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This comment was left on a post about making the most of the Libby app. "Excessive use of generous lending policies" is the most absurd phrase I've ever seen anyone use to discuss libraries.

It is a little funny to me that me sleeping to 7:30 in the morning was mildly concerning to my mom

She peeks into my room, sees I'm asleep and came in to ask if I was okay and if I felt alright. To which I was just waking up and not really worse than my normal, just happened to 'sleep in' for the first time in a year or two

#shes also my caregiver #sleep so poorly that a mild sleep in is worrying #sleep troubles #insomia #chronic illness #chronic pain

fictionalauthorityii

Finding out AI companies are chewing through - literally, they’re pulping and burning them as they go - millions of books often including 1/1s and old texts that cannot be reprinted

Meanwhile there’s always some dipshit telling me AI is the future and we’ve got to just let companies erase human history and literature so they can train their abomination machines to pretend to think like people because a judge said it’s fine

wageronancap

odessa-edmundson

AI companies are buying and scanning printed books for training data, raising copyright and cultural preservation concerns as rare volumes a

The body yearns for pneumonia

I say after almost-kinda asphyxiating on medication and liquid

#this is a joke #how have i not gotten pneumonia in the last few months tho #have tests lined up for it #if the place would just fucking call #chronic illness #laugh so you don't cry

gayvampyr

if you want to dress gay but aren’t sure how, you need to focus more on finding clothes you actually like and that make you feel good when you look in the mirror. develop your style independently of what you think looks gayest and trust the homosexuality will follow. it goes where confidence and self acceptance are

Turns out I've survived so long with chronic illnesses and being told I'm fine cuz "It could be worse!"

Well guess what fuckers, I'm being diagnosed with a life-threatening chronic disease, and we have no clue how long I've had it!

#adrenal insufficiency #chronic illness #disability #elhers danlos syndrome #postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome

redhairandpronouns

yall are so fucking weird about gnc people. a woman wears a suit and she's "conforming to the patriarchy". a man wears a skirt and he's Secretly A Trans Egg. have you considered It's Fabric

vinterfeminism

You would not believe the things I have heard as a transfem butch.

dumbdogdiscourse

I once said something along the lines of "why does everyone assume that every gnc cis man is an egg" and was harassed for it and sarcastically told that obviously the treatment of cis men should be our biggest concern and that I didn't know anything about egg culture (I do). You do realize that gnc people are queer too, right? You realize I can concern myself with "smaller" problems, because I love gnc people and am concerned about their well-being? You realize that telling people they must be trans because of their presentation is just as bad as telling someone must be cis for the same reasons?

I'm never going to shut up about how shitty the queer community treats gender non-conforming people, especially gender non-conforming men.

redhairandpronouns

also the treatment of gnc cis men tells me a lot about how you'd treat gnc trans men. like, you think that if a man likes feminine clothing he's secretly a woman? do you know how many people have told me i'm not "actually trans" because i like feminine clothing? stop reinforcing gender norms i am Begging

this-is-trans-joy

I will always care more about the supportive cishet boyfriend at pride than i will about the wannabe cop queer person interrogating every “straight looking” couple to make sure they’re “queer enough” to be there btw. Don’t worry about your cishet boyfriend, he’s sitting with me eating an ice cream wearing a homemade little pride bracelet around his arm and he is the happiest he’s ever been in his life :]

I will genuinely never forget when I came out as nonbinary to my father. He quite literally looked at me and said, "Alright. And you'll always be a woman to me."

I shortly after told him I wanted to go by Ash, I was 14 or 15, he refused to call me that until I was 18 and my mom repeatedly refused to acknowledge what he'd say related to me unless he used my name. He got with the program way quicker then than the years I'd argue with him about it being disrespectful, no longer was it, "It's hard" or "It takes time".

#moms awesome dw #trans #transphobia #coming out #fuck transphobes

Just because I started liking wearing skirts and dresses a bit after I came out doesn't mean you can call me a girl again when I've told you otherwise.

Or refer to me as Ashley instead of Ash even when you know that has not ever and will never be my name. (Literally my friend/informally adopted brother's who has known me since I was ten)

Or be my friend (now former) and blatantly look over at me as our Mythology teacher is talking about Cassandra in Greek mythology just cause its my deadname.

Chapter 24 of You're too sweet for me by Chupacudegoaininha on AO3

#best description of Off-white i've seen #off white #colors

theyaoimonster

GRABS you by the THROAT. stop using "narcissistic", "slow", "depressed", "bipolar", "schizophrenic" and the literal R slur (i'm not saying it.) etc etc etc as insults. I don't care if you're neurodivergent and doing this you're still an ableist prick

busket

"im not saying feminism is for everyone but-" the fuck? well im saying that. feminism is for everyone. yes even cishet men will benefit from feminism and cishet men should be feminists because cishet men are indeed harmed by the patriarchy; nowhere near to the extent that women are, but having a culture that is fully equal and anti-misogynist benefits everyone. have we forgotten that lifting up the disenfranchised people in society helps all of us as a collective? "im not saying that universal and unalienable human rights are for everyone but-" YES THE FUCK THEY ARE LOL