Who am I?
Since I started my blog there have been a lot of inquiries via DM's about who I am, what am, why I post what I post. However, I also get a lot of unwanted sexual advances.
So to clear up a bunch of things, I thought I would start answering some questions publicly, since I find myself responding with the same answer to the same questions everyday.
1 - I am a CIS gender female. I am not a crossdresser, nor am I transgendered myself. I am however an unabashed lesbian, no questions asked. I don't like men sexually full stop.
2 - I am woman in my 40s, living a fantastic life. Yes, I dated boys when I was younger while trying to find and define my sexuality; However, I also dated girls and women before coming to a point where I understood that I was a lesbian.
3 - Fortunately I grew up as an upper middle class girl who admittedly had a lot of advantages while growing up. I lived in a city that was large enough to have an alternate lifestyle scene where you could be somewhat anonymous.
4 - My first lesbian experience was when I was 14. I attended a private boarding school for girls in the Northeast. Although I had attended boarding school since I was in grade 6, it wasn't until grade 9 when the girls dorm went from 4 girls to a room to a dorm room with just you and another girl. My world changed that year. Giulia my roommate was from Turin Italy; tall, dark with hair to die for. She still holds a special place in my memories and is still one of my very close friends.
5 - I consider any person, regardless of pronouns, who's life takes them on a journey where they are battling gender dysphoria and chooses to embark on achieving their chosen gender identity, to be their chosen gender identity. Therefor, I consider women who have transitioned (i.e. live full time as a woman, are on HRT or who have have undergone gender re-assignment surgery) to be women. This is a basic human right that I fully support. I find femininity to not be bound by birth. I date transgendered women as equally as I do CIS gender females.
6 - I do not date crossdressers. I do not offer, nor do I engage in "sexting". If you are a crossdresser and find yourself on the pathway to choosing a gender identity I will be more than happy to chat, but I will no way engage in any sexual banter.
I will engage with anyone however, who is polite, respectful and well meaning.
7 - I created this blog a couple of weeks after I was in a car accident where I broke my right leg & hip. I was bed ridden with nothing else todo but read, watch crappy TV and surf the web. I was actually looking for fashion options I could get that would accommodate my cast, when I hit upon fashion photos on Tumblr. I started collecting stuff I liked and suddenly my daily web surfing became about what I missed, female beauty and companionship at all its different levels.
8 - What you see is what I like - nothing other than that. BTW, as I mentioned earlier, that includes transgendered women.
9 - My typical preferences are really very simple. I love the female form in all its shapes and sizes. I'm a lesbian because I'm attracted to girls/ladies/women and really feminine things. I am NOT butch, but actually very feminine. I guess the term used in most blogs is "Femme".
While I have many male friends I am NOT sexually attracted to them.
10 - I get a lot of questions asking if I will post/share pictures of myself. Not really; However, there are several photos in my blog of myself that I feel are anonymous enough to share. Look hard and you may pick up on the hints.
NOTE: I look forward to your chat requests, questions or inquiries.