Baby Steps to Cross the World

[whitepeopletwitter]

[phantomthread2017]

i'm screaming

[cheese24k]

[ceramicpuppyclown]

reblog for easter

[winemom-culture]

forget april fools day its almost time for the best video on this entire fuckin planet

[scabrrielle]

sunglasses. no sun. it’s cloudy: overcast. 

[bunnyfood]

(via Giant Military Cats (@giantcat9) / Twitter)

[intj-aesthetics]

So a weird thing about chronic illness is that you sometimes casually forget that you can change some things about your wellbeing?

I've been sitting in my own home for an hour uncomfortably cold like a dumbass, not even thinking about going the literal five steps to the drawer and grabbing a sweater because I forgot that I don't have to just suffer through this as well.

No it's not executive disfunction or lack of spoons (where you know you want one but can't make yourself go get one), I just forgot it was an option at all. Anyways, kids, reality check, can you do something right now to make yourself feel a bit better?

[soothifying-sounds-asmr]

One Summer’s Day (Array Mbira) by xuan xuan

[serotoninsuggestion]

things to let go of:

embarrassing moments in the past. things you should have phrased differently. people you wish you still knew. those tiny mistakes that keep you up at night - we are all made up of them. all we can do is move forward.

jealousy of others for already having the success you’re striving towards. as a writing tutor once said, “don’t piss on other people’s chips. because one day when you’re eating chips, you really won’t want them to have piss on.”

the phrase “i’ll be happy when ….” you won’t. the thing you think you’re after won’t satisfy you the way you expect. learn to stop striving and start appreciating.

the feeling that every minute not spent doing the creative activity you love (writing knitting art jogging journalling reading), or every minute not crammed with a form of media or entertainment (music tv youtube audiobook podcast), is “unproductive” or a waste. sometimes u can just sit and listen and experience what the world has given you in that moment.

the idea that someone has an intrinsically better life because they have the clothes or body or holiday or house or partner you crave.

the guilt of not being there for everyone all the time. it’s only our phones that have made us feel we have a duty to be 24/7 in touch. it’s ok to take breaks.

the need to photograph every meal or coffee cup or sunset or outing with friends. not because there’s anything wrong with keeping a record but because the pressure to get the “right” and “perfect” shot decreases the joy of living and experiencing the thing itself.

the phrase “i need to stop eating [insert essential food group here]”.

[anarcho-smarmyism]

and then some of them told us to willingly sacrifice our lives/our elders' lives for the economy..... guilliotine.gif

[whitepeopletwitter]

[rainbowsafterrainstorms]

When I met you, I didn’t know.

I didn’t know how your arms would feel like the closest thing to home I’ve ever had.

I didn’t know that you would feel like safety in a scary world, knowing at “The End” I would need to be with you.

When I met you, I didn’t know you’d be what I wanted, needed.

I was looking to play.

I was looking to gain friends.

What I gained defies everything I’ve had.

I love you.

32220.

[awwcutepets]

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

No but seriously. Normalize finding love in your 40's. Normalize discovering and chasing new dreams in your 30's. Normalize finding yourself and your purpose in your 50's. Life doesn't end at 25. Let's stop acting like it does.

[yourpositivityreminder]

~yourpositivityreminder

[defineyourgrind]

[adhdmedic]

[brawltogethernow]

#it’s so obvious they named it based on how we inconvenience them rather than what it actually does to us

There it the fuck is.

[hey-look-a-squirrel]

That last comment though like dang

[explorationsinlove]

Dr. Russell Barkley calls it Executive Function Defecit Disorder (EFDD). He has videos on YouTube and books on his site.

[captain-snark]

ESPECIALLY, when people don’t understand that sometimes “hyperactivity” can be internal and not external. Little Timmy may be bouncing off the walls but Erica hasn’t had a quiet moment in her brain since birth. But she is quiet and smart and isn’t really a bother. Hmmm….

[inspiration-and-motivation]

[anniespositivity]

What 2020 is all about:

less: saying yes to people, things and events that are not good for your mental health, more: saying no, setting clear boundaries, walking away from toxic people, doing things and being with people that make your heart happy

less: working up to the point of a mental breakdown, neglecting yourself, more: taking time to recharge your batteries, taking breaks, investing in me-time and self-care

less: negative self talk, more: positive thoughts to remind yourself how amazing, beautiful and capable you are - remember that the way you talk to yourself matters

less: comparing yourself to the path of others, more: realising that you walk your own path, being proud of everything you are and everything you have achieved

less: doing things just because others say so, being afraid to show your true self, more: fully expressing yourself, choosing things because you - and no one else - want them

less: bottleing up your feelings, saying you are okay when you are not, hiding behind a mask, more: being open and honest about the way you feel, being vulnerable, knowing that is is okay not to be okay

less: being too hard on yourself when you have a bad day, more: letting yourself feel without judging every emotion, knowing that bad days are part of the process, being kinder to yourself