Commala-Come-Ka

Adult. He/him/it I GUESS. I tag fandom and some common squicks but if you don't like horror this is probably not a good blog to follow. Exclusionists fuck off.

[bonecraftprodigy]

Hi I've been on tumblr since 2011. Sometimes I pretend to be a vampire or a wizard on the internet in order to lose clout. Roleplay activity is hella sporadic right now but if you want to play toys I'm down. Click the tag on this post to see things about my OCs.

@crowmauled - horror sideblog

@knife-edged-dreams - Mage: the Ascension roleplay blog. Mind the content warnings that one's yucky

@selfinflicted-damnation Vampire: the Masquerade roleplay blog

@recursivegnostic - Mage: the Ascension roleplay blog

@notchedwhip - Vampire: the Masquerade roleplay blog

If you have my discord you can figure out my 18+ sideblog

[boobexplosion]

i dont have to wear a binder. i have a flat chest i can inhale as deeply as i want and i never look like i have breasts. im not aware of my chest when i go down steps, im not aware of my chest when i put in a seatbelt. when someone hugs me it's like a flat board for them. i can wear a towel around my waist around my house and go shirtless to the beach. i was subconsciously avoiding half of my closet for years until one day i realized; i DO love these shirts, and they look *so good* now that i dont have a chest. im not paranoid at my job that my coworkers will find out the truth if i reach too high or tuck in my shirt. i dont stare at my chest every time i put on an outfit any more. i dont catch myself in a mirror at a department store and hunch my back. i stand up tall. i lie shirtless in bed every night and nothing stares back at me.

these are my experiences with top surgery if anyone is debating whether or not they want it. for me, every day i lie shirtless in peace. greatest decision ive ever made

[heedra]

really losing my patience for any 'feminist' statement to the tune of 'we need feminism because women fill a fundamentally different and necessary role than men and will be better at doing x y or z'. like actually i think we need feminism because it is an unbearable death of the spirit by inches to exist in a world where you are not seen as a fully realized human being because of a single cultural determination, and because a world that enshrines such things creates systems that are fundamentally sick to the core

[theblackparadeisdead]

That post I made over new years had people at my THROAT for saying I only buy real leather. Sorry I really do think that wearing textured plastic that will fall apart in under 5 years and go on to irreparably poison the environment is the worse option here.

[theblackparadeisdead]

if you look into the mushroom leather or apple leather or cactus leather or any other plant-based alternatives, they're all still about 50-75% polyurethane. They'll still fall apart fast and then they wont decompose except into microplastics. They're just not sustainable. I thrift pretty much all my leather garments and some of them are 30 years old and still hold up like they're new. Like there's no contest.

[tag-the-vtm-oc-who]

Tag the VtM oc who is goth

[inoppositionflorien]

Example of Tumblr's aging userbase: people complain about prices rising and how things were better in the past and are getting worse all the time (often in spite of contrary evidence!), have often developed a sharp technophobia based on misunderstandings of how technologies work and moral panics about dangers that are not supported by research, and hold strong opinions about the problem being due to moral failings that can be fixed by simply destroying the unvirtuous and showing personal virtue, and also are convinced that the past was both better and also harder, and that kids these days have it too easy (but they feel sorry for them because everything sucks now)

[sunsetbuddie]

when you say something awkward and stupid in a social situation that probably no one will remember except you for the rest of time

[bophia]

Daily affirmations for tesla owners: your car is ugly as hell and everyone hates you

[antiquesintheattic]

Am I a bad person

[diabolicalevil]

[krismatic]

Tag this with (if you had one) the colour(s) of your DS/DSi/3DS

[engineering]

Where's that comment?

Hello Tumblr! 

@jubs here, today, to tell you about a feature we're building: Comments by author!

Comments (or replies) have been around for a while, but they have always been tucked away from your regular feed, and so we're working on a few ways to integrate them into the rest of our experience.

Soon, blogs will have a Comments tab alongside Posts, Likes, and Following. There, you will be able to see posts other people have been commenting on, and, more importantly, find your own comments! This was not possible before, except through notifications if someone engaged with your comment.

We're also working on a way to surface posts commented on by people you follow in your feeds. You will be able to find those in the For You tab, and later, alongside chronological posts in the Following tab.

So, how do you identify those posts in the feeds? 

Replied posts will show a small preview right there in your dashboard, before you click anything. 

This is not out yet, but soon! In the meantime, tell us what you think and expect from this! ☺︎

[whatdoyoumeanitsnotawesome]

please tell us that we can toggle the visibility on/off like we can do with likes and following.

[andriibuilds]

A big benefit of having comments enabled for all blogs is this will increase accountability and quality of comments because each blog would now think twice before writing a toxic comment, knowing it will be visible to everyone. If we make this opt-in, then we will lose this benefit and both spammers and trolls will continue their current behavior and limited accountability

[bonecraftprodigy]

Frankly, that's stupid. The people who you're trying to moderate with this approach have already proven they don't care about how visible they are, or, in many cases the toxicity being public is the point. The people who will use replies* "more thoughtfully" are those of us who already self-moderate to avoid being blasted by the toxic people.

*I am specifying replies because comments are added to reblogs and already visible. Replies are responses directly to a post and not added to reblog chains. It's very confusing and annoying that staff seems to be using the terms interchangably.

[heedra]

so far one theme of the 30s for me has been realizing that literally every human being on earth who appears completely cool and collected and together with it at first glance has some threshold past which enough known information about them will shatter that mystique completely. i don't even say this negatively or pessimistically it's just been helpful to keep in mind that we're all like that.

[dogpuppy]

[coldsnapz]

mny ocssssss. myuu occssss aughghghg myu ocsssssss wailing like a ghoul oever my ocsss

[duskdragonxiii]

Why is pet play always dogs anyway

[duskdragonxiii]

Youre a dirty little goldfish arent you. daddys gonna clean your tank out so good so you have to wait in the sink until im done.

[laterkiss]

everytime i want something i should be shot in the head