Tested & Treated
Hello guys, so for my first post I will be introducing myself and talking about my experience at the LGBTQ Center in Hollywood.
My name is Jonathan and I currently live in sunny (sometimes TOO sunny) California. When people ask how old I am I lie and say 23, but not because I am ashamed of my actual age (pssst he's actually 24) but because I'm ashamed that I have not finished school or done anything with my life. So, I feel like making myself "younger" I can justify the fact that I am "Nowhere Boy" in life right now. Uni was a thing and still is a thing, 7 years counting, don't even get me started on that. I still feel like I've grown and matured a lot, I feel much more ready to take over the world than I did when I was scheduled to graduate. I've been 2 months free from a 5 year toxic relationship that took most of my youth...but I have been grateful to have met this really nice guy. Which is why I'm writing about our experience at the center with getting tested.
So, the results have not came back, but I am sure I will be testing positive for gonorrhea...Should this be embarrassing to talk about? Yes, but most young LGBTQ people would be too embarrassed to speak about it. Why? STI's happen all the time. It's better to bring it up, take care of it and learn from your mistakes.
But what a great way to start October, right? Boo betch, you got gonorrhea. You whore.
This day means a lot to me though because I was honest with the guy I've been talking to for months now...that I might be positive in this STI. He not once judged me nor did he ask if I cheated on him. Because I haven't, bible. Not only that, he was okay with coming along for the testing and was even going to get tested just in case he has it or possibly got exposed; by me.
He was with me the entire process. 7 hours in Hollywood. I think I love the guy. But I'm waiting for the right time to drop the "L" word.
We both got shot in the butt...the worst ever. Then we went to meet his sister, that was fun.
Overall, a horrific day turned into a romantic healthy adventure. Always be safe guys and gals. Don't be embarrassed to talk about how you feel and what's going on with your bodies. Talk to me if you feel embarrassed. I got you boo.
Cheers to my first blog post and for many more.
-Jonathan V.
