Open your heart

No judgement. For "problematic" 'kin folk. General trigger warning.

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Feel free to send these in more often. These tend to be fun to answer since I enjoy most submissions we get here. Even if its just to complain about stupid (but relevant) shit.

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this blog has always been a comfort for me for years. its nice knowing i'm not alone. i hope all confessors (and mods!) have a great day/night :)

Don't have the energy to post everything in our inbox right now, but this one made me smile :) Thank you, we're happy to be here.

Nobody is really alone, and its okay to be and feel.

Hope you're doing well <3

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Send things. Confess more things. I hunger.

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Even though he raped me and abused me and nearly killed me on several occasions I’m still madly in love with him. I’d do anything for him. I didn’t mean for him to die. I love him more than anything and I’d fucking kill anyone who thinks he wants them more than me. He’s told me before that I’m all he wants. I get so possessive..

Please never change. We need people like you, speaking on behalf of all sadists and biastophiles everywhere.

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i wonder if he misses me the same way i miss him

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i miss my dad. i know what we had was wrong. i know that it was rape. i know i was way too young for him. but he loved me. the only time he was happy to see me was when we were in bed together. i know im probably not missing the sex and more missing the attention but still. he loved me. he called me his wife even though im a boy. he held me so gently, i was sure nothing could hurt us. his kisses were so soft and sweet and he loved me! why does no one understand that? everyone keeps saying it was gross and rape and incest and bad but it wasnt! he loved me! he chose me! why is it wrong for him to love me? sorry for ranting at you, i just miss him so damn much and no one gets it. - d.w. (tag as fictive please).

Aw, touching love story. There is no right or wrong way to love, though there are right and wrong actions... All the same, people who do wrong things are still lovable people. Everyone is. You were simply made to love him, and it's okay to be who you are.

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I know he was never intentionally a bad guy, and that just makes me love him even more. Especially after what we went through. If I'd just been able to hold him even once before he'd died... but it wasn't safe. Not because of him, but because of what was controlling him at the time. Had that not been there though, and those demons both mundane and supernatural chasing us... maybe I could have entertained the thought more. I didn't just love my brother. I wanted my brother to love me back, in ways that I would never tell to the others... and maybe I'll never have the courage to tell him myself either. But if he does know... I wonder if he thinks similarly about his sister...?

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I'm just a puppy boy kin but I feel so sadly with no other puppies to be my friend nor any owner tis the life tho ;^;

Im sure there are lots of puppies out there, but I'm not sure if theres a community space for nekomimi style hybris in general. Worth looking for but if there isn't somebody should make a space for that, because its pretty common.

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It makes me so upset on my lover’s behalf when people say that our relationship is selfcest. Not because I think that would be wrong, either, I think that’s totally fine, but because Roxas is HIS OWN PERSON. Reducing him and our relationship to just me (Sora) being narcissistic or “masturbatory” or self-obsessive is denying him the personhood that he deserves.

The Organization wasn’t right!!

You people aren’t right!!

Roxas is his own person and I love him!

I know a Somebody and their Nobody being together is “weird” because he was formed from me, but he’s not me, he’s Roxas.

Stop denying my husband his identity just because you’re weird about anything you consider selfcest/pseuo-incestuous.

Pretty based take at the end, I agree

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i hate hate hate hate hate rosemary because ive BEEN THERE MAN it was HORRIBLE

rose did NOT give a shit about kanayas feelings and kan only stayed in the relationship because she didnt think shed get another chance to be in one and it makes me so so so mad

i loved kanaya so much she deserved so much better and i know its a dick thing to say but i KNOW i wouldve treated her better

i blocked the tag and everything but people dont always tag and seeing this shit just ruins my day

— dave strider

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I'm really fucking mad at myself for kinning this character from an 18+ media when I'm a minor

But like I guess I'm just

This dude now 😒

-Lawrence Oleander(btd 2)

Thats what happens when you play/watch porn games while a minor smh (I don't really care but I see why you're embarassed)

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Robin Buckley please please please step on me. - A Max Mayfield who could never stop simping hard for you

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i was in love with my brother. like, really really in love with him. i dont think he knew. i miss him.

I hope you find him again, and that this time nothing holds you back.

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I think I had feelings for the one person I was definitely not supposed to have feelings for. I think I still HAVE feelings for him.

Fuck. I treated that lad like shit.

You can have feelings for anybody and the feelings are still yours. Still valid. Embrace them and love wholeheartedly.

If they're worth all that love they might even forgiven you.

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I keep going from saying I'm otherkin to saying I'm not otherkin because I don't know if I am or if my brain is just latching onto stuff for comfort or to keep me from pain. Sorry, I know this blog isn't for this but I'm so desperate to just know. I feel like I'm just faking or something.

If you're nervous about faking then you're not faking. You're just feeling an experience and trying to find which label works. Stop focusing on "am I really" and focus on "this is my experience, which term describes it best?" The terms being things like kintype (spiritual and psychological) / linktype / heartype / resonance / past life only (not your current identity) and probably other terms I dont remember right now. Do some reading on otherkin terminology and find out what works.

Either way though: You're experiencing an identity-adjacent thing, and experiencing it means you're experiencing it. The proof is in the pudding. You "are", you just don't know exactly *what* you are. And you'll find that out by exploring it further, rather than stressing over the concept of validity.

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Why why why?

I was 16 in my memory, technically 11 but some time loop shit happened.

Other shit happened and now I'm head over heels for a 24 year old :/

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Hey so update, I actually took the response I got here to heart and I started looking for people like me a little more. I found a whole community of people who value the a/b/o lifestyle just as much as I do!! And also, I told a couple of my friends about this side of me!! They seemed to take it well, even asked questions and they seemed genuinely accepting

I've never felt this accepted before. A part of me I was taught was wrong for so long, being accepted and embraced by a community I never even knew existed until a couple days ago.. it's so surreal. Hell, I may have even made a friend? Another omega hopped into my DMs and we've just been talking about our experiences all night

Idk I just wanted to say thank you. That little bit of encouragement was all I needed to find my people. Keep doing what you're doing. It makes more of a difference than you know

-Omega Antisepticeye

I did see your tags and it makes me very happy to hear this full update as well. Im not surprised you were able to find more like you, but I thought it might take you a bit longer. Very glad it happened so quickly into you branching out.

It really is better to find "your people" than to hide in shame. We're all stronger with friends and allies. Also thank you, honestly just knowing we've helped makes us very happy.