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all things femme 🫶🏾

[trapnestmf]

⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ 𓂃 you’re trying to feel your dr with your cr senses

⠀a lengthy shifting guide

why is it so hard to shift from your cr to your dr but not so much vice versa? you’ve spent the first large chunk of your life believing this reality to be the full extent and foundation of existence. even if you now logically understand this not to be the case, the years spent curating and deepening a mental, emotional, and physical anchor to this reality has warped your perception of reality and instilled in to you the subconscious idea that your cr is the default. and in treating it as the default, the end all be all, and in compromising with it, you reinforce the idea that you are attached or stuck here—that it is even a place to get stuck in in the first place. not only do you trap yourself in this reality and grant it power over you that it does not actually have, you start viewing your cr as the “starting point” too, and shifting as some form of transportation from point A to point B. accompanying this belief is an imagined distance created between your current reality and desired reality. you might’ve already recognised this in yourself; the feeling that your dr is somehow faraway, a place that needs to be travelled to.

it’s important to make and internalise the distinction between a shift in realities as an act of metaphysical travel, and a shift in realities as a shift in focus. imo the former is a much better descriptor for what shifting actually is in essence. i will go into more depth later, but a byproduct of being raised the way you were, growing up knowing nothing but your cr and rooting & centring yourself wholly (confined) within it, is the over identification you end up developing with your cr self. you are not living reality, you are watching it. but after years of the constant unbroken immersion, the two become almost impossible to distinguish. you define yourself by and take on as if they were your own the thoughts and identity and feelings of the “vessel” you are observing, and let them dictate how you experience reality. the lines begin to blur between you; your cr self, and you; your awareness/the observer.

feel your hand. don’t touch it, but notice it’s weight and temperature, or the air around it. now feel the feeler. can you feel yourself? or your body, maybe? now go a step further and feel the one feeling. you probably aren’t fully able to, but this is the observer. “the observer”, or the state of being after breaking the immersion, is you in your natural or purest state. it has also been described as pure awareness, the void state, ego death, sakshi, the self, anatta, and interpreted in different ways across a multitude of different religions and branches of spirituality & philosophy, all used as a means to an end for different things. fyi—i’m not saying you have to completely forsake your cr identity or start ignoring/dismissing your senses or thoughts to shift, just understand that those things don’t define you or your reality. the means to the end here is just getting a point across and hopefully helping improve with the approach you take to shifting. all of this to say, you’re not travelling from point A to point B. point A and B are not places you can (technically) even travel to or exist in, because you’re just watching/observing/being aware of. shifting is not the transportation of a self from one location to another. shifting is simply changing what is focused on/experienced; from one stream of experience to another. a shift in focus.

to summarise, you as in your ego, the you in this cr as you know it, your body, your brain, your thoughts, your identity, don’t actually go or shift anywhere. you, your awareness, in favour of perceiving you, your cr self, the one sat at your computer or phone or whatever reading this right now, starts perceiving a different you/ego/self—one that could have the exact same personality, memories, and thoughts, just in another realty, or one that is a different person entirely. there is only a change or “shift” for the observer, not the cr self or ego. so stop trying to feel your dr with your cr senses. you’re not going to. you’re so immersed in your cr and cr self that you automatically rely on this reality’s bodies’ senses to gauge your success when you try to shift, waiting for your cr self to get a cue that it’s never going to get. the surroundings your cr self feels aren’t going to go anywhere. nor are your senses going to shut off. your cr body will continue to receive sensory information, because that’s what bodies do. so don’t lie there expecting your bedsheets to disappear or magically warp into your dr surroundings or something and feel like you’ve failed when they don’t. shifting is not about somehow willing your surroundings to change or lying in your room forcefully convincing yourself that your senses are feeling something else, it’s about acknowledging what’s beyond those senses. feeling and connecting to what your dr self feels.

if you can still feel your cr, it’s not you feeling it, it’s your cr self. and you are not your cr self.

you can apply this to your thoughts too. your thoughts are no less your cr self’s than your senses are. if you start getting doubts mid attempt or can’t let go of the thought or feeling that you’re not in your dr, remind yourself that you are not your feelings or thoughts or doubts. you are simply observing them. of course your cr self will think that they’re still in their cr, they are. just ignore them and shift your attention elsewhere. your focus and awareness are what dictate what you experience, if you relinquish your focus from your cr and direct it to your dr instead, that’s where you’ll “be”.

obviously there’s no one set way to shift, so if you want you can stop reading here and apply this information to your shifting journey in whatever way suits you. if you’re interested in my method though, here’s the compilation of all this info into practical steps you can actually take to shift.

get comfortable somewhere you won’t be disturbed. close your eyes and focus on what you can see. the light behind your eyelids, shapes, colours, whatever. but instead of automatically interpreting these sensations as belonging to your cr, allow them to become sensory input from your dr. light? that’s coming from the lamp by the xyz in your dr bedroom. or maybe your in a field if that’s a fitting setting for your dr, and it’s the sun shining down on you. shapes? that’s because you’ve been lying down with your eyes closed for a while now, you’re tired after your classes or job or whatever you do in your dr. even if it’s nothing at all, let it be your drs nothing. just feel it. do this for about a minute.

then move onto your body. whether it’s sinking, lightness, tingling, focus on it. and do the exact same as you did for the previous step, interpret it as input coming from your dr. don’t worry if you can still feel your body lying in your bed, because your surroundings aren’t going to change—at least not physically. again, those sensations belong to your cr self, and they don’t prevent awareness from directing itself elsewhere. the goal here is to shift your focus away from them and onto something else, so hyperfocusing on your cr and worrying about your surroundings is counterintuitive. just gently guide your attention back to your dr, really try feel your dr surroundings and what your dr body is currently feeling. if you can’t fully avert your focus away from your cr, that’s fine, at the very least just try receive/tap into the input coming from your dr alongside your cr.

finally focus on what you can hear. if you’ve already managed to make a connection with your dr through your sight and physical senses just build up on what you’ve already got. feel grass tickling your skin? deepen the connection there by focusing on the sound now too, the wind blowing through it. see light behind your eyes? focus on the hum of the lights.

repeat these exercises over and over, deepening the connection with each cycle. if you don’t manage to get anything the first cycle just keep going until you do. it might take some practice. like i mentioned before, after spending so much time here and being in constant attunement with your cr self, the sense that your cr is the default starts to take root and it can be difficult to shake the feeling that you’re just indefinitely “here”. it’s normal for it to take some time to learn how to question this feeling and push past it. since you've never (technically?) been aware of anything outside of this reality, learning how to do so can be a bit like learning how to use a muscle you've never used before.

this method operates on the idea that reality is something that is tuned into through focus & narrowed awareness and not something metaphysically travelled across, so for the most success with it, i’d recommend starting to make a conscious effort to see your dr less like a place and more like a wavelength or channel, a perspective already existing beyond your current focus. shifting to your dr then becomes an effort to notice and receive input from this channel/wavelength, input that already exists out there and that simply needs to be acknowledged. you’re just picking up on what’s already there, feeling something that a version of you already feels.

persist in the belief that reality is observed and flexible. you’re not "stuck" anywhere unless you believe you are.

[noseparate]

life is exactly like The Sims

things can happen, moods shift, circumstances pop up, and for a second the mind reacts like it’s all serious and fixed. but when you actually look closely, nothing really stays the same.

a “problem” appears, then changes form.

a feeling hits, then passes.

something that felt intense yesterday can feel completely different tomorrow.

it’s all just experience moving.

and in the middle of it, there’s this quiet awareness that’s just noticing it all without getting pulled into the drama of it.

and what’s even more interesting is this idea that your “reality” isn’t fully rigid either.

you can customize your appearance, change your world, adjust the settings, add new creations, switch up the story, even install “mods” that completely shift how the game feels, and even use cheats that let you bypass limitations and play however you want!

life feels similar in the sense that attention, belief, and imagination completely change how experience shows up. when you focus differently, when you see differently, when you feel differently… the whole “world” feels different too.

so even when life seems intense or fixed, it’s still unfolding moment by moment in awareness like something being experienced, adjusted, and reinterpreted as you go.

and somehow, you’re not just inside the experience

you’re also the awareness noticing it all happening. you’re not the character in the story... you’re the screen the story is appearing on

[prettynpaid]

[slqvicbimbosblog]

Things you don't need to worry about when manifesting:

- how you feel (emotions don't manifest)

- doubts

- intrusive thoughts

- belief

- if you "deserve" it

- if it's "possible" (it is)

- what the 3D looks like

- if you're "assuming" correctly (you are. stop doubting yourself)

[carpentersbarbie]

manifestation is instant because time doesn’t exist

the true explanation of the common term thrown around in the loa community

if you find yourself saying “but how does time not exist?” or “why don’t i have my desires?” then this post is for you

i believe almost everyone here has been confused by the common term “time does not exist”, or “manifestation is instant”. if it was instant, why didn’t i have my desires already?

time does not exist because there is no past or future. it is what you are aligning yourself with that you are experiencing.

let me go further in depth: when you are “remembering” the past, you are visualizing a moment that you associate in the past, and label it a “memory”. it is scientifically proven each time we remember something further from the present, we never remember it entirely accurate. we may add or miss details that may or may not have ever happened.

when you think about the future, you are visualizing something that has not happened yet. let’s say you have a concert tomorrow. you feel excited, you envision yourself walking or taking the bus/train to your designated area. you imagine how the music will sound, or maybe potential interactions you will have with your friends or the people around you. most importantly, you are happy in this moment, one that has not happened.

the key thing that happens with both remembering the past and envisioning the future, is that it stems from imagination. you are imagining a moment and deciding that this is what happened, or what will happen. and what is the #1 thing talked about in law of assumption? how our imagination dictates our life.

by now, i’m sure you’ve gotten my point. if not, I’ll simplify it: time does not exist, because we merely visualize a moment and label it a memory of the past, or an expectation of the future. we deem this to be true, and it is reflected into our 3D. this means that the only thing that truly exists, is now. it is the present.

so we know only the present is real, then how do we tie this back to how manifestation is instant?

if the only moment happening is the present, the moment we say “i have my desire”, it is done. we do not visualize this happening in a day, or a week, but now, because that is the only moment in time that we truly live in.

we don’t focus in what “time” has passed, because again, it does not exist. there is no delay. instead, it is an identity shift that we go through; it is the shift from aligning your inner man from being someone who identifies with the old story, into your dream self. the manifestation itself does not take time to materialize. the only reason you are still in the old story, is because you are further identifying your 3D with a moment you visualize and assign with a past memory.

your undesired past does not exist if you don’t want it to. a future filled with anxiety and fear does not exist if you don’t want it either. it always starts with the mind, and what you are imagining yourself in.

so yes, manifestation is instant. you already have everything you want!!

[carpentersbarbie]

what "just decide" actually means

this is like a brief part two to my affirm and persist post. maybe i'll make it pretty later but i wanted to put my thoughts down first

same with affirm and persist, when people see the term "just decide" they immediately clock out. its all "thats what ive been doing" or "people have hard circumstances we can't 'just decide'" "why isnt it here yet" etc etc

when we tell you to decide, we aren't saying point and blank just decide, and then do a billion methods and affirm 90k times and completely disregard your 3D or find some secret key that will "click" for you. this is not your fault, though, because all our lives we've been taught to do things with effort, and a lot of bloggers/coaches in the community do not elaborate past "just decide"

you decide the same way you decided you wanted to wear a red shirt instead of a black one. you stuck with that decision, therefore it is done. you don't look between both options and then start panicking over "but what if i don't have it" or "its not here" when it is right in front of you. you will always be stuck in the state of someone who is searching and not someone who has it if you continue to identify this way.

when you have your phone, you're in the state of someone that has a phone. it doesn't just magically disappear and leave the moment you don't have it or don't see it, because you automatically stick to the state of someone who just has a phone.

i want to add that the 3D is NOT your enemy either. i hate when people act like the 3D is out to get you and say there is a separation of the 3D/4D when its all the same. it all roots from imagination, and the 3D merely reflects that. same with theres a "death" with ego, that's not a real thing. the ego is not your enemy either, and the ego is never gone completely unless in a state of pure conciousness (like the void). i'll make a separate post about this at some point but i just wanted to put that out there.

it is simply just decide, and stick to it. i'm not telling you to do multiple methods and techniques and reprogram your mind. i'm telling you just decide and STICK TO IT. it doesn't matter HOW you do it, it is just how you remain in the state of someone who has it. it could be through doing SATS, or affirming when you remember, or through meditation. you just have to stick to being the person who has it, because you will always be in that state.

[slqvicbimbosblog]

WHY IT IS POSSIBLE TO CHANGE THE PAST

we have learned that absolutely any desire we have is possible to manifest in our lives because creation is finished. every single probability has already happened and they are all happening in the now.

the way manifesting works is we use our imagination to choose -from all those infinite probabilities- the version of reality that corresponds to the fulfilment of our desire. and by focusing on that specific probability, we transfer to the lifeline where it is true.

the same is true for the past. if all possible versions of the past exist already, then we can focus our imagination on the specific version of the past we would have liked, and this way we will be transferred to the lifeline where this

version of the past is our actual past. it doesn't matter if the event we want to change happened a minute ago, a month ago or 50 years ago. the process to change it is the same in any case.

[crystallilytarot]

Biggest changes until the end of the year 2026

Pile 1

You can get a new job, go into a new school or you will be succesful in your work /study. You can travel, I think it's even more than 1 trip. You can move to a different home, city or even a different country. There will be a period when this new beginning seems hard, you will probably leave behind some people, move on from a toxic situation or bad habits. But it's just a temporary difficult time, you will be confident, you will feel very stable, succesful, powerful.

Pile 2

You can get a glow up, you take care of yourself, practice self-love, you will feel more confident. You can get some admirers, go on dates. Most of this probably won't be long term, but this still can get you to something important. If you are already in a situationship, things can get more serious. You can be succesful in job or school, or any project you started. But there are a conflict with probably a friend, maybe a coworker, though you will have new supportive people around you.

Pile 3

This is a very creative era, you can express yourself through art, fashion, buy new clothes, try a new style or a new hobby. Some of you can get recognized online or can get fame. You can manifest anything now, and your intuition will be stronger. Things are harmonious, balanced, in your family too. Some of these project can lead you to an important person. Make sure to check the opportunities first though, because some are just scams someone can be a liar.

[casket-of-beauty]

[ruesdeluxe]

[lliveonthesunn]

i get why people don't believe in marriage as a social construct but legally it is the best and easiest way to say "this is who i trust to take care of me when i can't take care of myself" and i'm so glad gay people fought for that right bc when shit gets scary at least i know im in good hands

[mysticrev111]

PAC: What talent are you underestimating?

|| In this post, I will discover what your main talent/s are, one talent your conscious overlooks, and how the overlooked talent can help you in your life once embraced. ||

THE PILES (1 -> 2 -> 3)

PILE ONE

Eight of Pentacles, The Chariot, Four of Wands

Pile number one, you have a talent of working hard and staying patient. You are someone who is highly skilled in multiple areas like hobbies, languages etc. Your mind is strong and solid, not because of genetics, but because you chose (and choose) to increase its strength everyday. Your main talent may also be present around your career. I feel like this pile is highly focused on succeeding in a career this lifetime. With Eight of Pentacles, I also feel like this pile's main talent is that you learn extremely fast, and/or easily through practice. However, the talent you underestimate is your ability to stay consistent. This pile gives me the vibe that you know you have the potential and the skill, but not gather motivation to keep going. You ARE someone who decides with confidence, moves with determination and stays set on task. They say success does not only need the skill, but the will to keep going too. That pile one is a special, significant talent you undermine. A way this talent can help you is with your self-esteem and contribution to society. I feel like being aware of yourself for how dedicated you are will make you more confident in yourself, which will clean up space in your heart for joyful moments with close people (family, friends etc). It may also open up possibilities for future connections, perhaps romance 👀

PILE TWO

Ten of Swords, Wheel of Fortune, Page of Cups, High Priestess

Pile two, you are extremely adaptable. Your main talent lays in your ability to survive all kind of events. I'm getting like this pile has some crazy stories in their pockets ready to spill at parties! Lowkey would love to hear them too 😂 You guys have immense tolerance too. I feel like some of you also have definitely manifested desires into reality, any sort of size. However, a talent I see you underestimate is your touch to the spiritual world. Ironic, considering you are here reading pac tarot at the moment. I conclude this card as that you have a very sensitive heart that runs deeper than oceans, an open mind, and a big imagination that are overlooked. You may ignore your intuition a lot, whether consciously or subconsciously, and let your creativity run away. By diving deeper into your own spiritual self, you will transform into someone who is not just aware of who they truly are in soul matter, but also someone who finally sees the complete truth unmasked by fog. Suspecting awakenings too. Follow your gut; intuition never lies. For those whom haven't manifested successfully yet, believe me when I say unlocking your full potential and tapping into your intuition will help you massively.

PILE THREE

Seven of Pentacles, Seven of Wands, Queen of Swords

Pile number three, your main talent is your perception. You are an individual who knows the power of sustainability and consistency. Your ability to look at the bigger picture to events helps you work in specific motions that provide you success at the end. However, you overlook your dominance. You are someone capable of winning competitions, arguments, fights and challenges but doubt yourself and perhaps fear stepping into that power. You are also someone who has a strong defence on things you care for such as personal values or close people. That pile three is not something everyone achieves to create, many people in life go on completely exposed whilst not protected from evil, risking their lives. You on the other hand know the importance of protecting what we own to keep peace, and that is admirable. Allowing yourself to be more dominant will greatly improve your communication style. It will make your approach more authentic, real and honest towards others. I suspect respect and admiration from people in similar circumstances.

Thank you for reading! <3

[spokelse-heks]

Pick a pile: What does your "future self" think of the decisions you're making today?

Pile 1: page of swords, the death and Knigth of wands.

Your future self is proud of you. They think you're being incredibly brave and that, even though you might feel fear or uncertainty right now, you're making the right decision. They see that you're finally opening your eyes, questioning your reality, and seeking the truth without filters. They congratulate you for using that sharp mind and cutting ties with a dead chapter, burying the past and allowing your life to be completely transformed.

Your future self is eager for you to see the result. Your future self tells you: "Thank you for having the courage to change course. Stop hesitating and accelerate, because that radical change is what will give us back our zest for life."

Pile 2: The temperance, the hanged man and 3 of wands.

Your future self feels profound relief at the maturity you're demonstrating today. They know you're leaving behind unnecessary conflicts, calming your anxiety, and healing your wounds. They are infinitely grateful that you've decided to slow down and tap into this positive energy. Instead of acting desperately or angrily, you're choosing to shift your perspective, look at your life from a different angle, and calmly consider your decisions.

Your future self tells you, "Thank you for having the patience we lacked." Even if things feel slow right now or that you're in an uncomfortable pause, you're laying the foundation for a bright future. You're intelligently designing your next big step. Your future self embraces you and asks you not to despair: you're on the right path, and this calm today is what will fund tomorrow's success.

Pile 3: 10 of swords, 6 of swords and 2 of wands.

Your future self looks at you with absolute respect and says, "Thank you for not giving up when everything was falling apart." Your future self knows perfectly well the ordeal you've endured: that devastating pain, that betrayal, that ending that left you hitting rock bottom and feeling like you couldn't go on. What they appreciate most about your decisions today is your courage to have said "enough" and to have begun that retreat in time toward calmer waters, moving away from what was destroying you, even though it broke your heart.

Today you are regaining control of your life. Your future self sees you standing on the edge of your new world, holding the map of your destiny and calmly deciding where you want to go. They tell you, "The pain is behind you now, on the other side. Don't look back, not even to gather momentum. You are planning your freedom, and every step you take today toward your peace is the best decision you've made in years. Keep going; the horizon is yours."

Dividers made by @honeyluvsw

[spokelse-heks]

Pick a pile: How can you increase your creativity?

Pile 1: 2 of pentacles, 5 of swords and 5 of wands.

To unlock your creative genius, the first step is to stop being afraid of thinking you're "copying." You have a brutal internal war, constantly comparing yourself to the noise and competition around you. You sabotage yourself by thinking, "This looks so much like so-and-so's work; I'm sure I'm stealing the idea." You have to understand that imitating or doing things similar to what you like is, precisely, the first natural step to learning how to create genuine things.

The universe is asking you to find a clear balance. Obviously, you're not going to copy anyone's work word for word, but you can take a structure, a style, or a concept and filter it through your own lens. Also, remember that we're in the age of AI; anything you do on your own, anything you create on your own, already has immeasurable value. Lose your fear of the conflict of originality, draw inspiration from your role models, and start creating from your own voice. At first, it will resemble everyone else's work, but little by little, you'll find the key, what makes it yours.

Pile 2: The lovers, the magician and 9 of swords.

This might be controversial, but it's been very helpful for me, and that's why I interpret these cards this way. I apologize if it offends you… Your greatest source of inspiration will come from your darkest and most uncomfortable moments. I know you suffer from sleepless nights, anxiety, and a mind racing in the dark. The tarot tells you to stop fighting that lack of sleep and turn it into your greatest ally. Can't sleep? Don't just stare at the ceiling suffering: get up, grab a piece of paper, open your computer, and start creating. It might not be so literal; perhaps you're just going through a rough patch, and that pain is pure creative potential. Release that pain with whatever you want to create. I write my stories of pain and channel everything out. You have a powerful ability to manifest and a deep connection to your intuition when the world sleeps. Use that nocturnal energy to channel your passion and bring genuine ideas to life. Become a 21st-century Edgar Allan Poe (but without the alcoholism and depression, please), just keep the magic of transmuting your insomnia into pure art. Your best works will be born when the noise of the day fades away.

Pile 3: The justice, the charriot and the 7 of cups.

Your problem isn't a lack of ideas, but your mental chaos. You are an incredibly abundant and creative person; your mind is a universe of options, projects, and brilliant fantasies. The problem is that you get so scattered imagining everything you could do that you end up paralyzed and do nothing.

To unblock yourself, the universe is demanding that you get organized and start working on your creative project.

Get your feet on the ground, grab a piece of paper, use cold logic, and make a drastic decision: choose just one of all those ideas and discard the rest for now. Once you have your priority clear, everything will fall into place naturally… You might even organically build that idea on all the others. Your creativity doesn't need more muses; it needs structure, focus, and direction.

Dividers by @crookedporcelain

[princess4nastasia]

Who is your next partner? (Men/Masculine Version)

♡Pick-A-Pile♡

NOTES: This is for people who are interested in men/masculine energy. Take what only resonates. This is a group reading and not everything will apply to you. I will be making a women/feminine version in my next post.

Pile 1 𓅨 -

I sense a deep sadness in this person that they may smoke to distract the pain. They had a rough life. This person is more observant than you think. They watch your every move and not in a creepy way but trying to understand you. I feel shy for some reason and my face is heating up. They’ll probably make you nervous. You will feel or see them scanning you up and down. They’re not the type of person who opens up easily and is guarded. They don’t talk much and rather listen. Even if you get to know them more, they’re not a yapper. Seems nonchalant and pretends that they don’t care at first. I’m seeing that you see them outside smoking and they notice you. I feel like they’ll ask you something first, which is out of character for them because they don’t usually talk first. Maybe you’re outside smoking too and if not, maybe you’re just standing there for a moment, waiting for something. The question might be meaningful and deep. Not a superficial question. This person only talks if it’s something important or curious. I feel like you’ll be confused at first or caught off guard by the question. Even if you’re unsure if you made sense, this person will probably chuckle or a soft smile at your answer. That is out of character for them again since they seem like a serious person for first impressions. They might ask you if you’re around here. I feel like they’ll ask you questions while you yap away. You make this person act out of their character because I feel like you make them laugh or smile a lot. This relationship will be a slow burn because they’re guarded. I feel like this person had past partners that misunderstood them which resulted in break ups. This person struggles to open up and that frustrated their past partners. I feel heavy in the chest. They might feel scared to open up to people because they’re afraid that people won’t like or understand what they feel. I think this person holds back on their pain to prevent a fight or they think their feelings are a hassle that’ll make things worse. They had past relationships that invalidated their feelings. “You’re too much”, “Why are you overreacting?”, “It’s not that serious”. In the past, this person felt deeply that they wanted to be in relationships that are superficial because their own feelings are too deep to handle themselves but after a few relationships, they realized that’s not what they actually wanted because their partners don’t understand them. To feel deeply is to love deeply and they want to love deeply. This reminds me of a quote in a game called God of War. “To grieve deeply, is to have loved fully” and “The culmination of love is grief, and yet we love despite the inevitable.” Not saying someone is gonna die but hopefully you get the energy and feeling about loving deeply. This person probably works at a job that doesn’t require them to talk much. Something to do with their hands like heavy lifting. They don’t have a big circle of friends. Even if they do, I'm seeing that it’s only one or two friends they’re close with. For charms, we have cancer and taurus signs. This confirms that they have deep emotions and are loyal. The Chinese zodiac Rooster is observant, confident, honest, hard worker, but critical, perfectionist, blunt, and close-minded. They could be born in the year of 1981, 1993, and 2005. You guys will have children together and if you don’t want children, this relationship will feel nurturing and caring. The color brown is significant. 

Pile 2 𐦍 -

This person has a low soft voice. They’re known for being sweet and charismatic. I’m not getting a loud charismatic person. Still popular, just not loud. People feel like they can be safe with them about their emotions. People might ask them for emotional support/advice. People can sense that they’re sensitive or have emotions. Ladies love that they’re connected to their emotions and empathic. They notice that ladies are attracted to them but I feel like they’re selective. It feels like they’re picky or specifically looking for something in someone. For some reason I feel like in the past when people confessed to them, they felt like they had to like them back because they didn't want to hurt their feelings. I feel a heavy burden in my heart. They felt like it was a burden to like them back. They’ll sacrifice their own feelings to save others. People would confess their love for them in public and it’s like someone proposing to you in public. Especially if you’re not ready to be married. Public peer pressure. Their past partners broke up with them after a while because their partners noticed that they don’t like them that much or not showing enough affection. When you guys meet or cross paths, the both of you will be in public. You guys pass each other, they look back at you and take a double look at you. It feels like a crowded place and people around you are having fun or chatting. They're gentlemen. They will open doors for you and give you flowers. They’re like a hopeless romantic. I keep getting that they’re very sweet and gentle, especially with you. They will look at you with their gentle eyes with such care. When they want to kiss you, they will ask you with their eyes for permission. This person is down bad for you that they may try to seduce you when you get deep into a relationship with them. Not in a lustful way but they want you because they really like you. I feel like they’re obsessed with you too, that they stare at you and want to be with you all the time. It’s like a dog wagging their tail when they see you. This person will playfully flirt with you and banter to get you to engage with them because they love to see you smile and laugh. Physical touch is their love language. They will hold your hand, comb their fingers in your hair, touch your face, and their hands on your waist. If you guys ever get into a fight, they will do anything to fix it immediately. I’m getting that they’ll fumble around or try to get you to talk so they know what’s wrong. Kind of like begging in a way. For charms, there’s candies which aligns what I said before, they’re sweet. This person sleeps a lot, indecisive, and could like or wear the colors white and orange. They have a balance of masculine and feminine energy or the both of you play the part of masculine and feminine energy balancing each other. This relationship is like a tree, starting off small then growing into prosperity. It’s staying big and strong, lasting forever. 

Pile 3 𓅯-

For first impressions, people are intimidated by them. Prominent thick eyebrows and intense eyes. They wear black clothes often and dress neatly. I feel like this person knows that people are intimidated by them so they won’t approach you right away. They will observe you first to know what energy you’ll be comfortable with because they don’t want to scare you. They’ll watch the people you interact with to match their energy but not in a manipulative or creepy way. I feel like you won’t notice them yet. For some reason they’re very good at not being detected. They’re watching you from a good distance. It’s giving a predator studying their prey ngl. Waiting for the right timing to pounce/take action. They could be waiting until the people around you walk away so they can talk to you. They might ask you questions that relate to the place you're at. “How are you liking this place so far?”, “Are you having fun?”, “What made you come here?”. They’ll give casual talk first to break the ice. I feel like they’ll stumble on their words because they’re not sure how to talk to you. They look intimidating but you will find them cute and nervous. When you guys are in a relationship for a while, they’ll still be shy and nervous around you especially if you tease and flirt with them. Double homicide lol. They’re materialistic and like to spend money on you. Just tell them what you want and they’ll buy it for you. This person takes care of their looks. They do their hair, skincare, or shave. Wearing cologne and having a clean look to them. They could wear earrings. I feel like they did have past relationships but their path and goals were different. It didn’t align with each other. They could’ve had different ideals and futures. I think this person is looking for someone to settle down with. They want to have a family with someone. I feel like they have already achieved many things in their life that they want to have a family now. If you don’t want to have children, they want to feel like they belong somewhere and feel like home. You feel like home to this person. This person was probably the black sheep in their family which is why they want someone to call home. They imagine stuff like a partner greeting them at the door when they come home, cuddling on the couch, watching movies, late night talk, and drinking together. They looovveee cuddling, I had to say that again and sleeping while cuddling with each other. They’re a homebody. This person gives Taurus/Capricorn vibes by all the things I’ve said. Earthy, grounding, and safe. I’m getting that they have a stable or a good career. They’re financially well off and support you in need if you need help with money. For charms, we have the Chinese zodiac sheep and dog. Sheeps are soft-hearted, creative, shy, artistic, calm, but can be pessimistic, indecisive, sensitive, and dependent. Dogs are loyal, responsible, brave, protective, but can be emotional, stubborn, anxious, and critical. Sheeps are born in the year of 1979, 1991, and 2003. Dogs are born in 1982, 1994, and 2006. You might be traveling on a plane or going out of the country, state, or city that’s more far away from your home town when you meet them or reverse roles flipped. You or them could have the initial or a letter P in your name. Someone’s cousin will be involved with the two of you meeting. The colors brown, peach, and red-orange are significant. 

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Pick a card: What Does Your Person Tell Their Friends About You?

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Pile 1🌟

Pile 2💓

Pile 3🎈

Pile 1

For Pile 1 the first thing I'm getting is that they might tell their friends that they're panicking, especially when it comes to the relationship between you both.

It's like they keep trying to convince themselves that this is not a big deal or asking themselves "Is this really the person for me?" They could be overthinking whether to make that choice or not. I feel like they might constantly ask their friends things like "Do you think she's really good for me?" or "Am I good enough for her/him?" Of course, take the genders however they resonate.

They could also be wondering "Am I going to be the right person for them?" So there is a lot of confusion because they want to make the right decision. And honestly I feel like they want their friend's approval too. If their friends acknowledge that you're the right person, it gives them more confidence in their decision.

So they are always asking their friends for reassurance. Like "I'm going to ask her out on a date" or "I'm planning to do this next." And I feel like their friends are constantly cheering them on 😭

Also, I feel like this person tells their friends things like "I think she would like this" or "I should buy this for her" or "I think this gift would suit her/him. I hope she/he likes it."

This person overthinks a lot. They want everything to be perfect for you. They're always wondering whether you'll like something whether they're doing enough whether they're making the right choice. They constantly seek reassurance from their friends.

And honestly, I can hear their friends saying "Okay that's enough. Stop talking about it and just go talk to her." 😭

That's exactly the vibe I'm getting.

Their friends are almost like "Oh God here they come again. They're going to start talking about her again." They're a little fed up because this person talks about you so much 😭

I genuinely feel like their friends think this person really needs to get into a relationship already. They're always pushing them like, "Just go talk to her. You'll never know unless you try."

I also feel like this person wants to surprise you. They tell their friends things like "I'm planning to surprise her. Do you think she'll like it?" or "I bought her this cup. I hope she likes the color." They think about every little detail and discuss it with their friends.

Another thing I'm getting is that they talk about you almost like you were manifested into their life. Like some kind of magical blessing. They tell their friends things like "I can't believe this person is actually in my life."

And honestly, I feel like their friends are telling them "I think this person is everything you've ever wanted. I think they're exactly what you've been looking for."

I also feel like they tell their friends how capable you are. They admire how good you are at whatever you do. Whether it's your work, studies, hobbies or passions, they think you're incredibly talented.

They'll say things like, "She's so good at what she does" or "Everything looks so easy when she does it." They're genuinely in awe of you.

I also feel like they admire how independent you are. You do so much on your own and they find that incredibly attractive. They tell their friend "She's honestly so cool."

And honestly, I think they see you as an absolute jackpot 😭 Like one of the best things that has ever happened to them.

I also feel like even when they're out late with their friends they're still thinking about you. They're wondering "Has she reached home safely?" or "What is she doing right now?"

So even when they're physically with their friends, part of their mind is still with you. And finally, I feel like they talk about the future a lot.

They tell their friends things like, "I want to do this for her" or "I need to reach this stage in my life before I propose" or "I want to build something stable with her."

They're excited about the future with you. They're excited about all the things they want to do together and all the plans they have in mind.

So yes, that's what I'm getting for Pile 1. This is such a sweet and positive energy 😭✨

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Pile 2

Okay I already feel like all the baddies are here 😭

I'm not saying the other piles don't have baddies but this pile is giving me that energy strongly. Welcome to the reading ☺️

I'm sensing some kind of vintage energy. I don't know exactly what it is. It could be something related to you or your person. Vintage, classic vibes, Something along those lines.

The first thing I'm getting is that they think you're an absolute baddie 😭 And when they talk about you to their friends, they tell them how stable, reliable, patient and strong you are. They genuinely think you're incredibly resilient.

They're like "My person is so strong. They've been through so much and they're still standing."They brag about you a lot. I also feel like you're somebody who works incredibly hard especially when it comes to your career, finances, studies or personal goals. It feels like you always have so much on your plate.

Your person tells their friends things like, "She's working so hard" or "He's working so hard." They admire how dedicated you are. At the same time, I feel like they worry about you too.

They see how much you sacrifice for your goals. Your time, your energy, your effort. They know how much work you put into everything you do.

And honestly I feel like they sometimes tell their friends "I hate seeing her struggle so much" or "I wish I could help him somehow."

Not because they think you're weak. Quite the opposite. They know you're capable. They know you can achieve whatever you set your mind to.

But they also think you don't give yourself enough rest. That's a huge message coming through. They're worried about your workaholic tendencies 😭

They tell their friends things like, "I know she'll achieve her goals" or "I know he'll get there eventually." But at the same time they're saying "I just wish they would slow down and take care of themselves."

I also feel like even when they're hanging out with their friends, they're checking up on you.

They're texting or calling you like:

"Did you finish your work?"

"Have you eaten?"

"Are you home yet?"

"Are you finally relaxing?"

And their friends are probably just sitting there watching this happen 😭

I don't see their friends having strong opinions about you because they mostly see you as an independent, hardworking person.

Your person is the one constantly talking about you. They're the one hyping you up from the beginning. They're also constantly telling their friends that you're everything they've ever wanted. And sometimes I feel like they're the type to pull you away from work and responsibilities.

Like "Come on, enough work."

"Take a break."

"Let's go do something fun."

It's almost like they want to spoil you a little because they feel like you carry too much responsibility all the time.

Another thing I'm hearing is that they tell their friends you're a creator. You have passion. You create things, build things, dream things into existence. Whether that's a creative hobby, a business, a project, studies or something you're passionate about, they absolutely admire that side of you.

They'll say things like:

"She's working on this right now."

"He's so passionate about what he does."

They love seeing you pursue your goals. And there are moments where they avoid calling you because they know you're busy 😭

They're like:

"I don't think I should call right now. They're probably stressed with work."

Or:

"They're probably frustrated about something right now. I'll let them finish first." They just know that you need your own space to do your things.

So yes that's what I'm getting for Pile 2.

A lot of admiration, a lot of pride and honestly a lot of concern because they care about you so much and want you to take better care of yourself 🤍 I hope you enjoyed the reading.

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Pile 3

So your person is different 😭 from the other piles

They really really love you. Like insanely love you. And they tell their friends exactly that. They tell their friends that they see a future with you. They see a lifelong relationship with you. They see marriage, commitment and building a life together.

I also feel like they tell their friends that you love them so much and that your love alone is enough for them. This feels so romantic. You two are genuinely very romantic together and that's the strongest energy coming through.

They tell their friends that you are their world. And I feel like they also tell their friends that you bring out the positive side of everything. You always try to see the bright side. You always find hope even when situations are difficult.

This person sees you as someone to protect, cherish, nurture and care for. And I'm not saying this in a bad way but they think you're very delicate to them. Like someone precious. They think you're adorable 😭 I can literally hear them telling their friends that

"She's so cute."

"He's so cute."

They also tell their friends that you're naturally optimistic. Even when people aren't kind to you, you still try to see the good in them. And that amazes them.

I also feel like this person wants to travel the world with you. You may have mentioned traveling before or maybe both of you love the idea of it. And I can hear them telling their friends things like

"I want to go there with them."

"I want us to try this food together."

"I want to visit this place with them."

It's like they're constantly imagining future experiences with you. So obvious that their friends notice it immediately.

Their friends are probably teasing them all the time because it's so clear how much they love you. This person also talks about building a solid foundation with you. They see stability. They see a future. They see something long term. And they tell their friends all about their future plans with you.

Another thing I'm getting very strongly is proposal energy. I feel like this person wants to propose to you someday. In fact I feel like they've spent a lot of time thinking about how they would do it. The funny thing is they become incredibly indecisive 😭

Like:

"Should I do it here?"

"Should I do it there?"

"Should I take them on a trip?"

"Should I make it private?"

"Should I make it special?"

They think about every little detail.

And honestly they overthink it so much that their friends eventually get tired of hearing about it 😭

Their friends are basically like,

"Enough."

"Stop overthinking."

"If you want to do it, then just do it."

"You've been talking about this forever."

That's literally the energy. Their friends keep encouraging them to stop planning every tiny detail and actually take action. And honestly, I feel like at some point their friends are just going to say

"Go make it happen."

"And call us for the wedding." 😭

That's genuinely the energy I'm getting for Pile 3.

This feels very sweet, very romantic, and very future oriented.

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Rihanna in 2006 ･ﾟﾟ･｡☆