40 Level Up Concepts I Learned Before My 20s
I started my account when I was 19! Since I’m nearing my 20s, I am reinventing my personal image instead of benefiting off of a naïve, cute girl persona that older men were visibly afraid to approach.
1. First, the cuter you look, the more cautious MEN will be. I used to say “guys” generally since guys will look at anything pretty with legs. By cute, the more juvenile you look, the more inappropriate it’ll be for men to look unless they’re total dogs. Men seek out maturely dressed young women who look like they know what they want. Juvenile appearing women look like they want everything that sparkles.
2. Middle class men aren’t bad. I learned suburban men are more accessible. For men who aren’t window shopping for pretty women, they respond to designer looking pieces that don’t say it’s $300, maybe $79.99-$129.99. Dressing too expensively in middle class neighborhoods scares middle class men away because you look like you’ll be displeased by them covering your “common” expense.
3. I have to work much harder in nicer communities. It’s not about wearing nicely structured clothes, anyone can buy that. Your aura is what men see when they’re not looking.
4. Overly bright and elaborate makeup is what makeup influencers wear. Unless I care about what employees at Sephora or Ulta say, I’m not going to look clownish. It detracts from my features and I’m not trying to advertise a palette to you.
5. Appearing comfortable plays a MAJOR role in being luxurious. It’s common for people to have tight shoulders and loose abdomen muscles because they’re UNCOMFORTABLE.
6. Being cheap is expensive. Being expensive is cheap. You use less of an expensive product than you do a cheap product. Be expensive.
7. Be girly + expensive. Be luxurious + expensive. Add + expensive to your personas so you don’t look like you enjoy a certain niche as a hobby.
8. Don’t grin. Don’t appear too warm either. Overly warm women are common. Serious women are uncommon. Women who look serious while walking, talking to others, window shopping, etc. are approached by men.
9. No real names!! Your name is Reina when you’re out, not Aisha. I can make a post of names if you find it difficult to lie. Giving out your real name will bite you in the back. It will be even better if you have your alternative name as your party name. Practice your alternative name at the coffee shop!
10. You only know expensive. Save your money by eating less expensive meals at home (not fast food or cheap takeout) and ordering expensive when you’re out. You don’t need to order a porterhouse steak if you enjoy a ribeye, but no sirloins.
11. Make sure your skin GLOWS. Wear sunscreen, lotion and a moisturizing body oil.
12. Practice hand and ankle massages regularly. Wobbly ankles show that you’re sedentary and aren’t out and about like expensive women are. Tense hands show you think you’re not good enough to be at nicer places.
13. Leave the soft drinks at home!! Pretty please don’t look at the fountain drink menu at nice places. We know those refills are free. It shows you can’t be away from sugary drinks, you’re scrimping up change to go out and you’re an outsider.
14. Premium drinks are an acquired taste. Cherry lemonades, ginger refreshers and virgin mai tai’s, until you’re old enough. If you happen to sit in front of a bar, look up bottles that are on shelves to find out their average cost & taste.
15. You need to take time to do your makeup. Rushed makeup does not always follow your anatomy.
16. If you follow the rules, you’ll still be standing behind the velvet rope. Children’s books taught us being nice is the golden standard & mean people are the villains. The mean people are the same ones who published those books to push out to the masses to stay out of their communities.
17. Acquire an intentionally selective pair of eyes. Gloss over people who don’t deserve your eyes on them.
18. Most “cheap” lipsticks are better than $20+ lipsticks. My matte $3 lipstick is more comfortable than a $20 one that dried like paint on my lips. Luckily I moisturized my lips well beforehand or else it would’ve left my lips raw.
19. You don’t need to worry about buying high end makeup if you can’t afford the price. I’d buy makeup palettes that have the classic colors you want in those palettes but for much cheaper. Many Maybelline palettes have high end colors.
20. Do not let men know how cheap you are. He doesn’t need to know you do your grocery shopping at Dollar General.
21. Stretch very well before you wear heels for a long time. Heels are as common as sneakers and flip flops. Visit a cobbler or shoe adjustment store to make your heels more comfortable.
22. You really have to jump through hoops to become noticed in nice communities. You REALLY have to jump through hoops to become noticed in nice communities. You REALLY have to jump through hoops to become noticed in nice communities.
23. Spoiled women are the norm. You can tell how they position themselves, how their eyes gloss over you as if you didn’t exist and they window shop because they can definitely afford to pay for what they want or have someone on speed dial who can.
24. You have to believe you’re worth it. Insecure culture only hurts you when you allow yourself to dig a deeper hole.
25. How your lips look are important. Double cleanse your lips, exfoliate them and use a strong lip balm.
26. Condition yourself before you go anywhere. It’s an acquired experience visiting places in a different tax bracket without being intimidated.
27. Have your head on a swivel. Obsessed people are crazy. Make sure you aren’t being followed or surveyed, bring protection and don’t talk to just anybody. Stalkers are female too.
28. Your friendliness is a privilege. You’ll try to be haggled for free under the guise of friendship. Any man cannot talk to you.
29. Having straight hair doesn’t automatically make it styled. Define your curls, moisturize your hair and at least wear rollers overnight.
30. Deeply analyze what men tell you. It can be a tactic to tell you what you want to hear so you can be broken down. A sentence with a lot of “you’s” should be taken with caution.
31. You’re not easy. Make up your backstory, your finances are classified and you grew up as the main character.
32. Your total honesty is not valued. You’ll become a doormat for telling heartfelt stories every time.
33. Your money is not their play or mess up money. You’re not walking him to his door, are you?
34. You’ll approach situations on a case by case basis. Being overly rude to an emotionally poor man can cause you to have to pay for yourself when being overly rude to a man comfortably in his masculine will entice him into paying for you.
35. You’re building unforgettable experiences that others wish they had. Others’ vacations will be frequent visits to you and your visits to luxury stores will be like grocery store visits.
36. Freestyling doesn’t need to be planned. If you know you’re visiting a car dealership, wear cute outfits so you can be ready for anything.
37. Demonstrate airs. Treating yourself as if you’re all that is demonized, so don’t honor that belief.
38. Act like old fashioned royalty. Treat yourself like you’ve never done worse and how you expect not to be disappointed. Act like you’ve never left that type of community.
39. Change out your signature perfume if you’re well known in your community. Your chance of being recognized will lessen.
40. Your level up can motivate the most unsuspecting people. If women in your family who grew up in their masculine have bouts of announcing they wish they could have their expenses covered when they’re under tons of stress and they examine you, you could inspire them into investing in their future, no matter their age.
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