a polyam vampire

zin | 27 | it/they | polyamory blog

[polyampire]

this is a blog for posts about polyamory, run by a polyamorous person. I try to keep it positive! I'll tag on request, and all fandom posts will be tagged. the askbox is open!

[ladyshinga]

Monogamous people with dozens of exes and the most horrifying relationship history you've ever heard of in your entire life: "Well I just can't support polyamory, because those relationships never work out"

[this-is-poly-phobia]

this is an example of polyphobia

[this-is-poly-phobia]

Not polyphobia but positivity!

I told my classmates I have a polycule today, they reacted very well!

I'm not sure if I would call it "coming out", because I have never been in the closet in the first place, I simply never mentioned it.

They all had pretty much the same reaction, either saying "oh wow, so many people!" when I listed all my partners, saying that's interesting, and some said it's admirable that I can communicate with my partners so well.

They were curious and asked me a few questions, they were happy for me!

[pretend-pretend-vampire]

friend of mine started kissing my neck after I brought up this blog and how popular it is. thank you all for facilitating me getting kissed

[thischarmingdog]

kitchen table polyamory is OUT I'm creating Battlefield Polyamory. I'll only date you if you try and fight my other partners every time you see eachother. and I'm betting on the winner

[kamitsubaki-city-ensemble]

[zinziinziiin]

nonbinary people, are you:

genderfluid or genderflux in some fashion

statically bigender or otherwise multigender

statically demigender in some way

statically genderless/entirely lacking gender

nonspecifically nonbinary

something else

I don't know right now but it's one of those probably

binary gender button/see results

Remaining time: 4 days 22 hours

[polyamorousmood]

Happy Pride‼️

to polyamorous people specifically💙💖🖤

[moshpitsandstargazing]

actually i love having relationships that are unconventional to other people. they’re customized to the people involved. the way some relationship dynamics are viewed has always bothered me. personally, i prefer leaving many of my relationships unlabeled and it works for me and those people. And that doesn’t mean discussions aren’t had about the nature of the relationship.

i love being able to have a deep meaningful relationship that also is primarily sexual in nature with no intention to move up the escalator ladder. i love relationships with the flexibility to withstand major changes even to the relationship itself. i love being able to be casual. i love being able to be in it for the long haul. i love exploring the multitude of ways to interact and engage with people. i love having the opportunity to learn myself in new ways through the doors relationships open up.

[chumbyy]

[ex-riddlecats]

poly shipping solves this

[ex-riddlecats]

i bring a sort of "what if they had a threesome?" vibe to the shipping convo that both misogynists and homophobes dont like

[wizardarchetypes]

so annoying that in 2026 mono queer people will still try to justify hating polyamorous people on poly-positive posts by randomly bringing up how badly they were abused and traumatized by a poly ex. which is genuinely awful so not to sound callous but when i’m like ‘stop hating on poly people for no reason’ and ten people are like ‘uh my poly ex abused me!’ i’m like okay. good point. i forgot that monogamous relationships are inherently and historically safe and free of abuse. can you imagine if domestic abuse happened in monogamous relationships? that would be so scary…

[clementine-kesh]

i’ve seen people counter the idea of polyamory as a solution to conflicting ships by saying that sometimes the characters in question would not work as a poly ship which is fair and often true but as an avid enjoyer of both polyamory and toxic relationships i think it’s kind of awesome when a particular poly configuration mostly exists to drive everyone involved to madness

[polyampire]

happy pride! be nice to polyamorous people or else 🗡️🗡️🗡️

[w0rmsmeatofme]

I want to see more polyamory pride this pride month i'm serious. Stop being weird about people with multiple partners polyamory is awesome and beautiful and queer

[polyamzeal]

[this-is-poly-joy]

[Image ID: A post from user @/polyphiliablog with the name "Leanne Yau". The post reads "Polyamory is telling your metamour to give your mutual partner kisses from you when you're apart." /.End ID]

[cishetlessfashion]

Love triangle plots: ugh I like both of these people a lot, my feelings for them are equal and I don’t think I can choose between them

The general public: yes this is a completely relatable and plausible scenario

Polyamorous person: I love my partners equally and I couldn’t choose between them

The general public: sounds fake but ok

[polyampire]