QueenButchXX

I am a 60 yr old butch lesbian, that came out at 58. We must stop the homophobic conversion therapy of young butch girls. Butch IS Beautiful!

[wandering-feminist]

It’s only natural for gay people to feel disconnected from traditional man/womanhood, as many facets of these gender roles are comprised of heterosexuality and behaviours intended to appeal to the opposite sex. This does not mean that being gay makes one less of a man or woman, only that gay people are less likely to meet society’s expectations of members of their sex. If you are gay and struggle to “feel like” or relate to society’s ideas of what you should be as a male or female, please know that this is perfectly normal. Being gay and gender-noncomforming is wonderful, and there is nothing wrong with being your own kind of man/woman.

[fuckyeahhardfemme]

Kissing in front of the anti gay protesters at Vienna Pride.

[fennecandco]

Trauma didn't make me nice, I consciously made me nice because I don't want anyone else to suffer like I did. Trauma didn't make me strong, I made me strong. Don't you dare ever tell me my trauma made me anything but scared, broken, and confused. Don't give credit to the abusers for me being a good person. They didn't make me good, I made myself good.

[seekingmyinnerself]

I’m sure a lot of people feel this.

[queenbutchxx]

This 100%!

WE MAKE OURSELVES GOOD

We choose to be better. Stronger. More than.

WE CHOOSE

[queenbutchxx]

Wrote some bindrunes and tattooed them on my fingers, White/green.

Cosmic Mother on my hand. My second, third and fourth tattoos ever. I am learning....

[queenbutchxx]

Please stop amputating healthy breasts! PLEASE!

[queenbutchxx]

I channel this when facing TRAs on Twitter!

[queenbutchxx]

PSA

Lesbians are FEMALE HOMOSEXUALS

We EXCLUDE MEN.

[queenbutchxx]

PSA

Women are BORN not WORN.

[queenbutchxx]

Some of my younger lesbian friends dubbed me Queen Butch. I am so close to Queen Bitch, which is taken lol, that I loved this. So I am changing my SM names to this. Fun stuff. Life has to be fun, lively and loving, otherwise what’s the point? Love your butch dyke selves! I finally do.

[cowboyjen68]

[queenbutchxx]

[cowboyjen68]

Want to know the answer to the questions “Do we still need gay bars?”

Yes. Our only local gay bar set up a community pantry to give away items to anyone in need after the devastating storm last Monday. He organized sandwich making to distribute to volunteers working on clearing. (since our governor has yet to do much of anything all clean up is  on volunteers and many companies (including out of state) who are doing things cheap or trusting that insurance money or state grants will pay out. The city workers are amazing. The line worker for the electric companies from all over the place are amazing. 

He ran power to an elderly lady behind the bar for fans and a fridge. He organized clean up in her yard and will be fixing her fence… installing a gate so he can continue to check on her. (she is 90).

He gives away FREE ice all day every day and had hotdogs and hamburgers ready for anyone needing a hot meal. 

SO YEAH.. we need gay bars. 

[queenbutchxx]

Am learning to tattoo. Soon my body will be covered in various images of Goddess. Am excited!

Practice practice practice....

Am happy to be a butch dyke that loves art! Soon I will be able to tattoo others at female festivals. My tattoo gun is portable with everything I need to be sanitary and safe. It is a rotary machine. So excited! Yep! So much...... 😁😁💛💛💛💪💪💪

[cowboyjen68]

A day late and a dollar short but Happy Butch Appreciation day (yesterday) to all my butch friends… those with chainsaws and those with computer skills. Those who wear the same pants for 3 days (me) and those who put on a tie to go to work. A BIG BUTCH NOD TO YOU ALL!

[queenbutchxx]

I am learning to tattoo. My machine arrived today! Am f@cking excited!

It is a rotary machine, not coil. A Dragonhawk rotary. Any tattoo artists out there that want to take on an apprentice? Toss the bread on the water, as it were....

[cowboyjen68]

I see a lot of young butches worry that they don’t have the right body to be “butch”. I get DM’s and asks about their concerns. There is a lot of misinformation out there and some of it comes from our own community. They think that being butch is a particular body type Ie, muscular, very small breasts(or non existent breasts), narrow hips, thin waste, the perfect average height of 5′6 to 5′8, firm tummy, broad shoulders,  and short hair.

 I see and hear straight people applaud that look. But that is not important to me. What is important is that butch nod I get from other butches and femmes (or lesbians in general) who recognize my energy.  It is important that my girlfriend loves my butchness and also sees it as a part of the whole me. 

Butch is not a body type. Butch is innate and how we move and are perceived in this world, both by our inner selves and those around us. It is most definitely the space we take up. 

Here is a photo of me, just waking up after a long day of moving people out of destroyed homes, cutting and hauling wood and working my job. Long messy hair, my love gut (thanks covid), noticeable and not perky (anymore) breasts, strong but not muscular looking arms and  a smile because I am healthy and ready to help again today. 

Don’t let those who are not living the life of a butch lesbian tell you what you are or are not. Just don’t. Meet others who made it, who live happy fulfilling lives, who have struggled, who sometimes still do but move into each day with their protective, tender and unique energy. You will find we come in all body types but instinctively know who gets that butch nod. 

My DMs are always open if you need a pep talk. 

Also.. I need to stop eating so much crap food. LOL

[queenbutchxx]

As a butch lesbian, with bigger boobs... I don’t understand the issue. I have always been butch, when I was a child, with no breasts yet, when I was a teen with small breast. After I had a baby and had larger breasts. To me, butch is who I am, not what I look like. It is the fact that I feel so protective of women and children that I would die to save any of them. It is my love of many things that are considered “masculine”. But to me, being butch is a personal thing. Not what I present. I don’t give a flying f@ck what anyone thinks of my appearance at all. My body, my clothes, my love of women, is none of their business. It is my business. I am just myself. This is my post from twitter. We need to own our butchness. Own that shit. I will never let another person tell me who, how, or what I should be. That is my call. Please, love yourselves in all of your butch glory and power. And yes, we butches are powerful. So powerful. I think many of us fear that power or have been made to feel ashamed of it. Men don’t like powerful butch women. So rejoice! Be who you are. And don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

[anti-your-woke-homophobia-deact]

Why is being concerned about the safety of women and girls something deemed attackable? Even if we ARE wrong there's no reason why people who have a problem with gender ideology should be attacked. Like, all we're saying is "Hey, this seems kinda dangerous to women" and all of a sudden that makes us bigots. Why not reassure us instead? If you're so right then prove it to us and answer all of our questions so we can feel at ease.

If someone is like, "trans people are freaks and dangerous pedophiles and look wrong" then sure, get their asses lmao. But if someone is like "This seems like it'll have repercussions on female people" then I don't see why that's such a bad concern to have.

This is a problem I have with all ideologies tbh. Y'all are so concerned about people being "indoctrined" to the other side and yet when someone questions you, you become hostile and seem surprised when they turn to the other side

[queenbutchxx]

THIS☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️