In defense of our dreams

I measure my time in songs and find it difficult not to lip-synch in public places.

[fungoidz-deactivated20200705]

this is honestly one of my all tim favorite hsitorical pictures because of the three dudes that are just LOSING it in the front

[inch--worm]

Me: Really wants a romantic relationship

Me: Never develops strong feelings for anyone

Me: 

[mioxenoblade]

Get in the Halloween spirit and make a ghost!

[slightmayhem]

That’s called murder and i heard somewhere that it was illegal.

[executed-deactivated20161004]

Just finished crying

[executed-deactivated20161004]

Crying again

[poetundercover]

me, putting a bunch of hand wash only things in the washing machine: you guys look out for each other in there OK

[stevenkodalys]

@jbayardelle Awesome night!!! Stephen Sondheim and @AaronTveit #company #barringtonstage #bsc2017

[v3nice]

Someone: Are you taken? Me: Ya for granted

[totalspiffage]

My therapist suggested replacing “is there anything I can do” with “what do you need” when comforting someone as the first kind of assumes you as part of the equation in helping someone which isn’t always helpful. It also kind of pressures the person suffering to kind of come up with something FOR you to do. Like I get so frustrated with that first question as a person who gets it a lot.

The second not only takes the pressure off but also might help the person really consider what their actual needs are like hey I haven’t eaten, maybe that’s a reason I feel crappy. It kinda takes the asker out of the immediate picture so the person struggling can focus on what they actually need, and then if you CAN help, you can offer it.

We’ll see if this works better!

[warpedellipsis]

That also sounds like it would give the person room to decide if they need something or not. The usual “if there’s anything” sort of comes off as lip service, no matter how sincere the intent, so there’s almost an obligation to reject it, to say you’re fine. 

[thealogie]

where do I see myself in five years? hopefully replying to multi-paragraph work emails with: cool! thanks.-Sent From My iPhone

[the1975music]

[botanize]

[hipster]

I hate it when i wanna wear all black but like They’re different shades of black It’s soooo annoying

[staypozitive]

Don't take her for granted.

If she texts you, text her back. If she wants to hang with you, hang with her. If she wants to talk to you, talk to her. If she wants to hug you, hug her. If she wants to hold your hand, let her. Just because she’s yours at the moment, doesn’t mean she will be in the future. Treat her right or someone else will.

[sophsmagotes]

*slams reblog*

[mymompickedthisurlss-deactivate]

don’t treat her right because of fear someone else might.  treat her right because you can’t help but do what’s good for her.  if it isn’t out of love, you’re there for the wrong reasons 

[leerings]

[toocooltobehipster]

[icanthearyoudude]

so much love

[k-e-n-y-a13-blog]

[mysterymeat6649127739816]

[ofallthehappy-deactivated202004]

squad

[bopeep]

we dem b o y z