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Age regression culture is being shy with your cg even though he 100% knows I’m a little I get so shy calling him daddy or letting my little side out to play, or having my paci out with him, etc I feel so safe with my dada but I never want him to think I’m silly for my baby-like actions, even though I know he would never ever judge me. I’m still a little scared to be little with him idk

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before we get started :

these tips will obviously not help everyone and should not be someone’s only resource for this topic! the main resource you should be using is communication. before anything, communicate with your little one and see how they think you can better yourself with this topic.

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☕️ be aware of your tone / choice of words

🧦 ask things instead of demanding things

🐾 there is nothing wrong with lots of reassurance / communication

☕️ don’t get upset with them / take out your frustrations on them

🧦 give them a sticker or comfort item if they get upset / doubtful / etc.

🐾 let them cry things out / let them express their emotions

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[ tip explanations ] ☕️🧦🐾

☕️ be aware of your tone / choice of words - this one is quite simple. I don’t have to do much explaining but I will say that you might be very clear on what you mean or what your tone is but your little one might accidentally get the wrong idea and that is completely okay. you didn’t make a mistake and they might just be feeling a bit unwary so all you need to do is assure them on what your intentions were with what you said!

🧦 ask things instead of demanding things - this one is so simple yet can be very helpful. you or your little one might not even notice that you need to change this but here’s what I mean-

instead of saying “go brush your teeth” or “you should go brush your teeth” say “can you go try and brush your teeth (for me)?”

instead of saying “go eat something” or “you should go eat something” say “do you think you could try and get something eat?”

there are many ways you can ask instead of demand and “demanding” isn’t bad but asking can sound much softer and lenient. sometimes “demanding” is good because some little ones like when they have someone to remind them to do things, etc. but when asking- also make sure your little one knows it’s okay to tell you NO. if they don’t feel like they can go eat something, they do not have to at that minute.

🐾 there is nothing wrong with lots of reassurance / communication - if you have to constantly reassure your little one, that is perfectly okay and there’s no reason for it to be considered a bad thing. for example :

you might tell them something and they might mistake you for being “mad”, if they get upset, etc. just make sure they know that you aren’t upset or mad. have them tell you “why they thought you were mad at them” and then explain what your actual emotions were.

☕️ don’t get upset with them / take out your frustrations out on them - you are human, you are allowed to get frustrated and stressed out but you don’t need to take that out on them / discuss that with them while they’re regressed. when they aren’t regressed, you both can have a conversation about your feelings.

🧦 this one might seem silly but if they feel upset or doubtful or anything else and you can’t find an easy way to reassure them, give them a sticker or a comfort item - this can help them focus on something else instead of their emotions or doubts. after whatever it is calms their mind then you guys can have a talk about it was that made them feel that way.

🐾 let them cry things out / express their emotions - this one is also simple. sensitive little ones may cry a lot or may have lots of emotions to deal with so letting them cry or let their emotions out in healthy ways is good! ways they can do it healthily -

writing out their emotions in a notebook

talking it out with you or a stuffie

drawing out their emotions

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