ᴛᴏᴏ ᴏʟᴅ ꜰᴏʀ ᴛʜᴀᴛ

[radleyfm]

bio. pinterest.

Little lover, I can't get you off my mind...

BASICS

Full  Name: radley jackson abel

Known  Alias(es): rad

Age: thirty seven years old

Gender: cis male

Birthday: february 19th, 1988

Heritage: romanian-american

Religion: agnostic

Sexual  &  Romantic  Orientation: bisexual & demiromantic

Residencies:  the coast & pier

Highest  Education  Level: college degree

Occupation(s):  paramedic/ems

PHYSICAL  EXAM

Eyes: steel blue

Hair: shoulder length, dark brown, 2a type

Body  Type: inverted triangle, has more muscles and is considered to be beefy. 

Distinguishable  Marks:  upper lip scar

Weight: two hundred and seventy five pounds

Height: six foot one

MENTAL  EVALUATION

Psychological  Profile:  Motivated to provide for his children, wanting to grieve in a healthy way but is unsure how, relying more on his family and ensuring he maintains connection to his oldest. Trying to figure out who he is now that he’s on his own. Being single and a lone parent is uncharted territory. (Core  motivations,  fears,  triggers,  etc.)

Positive  Traits:   Loyal, calm, hardworking, humble.

Negative  Traits:  Selfless, Aloof, Bossy, Stubborn

Alignment  Type:  Lawful Good

Personality  Type  (MBTI): ISFJ

Phobias:  None.

Mannerisms:  He runs his fingers through his hair a lot, touches his mouth, sometimes when he’s standing in line he rocks back and forth. 

Hobbies  &  Interests:  Boating and fishing, playing pool, practicing with his kids for their sports, he really enjoys mario party and mario kart.

AFFILIATIONS  &  RELATIONSHIPS

Family:  single, widowed. Children include Brianna, Briseis and Brodi. Mom and dad are Roseanna and Thomas. 4 siblings (3 brothers, one sister)

Allies  &  Associates:  TBD.

Rivalries:  TBD.

Enemies:  None

Romantic  History: cecily abel (has never had anyone else)

Notable  Friends:  TBD.

HABITS  &  LIFESTYLE

Daily  Routine:  structured, he’s a calender dad. Everything is set out as he’s come to learn this is the best way him and the twins operate. 

Diet  &  Nutrition: He does cook on his days off, but if he didn’t meal prep and he’s working, takeout it is. When he cooks he strives to have a well-balanced nutritious meal for both him and the twins. 

Exercise  Habits:  (Type  and  frequency  of  physical  activity.)

Grooming  Habits:  (Meticulous,  rugged,  or  indifferent?)

Substance  Use: Has alcohol on his days off, doesn’t do anything else. 

Sleep  Patterns: This depends. Sometimes he can sleep for 13 hours, other times he can barely get 5. 

Personal  Aesthetic:  Please refer to his pinterest. 

Favorite  Art/Architecture:  He actually goes crazy for marble statues, isn’t that big into art but he is fascinated by how people can make stone look soft. 

SPECIAL  NOTES  &  CHARACTER  LORE

He is a total 80s rock band dad. Did he not grow up in the 80s? Yes, but his birth year is 88 and he clings to it. Favourite band is ACDC, song is Little Lover. He also enjoys Metallica, Motley Crew, a lot of 90’s music as well. He tries to get into modern music but some of the lyrics are extremely questionable. 

He is a decent cook, has to be, he can make the hell out of spaghetti and meatballs. But truth be told if he can, he will almost always order takeout.

Decent handyman, and isn’t ashamed to say he doesn’t know how to fix something if he can’t.

He is a sports dad, Brodi took on Basketball and Briseis took on Volleyball. Scheduling is chaotic but he manages with the help of other sports parents. 

As stated he is an avid boater, makes sure he spends as much time as he can on the water. 

His house is usually the hangout spot. He’s got all the snacks, toys and space for the kids to come hang. He has to make sure all kids prove they have permission to be there.

His parenting style is Authoritative, he has high control and high responsiveness to his children and has the mindset that he is preparing them for adulthood but also knows he needs to be there for them as they are learning. 

Brianna looks the most like him. 

He originally did not want Yugi, however with the loss of Cecily and him struggling a lot with his grief he has become more receptive to the cat and he even lets the thing sleep in his room. 

He drives a Black F-150 with lifted wheels. 

He is a backwards cap kinda guy.

I’ll probably add more to this later but anyway! I'm so excited to be here and to plot and write! Please feel free to message me and/or let me know if our characs will pair well together!

[radleyfm]

WHERE: The Swim Beach WHEN: 2 in the afternoon, july 4th.

Briseis had begged and pleaded with both Brodi and Radley to be here. Radley gave in easily, anything for his girl, Brodi needed convincing. Radley promised him a new pair of brand-named shoes. (Please don't let it be Jordans...)

So here he was, sitting under an umbrella with a yeti full of beer and more in the cooler. The warm sand felt good on his aching feet, the texture somewhat soothing and nostalgic as he played unofficial lifeguard for the twins and the friends they made.

The soft crashing of the waves kissing the beach had him relaxed in his beach chair, his eyes covered by rayban sunglasses, making him look more stoic and grumpy than usual.

He had been day dreaming, lost in thought that he hadn't even realized someone had walked up to him and they were talking. Shit. "Uh, yeah, go ahead, you could have one." He said, gesturing to his cooler.

[mournfulroses]

Lidia Yuknavitch, from Reading the Waves: A Memoir published in 2025

[choriizo]

[bronzedverve]

[romanholidau-deactivated2019051]

my whole life is the one episode of Friends where Ross drinks all those margaritas and keeps telling everyone that hes fine when he clearly isn’t fine

[maziekeen]

[gansaey]

I’m here.

[iamsittingdown]

[petaltexturedskies]

Anna Akhmatova, from "The Sentence"