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My life has changed a lot
I have a near three year old, and im getting divorced.
But I'm relearning myself, at least.
letâs talk, shall we?
itâs no secret that tumblr writers have been leaving or deactivating their blogs, especially in the last year or two. and i think the reason why is even less of a secret.
the fact that writers have to practically beg for feedback and interaction on a site where they post their works for FREE is ridiculous. the fact that most of the people who are reading and consuming these works donât even spare 10 seconds to add a nice tag to their reblog (if they even bother to do that) is borderline enraging. this is tumblr, not instagram or twitter. likes on tumblr do nothing for the writer. i donât care if you think that it helps them appear in the tags, or if you think that seeing yet another â___ liked your postâ is encouraging to them, because it doesnât and its not.
and speaking of likes, why is the ratio of likes to reblogs so fucking huge? and before you think iâm being dramatic, lets take a look at some of the notes from my own works.
at the time of me writing this, my one-shot, dream lover, has 821 notes. thatâs pretty good right? but letâs see how many are empty likes and how many are reblogs.
769 likes.
52 reblogs.
out of those 52 reblogs, 35 of them are empty. no tag, no comment.
one of my reactions currently has 2,038 notes. you may be thinking thatâs a lot, which it is and iâm incredibly thankful for how many notes iâve gotten on it. but how many are likes and how many are reblogs?
1,924 likes.
113 reblogs.
out of those 113 reblogs, 81 of them are empty.
one of my headcanons currently has 1,110 notes.
1,069 likes.
41 reblogs.
28 of those 41 reblog are empty.
why is it so hard to reblog things and give feedback?
âoh but it wonât fit my blog theme!â if youâre so fucking concerned about what your precious tumblr blog looks like, then send an ask. theyâre just as appreciated.
âi donât know what to say tho!â weâre not asking you to be shakespeare. if youâre really that no thoughts head empty just put a keyboard smash, if nothing else.
âbut iâm shy and embarrassed!â the anonymous option is there for a reason, and most writers have it turned on. being shy when you have the option of keeping your identity a secret is no excuse.
and yes, iâm aware that some writers donât have the anon option on, which brings me to my final point.
stop. demanding.
if a writer has requests open, be a decent human being and use your manners. going into their inbox and saying â____âs reaction of this.â is no way to request something. saying please, thank you, or even âhey, could you do a reaction of _____?â is a thousand times better than just telling them what you want them to write.
writers spend hours of their time and energy to write things for you to read, and leaving an empty like is meaningless to them.
if your liked a writerâs works, reblog them and maybe add some nice fucking tags while youâre at or send an ask to them about it. because sooner or later, after so many likes and barely any interaction, more and more writers are going to leave.
stop making them desperate for any spare crumb of interaction and start leaving feedback if you love these writers so much.
Here^ ; this is a part of why i stopped writing new fics for twisted wonderland; fanfiction is a community, not something to be consumed.
You don't just "consume "content"" , fanart/fanfic is a give and take, people make things for themselves but share it for passion and conversation.
Also, while we are at it; please, stop calling art "content", you're dehumanising the heart that goes into making it! Fanart isn't made in factories, fanfic isn't made in bulks of copies! All of it is made individually, often painstakingly, with so much care! Each and every single piece of fanmade art and writing and song is ONE OF A KIND! IT'S NOT CONTENT, IT'S NOT MADE IN MUNDANE COPIES!
No one shares their passion when a quiet audience turns they joy into a chore.
Send an ask to your favourite artists and authors, reblog with tags even if it's just exclamation marks upon exclamation marks, if you want to go above and beyond then make something for them.
Make a moodboard inspired by their creations, draw something, write something, send them songs, descriptions of what their art felt like in poems, or one of the many other ways I haven't listed; just don't be a ghost audience.
The best part of being a part of a fandom is being a part of a community; and I had my fun in this one, whether it be with the collaborations, the Twst spotlight, or just generally getting to know everyone.
People who share their passion leave when the community is silent, because they don't share their passion only for it to be 'consumed' and given nothing in return.
ANYONE ON MY DASH WITH BOOP ENABLED WILL BE BOOPED!!!!!!
BOOPING YOU MOODBOARD!!!!
theyâre called boops but i think itâs better as lil baps
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staff: our april fools joke this year is a silly feature that doesn't really do anything but give you a button to boop other users! they have to opt-in first though :)
me:
Today's Seal Is: The Devious Devourer
we had a great good life in the jungle, my love and I
Imagine if someoneâs unique magic was mind reading
Like everyone in NRC considers Yuu to be this paragon of responsibility and righteousness, a resolute force of duty and honour, when in reality they are an overworked and tired teenager, just ready to end it allÂ
âŠ.
Heartslabyul Student D: So what do you think we should do, Prefect?
Yuu: *internally* well my suggestion is to stick a few wet forks into open sockets and call it a night
Yuu: *out loud* Well the best option would be to divide and conquer, if we split up and then regroup in half an hour we should-
âŠ
Octavinelle Student F: *to Savanaclaw Student C* Well I want you to eff off!
Yuu: *internally* And I want to unearth all of the mandrakes in the greenhouse without earmuffs but here I am
Yuu: *out loud* Octavinellle Student F, Savanaclaw Student C, I understand where both of you are coming from but tension right now is far too high and we have a goal to reach. What I suggest is-
And then you have the telepath!NPC like:
i'm literally begging people to relearn how to use earbuds and headphones. i don't wanna hear your fucking tiktok while im waiting for my flight.
100% this.
"irreversible side effects of HRT" all of life is irreversible. i cannot go back a single second in time
also i know what i want. i know the risks. everything has risk. i am already living! why am i living half a life because of what YOU fear? stop talking down to transsexuals
âWho the fuck does Ang Lee think he is, man?â
KNOCKED UP (âBrokeback Mountainâ Deleted Scene) | 2007 | dir. Judd Apatow
he was so right for this tbh
How many kisses I think it would take before he turns to mush
My creativity has been stuck in essentially a rush hour traffic jam for like weeks, so let's write something silly for practice, shall we?
Lucifer
Definitely ten or more. He tries to keep his composure, to focus on the task at hand, scold you for coddling him and distracting him, but if you hold onto your stubbornness and see it through to the end, he will be putty in your hands soon after you reach double digits. He might even fall faster if you give him little bits of praise after every kiss.
Mammon
Three MAX. One to catch him off guard, one to make it really sink in, and then the third to land the final blow. No amount of tsundere will outlast the triple attack. He'll be following you around like a lost puppy for the rest of the day, almost demanding more. He's greed after all, three might've broken him, but he'll be damned if he doesn't get more.