You can call me Q, this is my kinky/ongoing gender crisising/occasionally nonhorny (tagged as #nonhorny posting) blog.
30+, transmasc (he/him) but still fucking around with gender
Dom-leaning switch - I try to tag #topposting and #bottomposting as appropriate
My asks and DMs are open but do not send photos or ask me to post photos of myself or my partner, I will only do that at my own discretion.
I try to remember to tag but I'm not always super consistent so reading on is at your own discretion.
If you know me irl, I'm fine to chat about these things if they float your boat too 👀
A non-exhaustive list of what you'll find here, subject to change as I remember/discover things about myself:
INTO:
Pup play, piss play (omo, diapers but NOT in an ABDL way, pissing in/on someone, being pissed in/on. NO piss in mouth), humiliation, monsterfucking (tentacles, werewolves, aliens, ghosts), boots, leather, free use, bruises, breeding (no preg).
SOMETIMES:
somno, choking, *light* CNC
HARD NOS:
scat, vomit, blood, gory violence, detrans/misgendering, incest/fauxcest, ageplay, hard rapeplay, race play
This is my space and I can and will choose to curate it to my own tastes. If your blog contains anything in my hard nos, I reserve the right to block. No kink shaming but ykinmk.
DNI:
Minors and anyone who doesn't have an age in their bio - you will be BLOCKED immediately - kink spaces are not for minors. Come back when you're 18+
"Men DNI" blogs, terfs, homo/transphobes, misgenderers - y'all will also be blocked
Pleased to report that after a day of this i am not longer craving caper brine and my mouth is not dry as usual. There's some good suggestions in the notes too that I want to try.
-ancient roman posca: water, red or white wine vinegar, honey, salt, herbs (coriander, mint, thyme)
-switchel: water, ginger, vinegar, sweetener, lemon, salt
I'm so. fucking. sick. of people who claim to support trans men posting shit like this. I don't even try to educate people anymore, I don't have the fucking patience or emotional maturity to do so.
Anybody who posts shit like this really shouldn't be surprised when the trans men who follow them, block them assuming they're a violent transandrophobic freak.
I also had to leave part of the user visible, specifically because I wanted to point out that I was following this person because their blog is dedicated to Heated Rivalry. It just grosses me out so fucking much that some people will get off to men and mlm love/media, while telling the men in their immediate orbit (the queer community on tumblr, for example) that they all deserve to fucking die. It's giving *weirdo sexist maga cousin who exclusively follows bikini models on Instagram but incessantly asks "if men and women are truly equals I should be allowed to punch a woman in the face, right??"* What the fuck is the matter with you??
"if you're a good man, you'd know they weren't talking about you." If you were emotionally mature you'd realize that being a trans man, and having people trying to force your detransition (which is a death sentence for most of us) for your entire fucking life, AND THEN being constantly told to die or kill yourself by the only fucking community that's SUPPOSED to be looking out for you is so deeply soul crushing it's a miracle more of you don't get what you so desperately want.
in abandoning discussion of the nuances of sex in trans discourse, we've ironically let bioessentialist, binaristic thinking fester and rot out our communities
we've stopped actually challenging the binary, we just slapped "amab" and "afab" over "male" and "female," and we treat transition itself like a mere act of dressup. we let blatant transphobia run rampant all the time as long as people call each other "amab" and "afab" instead of misgendering them directly
"afab bodies," "amab energy," "afab only housing," "amab behavior" THIS IS TRANSPHOBIA. YOU ARE MAKING ASSUMPTIONS ABOUT PEOPLE'S BEHAVIORS AND BODIES BASED ON THEIR ASSIGNED SEX. THE WORD FOR THAT IS TRANSPHOBIA
sex does not determine your behaviors. sex is not a binary. sex can be changed, and IS changed by medical transition, INCLUDING hrt
is it even a "trans" community if we don't hold these things to be true? how can a community of trans people who bind each other to their agabs like the rest of the world does be called a trans community? come the fuck on
Fear mongering trans men into believing that they won’t pass with dyed hair, piercings or an alternative style is transandrophobia but I don’t think people are ready for that conversation
I'm not really a fan of 'Protect the dolls' becoming the new media slogan for trans rights. 'Trans men are men trans women are women' had it problems absolutely, centering cis people for our validity and either leaving out or clumsy including nonbinary people with a slapped on 'nonbinary people are...also alive'. But I just watched some red carpet interviews and, while I don't give two shits what an actor I've never heard of from a show I don't watch things about me, I do find it interesting and a little concerning that the majority of people when asked what message they would give to the Trans community on Trans day of visibility just said protect the dolls or acknowledged their fashion, hair, makeup, music genre, ect won't exist without trans women. It feels like trans mascs are only seen as people designed to protect trans women and trans women only exist to be beautiful and fragile. When bathroom bans were first becoming really popular a few years ago I would see posts from white cis passing able bodied post op trans men in women's bathrooms to try and be some kind of got ya to conservatives completely ignoring how many trans men and mascs are harmed, assaulted, and killed by these laws. And I don't like the cis savior idea that trans women need cis people to protect them either. Idk I just think that like trans men need protection too, And trans women deserve love and respect even when they are not fabulous, And trans people don't need cis people to save us.
sitting on the couch for the umpteenth night in a row with the biggest plug I own crammed in my tight little ass while my cunt leaks and my cock throbs just at the sensation of being filled. Grinding down on the plug every so often, whimpering, needing more. Training my ass to be a good little cocksleeve.
I'll rail myself stupid in a little while - slam a dildo into my hole over and over until my eyes cross and my ears ring. I just want to be *taken*.
forcemasc but it's when you push your cock up my ass and tell me this is how real men fuck while my lube-dispensing boypussy aches and clenches around nothing. Forcemasc but it's when you tell me how good a job I'm doing taking your cock like a man. Forcemasc but it's you calling me a perfect little faggot when you bottom out in my asshole.
Three and a half hours of fucking my ass, my cunt, or both at once. Three and a half hours of riding edges and stretching my holes and being consumed by sensation and pressure three and a half hours of teasing and stretching and fucking myself to at least three anal or anal-assisted orgasms.
I need to start wearing plugs. I'm like a fucking animal in heat I just want to get *railed* and stretched and ruined. I want to have every last thought fucked out of my stupid brain via the hole in my ass while my tdick is getting stroked and my cunt drips and I don't have enough hands to fuck myself the way I'm fucking craving it.
I haven't been this horned up, ever. It's always in the background I have never ever felt this bare need to *fuck*.
Case in point: I spent three and a half hours fucking myself through multiple orgasms. I put my toys down a half hour ago. And I'm soaked and hard again. I would be the perfect free use little fucktoy right now.
@dimiclaudeblaigan asked for a tutorial on how to begin drawing. Good news! If you can draw a funky looking stick man, you have already started!
I think that stick people are a great starting point for artists because of the things you can learn from them that will be important later on.
If you are able to draw a circle and a couple of lines, you can easily put together a stick person.
Congratulations! You have started to draw. :)
A stick person is a very minimal artistic representation of a real life person. It is simple yet recognizable, and is widely used in art, media, and signage.
But what can a stick person teach us about drawing people that look more like… well, people? Lets have a look!
By simply adding a few more lines, we can add a pair of eyes and a mouth. Maybe even a little triangle nose! Or half circles for ears. We can now draw a face, which provides a basis for all sorts of expressions.
These simple additions can allow us to explore the wide range of human emotion and individuality.
This may seem like the basics of the basics. But that is what we want! In order to get to the point where we are able to draw complex, elaborate representations of humans and objects, we will need to start with simple shapes like lines and circles and build our understanding from there.
For instance, lets give our stick person some cool new features, such as hands and feet. I chose little squiggly circles to represent hands, and triangles to represent feet.
We can go a step further and modify the body of the stick person to include shoulders, hips, elbows and knees. These parts of the human body are quite complex in real life But here, all we need to do is add a few simple lines and dots to our stick person.
The lines provide some additional structural elements to our stick person's body, which are the shoulders and the hips. The dots indicate the points of articulation - elbows and knees, the places where the arms and legs bend!
Now we can use our stick person to show us an even wider range of human movement, action, and expression.
Our little drawing of a human being is evolving! All it took was adding a few more lines and shapes here and there.
By elongating some of the existing lines and making the head an oval instead of a circle, we can give our stick person proportions that resemble that of a real life human.
By this point, we have managed to add more complexity to our stick person simply by using our ability to draw lines, circles, and other basic shapes!
These basic ideas are the building blocks that will enable us to create more complex shapes.
The next part may be a considerable step up if you are absolutely new to drawing, but I have decided to include it in order to show you how complex objects like the human body can be built from shapes that are a bit more complex than circles and lines.
For example. Two ovals and a rectangle can be combined to create a cylinder.
Six squares can be combined to create a cube, or a box. Here, each square is distorted slightly depending on which way the cube is facing.
Note that the back faces of the cube and the bottom of the cylinder are hidden. These shapes allow us to visualize that which should not normally visible.
A sphere from all perspectives can be represented by a circle. But we can make it more like a sphere by adding lighting and shadow if we so desire.
Cubes, cylinders, and spheres are examples of 'solid shapes' because they consist of 3 dimensions.
Lets see how these solid shapes can be used to compose the human body.
By stacking three cylindrical objects, we can create a torso. Two spheres have been added to form shoulders, while a smaller cylinder forms the neck.
An arm is an alternating sequence of spheres and cylinders connected together. Note that the hand has been simplified for this example.
We can apply these solid shapes to the rest of the body to give us a more recognizable representation of the human form. It doesn't even have to be perfect. And just like that, our stick figure now has a silhouette that is unmistakably a person!
In the above examples, notice that we kept the stick person at the beginning while building up the shapes and solids around it. This is because the stick person serves as a guide for positioning the body and its various parts -> also known as posing.
You can do the same thing to everyday objects! Here, I drew a wine glass by stacking these three dimensional solid shapes.
The cup and its contents are two ovoid shapes that were cut in half. The stem is a very thin cylinder shape. The base is a cylinder with a slightly wider bottom.
Solid shapes help inform us how objects and parts of the human body may appear from different perspectives.
For example, a sphere can be used to demonstrate how the human head appears when looking up or down, turned to the side, or tilted at an angle.
With these examples, I hope I have managed to convinced you that if you can draw a circle and a couple of lines, you can draw a person! You just have to train your eye to recognize the simple shapes within complex objects. Try it with everyday objects as well! Or even your favourite media! A drawing subject can be as simple or as complex as you envision it to be.
Once you have mastered that, there are many aspects of drawing you can explore from here that may require you to seek additional resources or a fellow artist's advice.
Last of all, remember that drawing is an iterative process. Even if you draw something correct the first time, you will need to draw it again and again to get it right all times! And by making small changes like the ones we explored in this tutorial, your drawings will gradually transform!
I hope what I've demonstrated here are enough to provide the basics of how to get started with drawing objects and people, and also to help refresh more experienced artists. :) Hopefully I didn't go too off topic with what was requested, and let me know if there are any more questions I can answer.
TIL a family in Georgia claimed to have passed down a song in an unknown language from the time of their enslavement; scientists identified the song as a genuine West African funeral song in the Mende language that had survived multiple transmissions from mother to daughter over multiple centuries (x)
In 1997 Amelia’s daughter, Mary Moran, and other members of the Moran family were invited to Sierra Leone, West Africa, where they were welcomed in Freetown by Sierra Leone’s President and then flown by helicopter to the country’s interior. There, in the small village of Senehun Ngola, Mary and Bendu Jabati met and sang this song together for the first time. Years earlier, Bendu’s grandmother had told her that this song, which had been passed down in her village from mother to daughter for centuries, would one day reunite her to long-lost relatives.
In addition to finding out where in Africa her ancestors were abducted into slavery, Mary Moran discovered the meaning of the Mende song: a processional hymn for the final farewell to the spirit, it was sung in Senehun Ngola by women as they prepared the body of a loved one for burial.
(The OP's link leads to a site with a recording of the song sung by both Mary Moran and her mother, Amelia)
Because the original link was broken, I tracked down a news story about how the song is continuing to help Mary Moran's relatives find their African communities:
Also, there's an apparently sanctioned link to the full documentary about tracing the song.
I was really fascinated to learn that the song was originally recorded by none other than Lorenzo Dow Turner, the founder of Gullah studies. Gullah was dismissed (by white people) as a nonsense language until a Black linguist trained on Old and Middle English came along in the early 20th century, and I love him.
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