Positive Vibes

Positivity blog // Anti suicide, self harm, E.D. // Just trying to make the world a kinder place // other blogs: @sorryimbusywriting @genzstuff @shewrites-sometimes @littlefoxphotography @gloingupabaddie @eatsleepandworship

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Today's challege: this may be super hard for some of you guys but I challenge you to zero (0) self deprecating comments about yourselves, even if it's just a joke. If you do find yourself self deprecating then you have to look in the mirror sometime today and say the opposite of whatever mean thing you said about yourself for 5 minutes.

Ex: if you called yourself ugly you must call yourself beautiful or handsome

Ex: if you called yourself dumb you must call yourself intelligent

Let me know if you guys did this!!! I love every single one of you and you should too

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Let your past make you better not bitter

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Having a favourite teacher

Ask almost any person if they have a favourite teacher,and most of them will reply positively. Further questioning will reveal that many of them used to treat the subject that teacher taught equally to other subjects,but then were inspired by them. Some will talk about how they felt the adrenaline rush on their first entry into the class,and they will end up by saying how much the teacher loves them. We,such students,are lucky as we have a teacher with a good set of expectations,and we are given the opportunity to create our own accomplishments.

It's not always easy to teach a subject,and the student must be willing to learn. Favourite teachers are not those who are very nice and easy going,they are the ones who have a definite set of values for the students to follow. They are the teachers who will tutor students,but do not allow them to fail tests while making up grades with extra credit work.

Teachers who demand students to take responsibility for their own learning,are some of the best loved ones,and it is their refusal to let students slide,that makes them memorable. They force students to really learn their subject,and they would fail them if the student doesn't do the work.

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Be kind to yourself and then let your kindness fill the world

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It’s hard but it’s worth it

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Staying positive doesn't mean you have to be happy all the time. It means that even on hard days you know that there are better ones coming.

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Woohoo!! Only a year I've had this account and I already have nearly 10,000 followers. Thank you everyone who follows me and support this blog you all are soooooo amazing

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Your mind is a powerful thing. When you fill it with positive thoughts your life will start to change

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Y'all are beautiful kings and queens and don't you let anyone tell you otherwise especially yourself

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If someone is hating on you, don't feel bad about yourself and definitely don't reciprocate their hate. Their actions are a reflection of THEM not you. The best thing to do is simply ignore them, but if that doesn't work for you then send a little love their way. Compliment them or just say something nice. It'll make you feel like a better person and it might cause them to rethink their actions

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Things I Wish My Younger Self Knew

Your compliments aren't creepy or weird

That pimple you were fussing over all night? No one cares, honey

And that boy that you were fussing over before that? Your friends were right about him. Listen to them more often

You control your own happiness

Stop procrastinating and just get the work done

Never be afraid to help people

If someone is negatively affecting your mental health, take a step back and decide if you need to cut them off

You don't owe anyone an explanation

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little self care things ♡

open this if you don’t feel good today 💌

taste:

eat small fruit snacks

buy yourself a treat occasionally

make a cake in a mug

chew flavored sugar-free gum

put lemon in your water

hearing:

listen to your favorite music

or just wear earphones to block things out

listen to white noise/ambient sounds

smell:

put on some sweet-scented lotion

spray a bit of your favorite perfume

make your favorite coffee or tea

sight:

look in the mirror and tell yourself you look good today

clean the clutter in your room + throw things away

close all the unused tabs

clean the dishes + do your laundry

delete unused apps

make your bed

fold your clothes tidily

organize your books and papers

turn down the brightness of your phone/computer at night

smile and be more polite at strangers

open up the curtains, let the light in

go outside often

touch:

hug people you love

cuddle your pet

read while lying in your bed

hug a soft toy

appearance:

wash your face/use face wipes

dry shampoo if you’re too tired to shower

brush your teeth

exfoliate + moisturize your skin

change into clean clothes

brush your hair

put on some lip balm

body:

do your favorite exercises

take a nap

take deep breaths with your stomach

take a warm shower

stand up and stretch your legs

put on some music and go for a walk outside

get at least 7 hours of sleep

drink lots of water

hobbies:

always make some time to do what you love

create art, writing and music for yourself, not anyone else

don’t feel embarrassed about your hobbies

be patient with yourself, progress takes time! don’t give up

hobby ideas: cooking, reading, drawing, painting, a sport, a new language, learn a musical instrument, collect things, photography, join a class or a club

mind:

put yourself first

spend less time around people who make you feel bad

write your thoughts in a journal

stand up for yourself

stop judging people

don’t dwell in the past

concentrate on what’s happening now

don’t try for people who don’t care

stop caring about what’s not important

be a friend to yourself, rather than a bully

learn to love your body

see the bigger picture

change self-destructive habits

appreciate the good

let things go

ask for help

studying:

make lists

focus on priorities

stop putting everything off

turn off your phone if you need to

take breaks

do one thing at a time

believe in yourself!

other:

laugh a lot

get a plant and name it

buy flowers for yourself

be ok with being alone

go out with your friends

watch a movie

I hope you feel better soon. You deserve so much. Things will get better soon so keep going. ☁️ I love you

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If it costs you your peace it's too expensive