to mistreat you, learn how to move on.. to something and someone better. Don’t waste your energy trying to force something that isn’t meant to be.. Because the truth is.. for every one person who doesn’t value you - there are tons more waiting to love you better. Do better.
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All you can do is learn your lesson. There’s no point in wishing you had did differently. The past is the past.
if you’re reading this
a lump sum of money is on the way to you
it happened today, damn that was like 3 days maybe?
It Works the money is on its way!
Need this.
Woman to woman
The short version:
If your man cant give you $100 when you need it, you shouldn’t be having sex with him. Period. And that was told to me by a man lol, this is not me being a gold digging bitch.
If you’re consistently paying your own way for everything and you’re spending your money to go see him, then you’re paying him to fuck you. Especially if he has money and knows that you don’t have it like that.
Am I lying? Think about it. Reevaluate your life. Love yourself. Recognize that there are real men out there. Someone that appreciates you will at the very gotdamn least take you on a real date and pay for your uber. It’s sad that this has to be said. Idk why y'all let men talk y'all into these type of relationships.
Please tell me this is a sugar baby blog talking about her sugar daddy.. because if this is forreal then y’all ARE gold digging bitches. Cause this is disgusting. Not everyone is going to find a rich man, but more importantly you shouldn’t be looking for one. Look for a man who will take care of DESPITE both of y’alls money disadvantages.
Long story short: if you expect this from him, expect him to expect the same in return
Shut up. He doesn’t need to be rich to give your ass money for a plan b because he didn’t want to wear a condom. You need to check on your reading comprehension skills. In no way was this statement saying find a rich man. It clearly states that if you’re the only one spending money in the relationship LETTHATMANGO. If he is not putting in effort LETHATMANGO. That’s it. Move along. If you want to take care of a man then so be it, I’m talking to the girls who know they deserve better or haven’t been taught that, THATS NOT LOVE. How is wanting a guy to take you on a real date being a gold digger. Low standard ass bitches. A woman can be everything to a man and he still won’t appreciate her, so at least make sure you’re doing everything for a man that is not making you spend your hard earned money on him. How he meets you, is how he will treat you. How he treats you in the dating stage is how he will treat you the whole relationship. So if you accept car dates and all that bare minimum shit from a man you will always get that from him. If you set the standard he will either rise above or sink to the wayside.
Lol no. I shall not shut up:
You said “if he can’t give you $100 then you shouldn’t be having sex with him”. Not every man is going to be able to dip into his budget and give you that. If you are consistently paying for yourself but he is also consistently paying for himself then there is nothing wrong with that. That’s just the reality of this economy. Now if you are consistently paying for the both of you then I can see how that would be low standards. But to me it sounds like, “paying your own way for everything and you’re spending your money to go see him” means you paying for your own stuff and gas to get to him, which is totally realistic and practical like…?
And you said “especially if he has money” as if the man is required to pay for you even if he has no money but more importantly if he has money. No person is required to give their partner money, if you/they feel generous and can then hell yeah. Or if you’re struggling and you ask for help and they oblige then hell yeah. But neither party is ever required to give up their money, especially if it means hurting their budget. (Selfishness is an issue here and I get that, so if you see they are consistently being selfish then “LETTHATMANGO” but if they are just sticking to their budget and asking you to pay for yourself then where’s the harm?)
I’m sorry if your standards include being treated like a sugar baby and having everything/most of your shit paid for, but I looked for an equal relationship and am the luckiest woman in the world. I didn’t look for a wallet to hand me shit. When my husband and I first started dating we had to split stuff down the middle (he pay for himself, me for myself) most the time until we could get on our feet. Sometimes if I had extra I would pay for him and vice versa. But I never thought less of him for that and vice versa.
The days are long gone requiring men to baby and control women. I don’t know about you but I like having independence and autonomy and equality, and I require the same standards in return.
[Also. He isn’t required to pay for the whole Plan B because you let him skip the condom. That’s equally your dumbass decision. (Not including stealthing.) So in that case he should pay for half of the pill or half the abortion costs if it comes down to that.]
The reality of it is that there are women out here paying their way to see a man, jumping through all kinds of hoops for a man that wouldn’t even take them to IHOP. They’re going to “watch” Netflix right on the couch only to get fucked and pay for her own uber back home. I know bitches that have travelled over an hour to a man only to not even go out for a stroll through the city. The point is don’t do extra shit for men that won’t do the bare minimum for you. What is hard to understand about that?
Maybe clarify that? You were saying men were basically required to pay for everything. I understand raising your standards and not accepting any less but the way you were portraying it was on the gold digging side.
Men and women should not be paying for themselves and their significant other if one refuses to pitch in. I agree with you on that.
I mean what’s wrong with being a gold digger lol. I’ve been on both sides of the situation and I’m always going to be on the sitting pretty side but that’s my own personal opinion. I’ve dated men where I had to pay my own way and get our ubers or whatever but honey I can’t live like that, that’s just me. Especially because I date men older than me, if we were the same age okay whatever but I refuse to accept anything other than what I know from a grown ass man. It could also be a generational gap thing, idk how old you and your hubby are but it’s very common for women to end up being the spotter for everything these days depending on the culture. I just personally don’t do halfsies. I’ll treat my man by getting him nice gifts and take him out once in a while but I don’t do 50/50 lol. So yeah maybe I’m a gold digger. Oh well. If I wanted to pay my own way etc. etc. then I can be single. Why go halfsies with a man when I can do all of that on my own? But really some girls end up doing that whole thing only to end up single and the guy does everything he never did for her with the next chick so….idk lol. What you expect is what you get. Just like girls end up being in relationships for 8 years and never get their ring but that’s a different story lol.
There’s nothing wrong with being a gold digger lol. It was the fact that you were telling all women what they should expect from all men.
I even used to be a sugar baby for short time, but now that I’m in a relationship/married I don’t do that anymore. However I am on the track to be a cam girl soon. So I don’t disagree with those lifestyles, I just disagreed that you blanketed those lifestyles to real relationships, which is not realistic at all and sets bad precedents with impressionable people looking for good relationships. There’s already so much bad shit and advice out there saying love is this terrible thing when in reality it’s not.
But theres nothing wrong with being a gold digger or single or wanting to sit pretty. As long as you don’t require it of someone considered your equal.
And I’m not sure about the generation gap but my husband and I are 23/24 and got married after 2 years together.
I go into every relationship the same way. They see me and know what to expect. I don’t go out on dates if their suggestion is not what I expect or if they don’t like my suggestion. When you show a man what you expect there should be no “under the wrong impression” or anything like that. That’s why I’m saying you set the precedent by what you accept from a man. At the end of the day what I said should be something that every woman hears whether they take heed or not is up to them.
I do believe that “setting the precedent by what you accept from a man” is true. Very true. Sets the standard for the rest of the relationship.
We were on more similar pages then we both thought. Glad this ended civil.😊✌🏻
Lol 🤗
That wage gap still exists fam.
Connor going to have to run me my coin.
#Repost @talk2pops ・・・ We need this, and we need out brown girls to know they are beautiful regardless 🙌🏽
you bettah work!
Yesssss babyyyy
Instead of saying ‘I’m damaged, I’m broken, I have trust issues’ say 'I’m healing, I’m rediscovering myself, I’m starting over.’ Positive self-talk.
Horation James (via onlinecounsellingcollege)
What’s your fantasy?
I wake up, my debt is all paid off, my bank account is full, my relationships with my family are healthy, and I’m able to travel anywhere in the world.
reblog for this ultimate fantasy life to come true
You know what’s really hot? Not having to guess someone’s feelings or intentions
pay close attention to who checks up on you and who doesn’t.
things worthy of investment: leather jackets, good lingerie, perfume, foundation, your dreams
Its about that time 😂😂😂
mood!!!
Plies come get your daughter 🤣🤣
LMAAAAOOOOOOOO ^^^
Favorite video
diddy showing his son justin, how fly his fit is
The way he was standing there has me DYINNN
Father/son goals right there
yo nah puff deadass stood all the way tf back for the full experience 😭😂
^^^^ THATS WHAT KILLS ME LMAOOO
And how serious his face gets.
Me as a parent
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Today's Mantra
You deserve a luxurious, high end lifestyle.
You are worthy of all the best things in life regardless of you’re upbringing or history.
Do not let your past dictate your future.
If you’ve settled before that’s ok promise yourself to NEVER do it again.
You deserve everything you want in life.
You deserve to be treated like a princess, you deserved to be spoiled, you deserve to have thousands of dollars spent on you simply BECAUSE YOU WANT IT.
Learn everything you need to know about the lifestyle you want and then go out and FUCKING GET IT.
