hi, so im also a beginner tarot reader, and wanted to share my experience
there's this kpop idol i really dislike, because of his past actions (he had a bullying scandal and i started disliking him from that).
i can read really well for idols like lisa and jennie, actually can read really well for women in general. especially women that feel that they've been "misunderstood"
but for that male idol, i literally would not get any cards or would just get the cards being really messy and falling out. no matter how many times and methods i shuffled, literally no answer from him lol... not even a general energy check, he refused vehemently.
i also realised that my intentions on doing readings on him were not pure and were aggressive.
so yeah, there was a huge disconnect there.
when tarot readers say "_ consented", they mean it. but also in general, everyone should make sure the reader they are looking at the posts of is a good person, etc.
also my tumblr went down when i tried to send this to you LOL
Thank you so much for sharing your experience, I really liked how you explained everything!!
When youāre connecting with someoneās energy, theyāre connecting with yours and both need to be in agreement to do the reading together.
Sort of a tangent, but itās honestly highly suspicious if people say otherwise⦠thatās why when people ask me how to spot bad readers the main thing Iāll always say is if the reader is technically not saying anything, or if theyāre trying to hit a word count (or even worse, readers who genuinely do their readings based on a word count - if answers come through they come through, if they donāt, they donāt, where is the idea of a word count coming from? š). I came across an ideal type reading recently that I just had to share with Melody because it was sooo bad. All they essentially had to say was: they want someone kind, understands them, is good to them. Like huh,..? Thatās everyone? It felt like they were basically just announcing the person they were doing the reading for didnāt want to connect with them at all, so they were forceful instead and got bullshit answers in return.