Coming from a professional event planner - weddings are egregiously expensive because companies openly raise prices at the word âwedding.âÂ
Pro Tip - Never drop the word wedding while planning if you donât need to. Most things can be for âan event youâre planning.â This obviously doesnât include things like the venue, DJ (who needs specific wedding songs), and the wedding dress company if youâre going that route versus just buying a dress.
For my wedding I got âdiscountedâ cupcakes, flowers, decor, bridesmaids dresses, groomsman attire, and invitations. I did this by either searching for things that arenât marketed for weddings or not telling the companies I was working with it was for a wedding. Because honestly, most of the time they donât need to know why youâre ordering.
These companies target people planning their weddings and markup everything the second âweddingâ is said. And itâs said often because people assume the services change exponentially for weddings. They absolutely do not.Â
The best example are the cupcakes I had for my wedding. I used a designer cupcake store in town instead of spending $1000 on a wedding cake. If you place a large order of cupcakes with a cake tree for display - it costs about $150 for 100 (which is what I did). When you order their âweddingâ package - the price raised to a $700 base for 100 cupcakes. The only other perk includes a âtasting.â Forget that. Our tasting was buying a few cupcakes in flavors we thought weâd like and picked three. It cost maybe $20.Â
What these companies do is scummy and targets people who donât have information about the event industry.
I will yell it from the rooftops until people realize thereâs a better way.