Saw the Barbie movie with the gf last night!
I’ve got a very different perspective on life than her, I was raised as a man. Different parts of the movie hit us in different ways and I think that speaks volumes for its creators. There’s a lot of powerful messaging that’s been making Men™ uncomfortable, as it should. Thankfully, it extends far beyond the superficial “men bad” and “gay indoctrination” discourse that’s being discussed by the far right:
If your idealistic dreams stay static through life, the world will keep moving until your dreams appear harmful. It’s okay to change, even if you don’t know the end result. A changing dream is a living dream.
The world is chaotic, societal structures are inherently damaging because groups always get marginalized or mistreated
The identity of self is skipped over frequently. Memes of “being Kenough” aside, a lot of people allow themselves to be defined entirely without their self. You can enjoy jobs/activities/food/drinks, but that’s not who you are. The discovery of self requires uncomfortable introspection, a luxury that is difficult to afford when the world expects you to fit nicely into a box.
Harmful views aren’t always held with malice, often it’s a lack of perspective that shows their effects on others. You can be an unknowing antagonist without being the Big Bad villain. *Seeing* the ill effects of your actions and not changing is when you become a villain.
Empowerment groups led by the oppressors are inherently predatory, no matter how strong their marketing teams are.
Everyone is deserving of housing, no matter your societal standing.
Beauty is not dependent on youth or stereotypical perfection
Being unequipped to deal with new emotions/experiences doesn’t give you license to mistreat others
Corporate executive jobs are fake
Mini fridges are too small
I’m aware that my interpretation of the movie isn’t the same as many men, which I’m thankful for. A well made piece of media should be interpreted in many different ways, and should spark discussion and reflection in the lives of everyone it touches.
The movie experience was a 9/10 just because of the kids vaping in front of us. We loved the movie itself, they knocked it out of the park with the casting, writing, costuming, product placement. You can tell the actors were having a blast and the movie deserves its huge box office opening.