I'm seeing a lot of posts on my dash lately about how therian culture has become more materialistic, how therians feel the need to have masks and tails because everyone on TikTok has them, how back in the day we didn't do any of this and connected with our theriotypes in ways that didn't require money.
I get what they're trying to say, but I want to share a different perspective.
I made my first piece of gear when I was 11, in a time not just before TikTok but before most people had internet in their homes, period. I didn't know what a furry was, let alone a therian, but I knew that the tails and costumes in Super Mario Bros. 3 made me feel a strange longing.
I made that first tail out of felt, superglue, fabric scraps for stuffing, and a safety pin to attach it to the back of my pants. With the materials I already had in my house, it couldn't have cost more than ÂŁ5 and was probably a lot less. It wasn't an act of shameless consumption or an attempt to get likes or views; I did it because I felt bad that I didn't have a tail and felt better having one. I was dysphoric.
When I first discovered the online therian community (at the time it was called the were community, as in werewolf), I found that most people had negative attitudes towards tails, ears, and what we now call "gear". It was associated with the furry community, and furries were "gross perverts" who were "just roleplaying" animals. If you were really an animal, you didn't need any of that stuff, you were just a poser.
As a result, I ended up spending a lot more time in the otherkin community, where things like costuming and even getting your ears pointed were more accepted.
When I see young therians today, with their cardboard masks and yarn tails- things that probably didn't cost any more to make than my own first tail- I don't see rampant consumerism. These are mostly people putting in effort to handcraft their own appearances, or in some cases, buying them from small makers. In them, I see myself at 11 trying to feel better about my body.
Plus, I see a wonderful way for people to share photos and videos of themselves that are affirming, without doxxing themselves. Showing your face on camera is a huge risk in this age of surveillance, and it's especially risky for young people. If it's a trend for folks to wear face coverings when posting pictures and it makes them feel euphoric, it's a trend I wholeheartedly endorse.
I'm glad they have that outlet. I'm glad it isn't "cringe" anymore to wear a mask or a tail, or to draw lines on your shoes with permanent marker to look like paws (another practically free trend that I see a lot). I'm glad therians have more ways to recognise each other in public. I'm glad if, in this world where we'll probably never have the bodies we long for, we can at least have something.
And yes, it's worth challenging our relationship to material goods. But ask yourself if you're more angry at the miniscule amounts of consumerism you can see, just because you can see it, than at the big companies that are generating the vast majority of emissions, plastic waste and food waste. A little industrial sabotage would do so much more good than shaming every therian on TikTok, which will do precisely zilch.