Things to Say to Someone in Top Drop/Dom Drop
Iām okay
I love you
Thank you
Itās alright
Iām not hurt
Iām not hurt too badly
Youāre lovely/wonderful/kind
I enjoyed it
It was worth it
Take your time
Do you need anything?
Do you want a cuddle?
Do you want me to get dressed/take the collar off/put the crop away?
Do you want to talk about it?
Iām here
Youāre not a bad person
Top drop/dom drop usually comes from shock, guilt or insecurity about the way you have just treated someone whose well-being you care about very much. Like sub drop, it is usually accompanied by a fall in endorphins and general energy levels. Especially for aces (who I find have a greater need to be in the right mindset/āzoneā for play and intimacy), a āsnapā moment where you break out of play mode can throw you emotionally, and the end of play causes a similar reassessment or double-take at what happened during the scene.
Dominants in drop require the same kind of care as subs, but a different kind of reassurance.
Reblogging because I donāt see people talking about Dom drop nearly enough!
more people need to know about this and talk about it because, yes subs need care, but so do our Doms - they deserve just as much care and attention as us subs
YES! Omg aftercare is so important you guys. In 100% complete seriousness take care of your doms. Remind them they are okay and you are okay and that whatever they did, you wanted it too. Please Dom mental health is important too

















