moved to anxiouswires

he/it/neos! pls read my rentry before interacting! banner + pfp by @sleepyshipper ! https://rentry.co/ramsboytoy

[ramsboytoy]

moved accounts, this one is dead so yeah, keeping the URL and stuff also i like having this here

anyways, new account:

[ramsboytoy]

news (which isnt news and hasnt been new for literal years)

MY NEW F/O! l-on k-nn-dy from res-dent ev-l!

(its only if you age up minors to ship with them romantically, or you age down your s/i for them, that's fucking weird)

tag list: @tothemoon-ships @sleepyshipper @self-ship-haven @jokerislandgirl32 (ask to be added or removed at any time!)

divs by cafekitsune!

[selfshipstation]

Are you comfortable or not comfortable sharing, and how emotionally attached do you get to your F/Os?

Mostly comfortable, very emotionally attached

Mostly comfortable, somewhat emotionally attached

Mostly comfortable, this is just for fun

Mostly uncomfortable, very emotionally attached

Mostly uncomfortable, somewhat emotionally attached

Mostly uncomfortable, this is just for fun

Mix of comfortable and uncomfortable, very emotionally attached

Mix of comfortable and uncomfortable, somewhat emotionally attached

Mix of comfortable and uncomfortable, this is just for fun

Other

Voting ended onSep 28, 2024

[kokoroespresso-deactivated20241]

This is for those selfshippers who hide their f/os.

The selfshippers who can't tell anyone about their f/os.

The selfshippers who cannot buy merch from their f/os and are only content to support their love from afar.

The selfshippers who keep their relationship with their f/o a secret, for various reasons.

The selfshippers who want to talk about their f/o constantly but can't, they have no one to talk to, the people around them wouldn't understand.

The selfshippers who want to shout at the void how in love they are, but their situation won't let them.

The silent selfshippers but with a beautiful lore with their f/os in their minds and hearts.

You are valid and I am always thinking of you. ♡

©️𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟒 𝐤𝐨𝐤𝐨𝐫𝐨𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐨 ♡ reblogs are deeply appreciated ♡

[ramsboytoy]

been crocheting again lately and can't help imaging crocheting stuff for my f/os, like sweaters, bags, fingerless gloves, random stuffed animals

and now i can't help imagine getting something in the thing wrong... like if my f/o has wings and im giving them a sweater, i forget the wing holes on the back. or the stuffed animal is too small or something

(my father figure f/o! also dni if you age up minors to ship with them in a romantic way/support it)

tag list: @sleepyshipper @self-ship-haven @jokerislandgirl32 @tothemoon-ships

(divs by cafekitsune)

[ramsboytoy]

hey, you, looking for a selfship discord server??

come join the selfship space station, lovely! we have so many things we bet you'd enjoy, including;

a safe place for nonsharers and sharers alike! (this server does favor nonsharers as the creators are nonsharing!)

a place to gush about all f/os! including romantic, platonic, familial, and even pet f/os!

a place to have your own personal channel to gush and put other things in!

places to ramble about your interests

plenty of silly emojis!

a friendly community, best of all :]!

we have a spacey theme with a (hopefully) calming atmosphere! we hope you enjoy <3

divs by cafekitsune !

this link only works for 7 days! after that, the server is closed until we post it again!! and pls read over the list for everyone's sake before you join!!

Check out the ★ selfship space station ☆ community on Discord - hang out with 46 other members and enjoy free voice and text chat.

selfship space station's nonsharing list

this server is run by two nonsharers so we decided to make this list for new people to read over! it’s sorted by sources to try and make thi

(its only if you age up minors to ship with them romantically, or you age down your s/i for them, that's fucking weird)

these same rules apply to the server!!

taglist: @sleepyshipper (the other person who co-owns the server with me! love you dude /p) @self-ship-haven @jokerislandgirl32 @tothemoon-ships @starryy-ships (ask to be added/removed at any time! pls let me know if you change your url so ik you're not dead lol)

divider credit: @.cafekitsune

[vergils-beloved]

[sleepyshipper]

random promo post!! my name is vampira or moni and i am a selfshipper!! i have many f/os but the main few on my mind right now are tom nook and redd from animal crossing, mr. grizz from the splatoon series, and springtrap/william afton from the fnaf series!! (full f/o list coming soon!!)

i am 17 and absolutely love video games and music and other cool things.. id love to meet more animal crossing selfshippers but keep in mind i am ficto and also am not ok with doubles of my f/os at all! but id be happy to make any mutual regardless of where their f/o is from :3 anyways hope we can become good pals weeeeeee :33

[selfshipstation]

Pick an S/I!

How would your S/I react if your LEAST favorite character from the source confessed their love to them?

Turn them down gently

Turn them down harshly

Agree to a date

Ask why they’re doing this

Don’t say anything. Just stand/sit there quietly

Leave without saying anything

Point out that they KNOW your S/I’s sexuality is incompatible with theirs

Point out that they’re incompatible for some other reason.

Proclaim they can’t fool them. They know they don’t mean it.

My S/I doesn’t belong to an existing source, so this question doesn’t work.

Two or more of the above

Other

Voting ended onSep 24, 2024

[the-fallen-collective]

:🤎 ~ BEAUTIFUL PERSON AWARD! Once you are given this award you're supposed to paste it in the asks of 8 people (or more) who deserve it. If you break the chain nothing happens, but it's sweet to know someone thinks you're beautiful inside and out!!!!! ~ 🤎

YIPPPEEEEE thak you Captain :3

Im too tired to gonthroufh 8 peoples blogs so get tagged

@creatorbiaze @zyrtecbrainrot @tomkittycat @aredeemantagonist

@star-tb @starrykinstellation @diseasedflesh @jabberwock-islanders

[chxrrie-bxmb-deactivated2025090]

the chain continues >:]

@ambonexus @radical-boy-kisser @scratching-p0st @aucouture @thesoftgalaxysys @holder-culture-is @anti-endo-help @syscultureis

[ambonexus]

Weeping, sniffle ❤️

Continuing the tag chain even though it's meant to be an ask chain hehe;

@theultimatekamehamehavoc @scribbleteaaa @bittermintz @sunglooow @irrelevant428 @eddieb0nes @ghostyvoo @literaryvein-reblogs @dailymakotonaegi @hajihiko @tellyphonestuff @verenvuoto @sweetnserene @mintmoth

[ghostyvoo]

hi. hello. I didn't think I'd ever get one of these. anyways I guess I'm gonna tag some ppl and let them know they're gorgus /p. have a good day guys I hope it's lovely :))) !!!!

(this is my main so y'all will probably only know my side tumblr hhshsgsggsg) ((deathdetermineslife))

@astrophelsgalaxy @lesbi-am @sweetjellyfilled-donut @sleepyshipper @sunburstkisser @milkshakekisser @angiiepaniic @ozzyscarnivalofships

[flesh-fantasy-deactivated202504]

awhehehe thank you!! you're awesome too!!

i don't like using my sideblog for stuff like this so i'm doing it here 👍

@ssunnybee @patchw0rk-quilt @pompurumi @human-centipuppy

hi friends!! ( ≧∀≦)ノ(hope you're all ok w/ being tagged & being called a friend, lemme know if not)

[dollie-pup-novalite]

THANK YOU EVIE 🥺 I don’t mind at all <3

@fictionalsillies @timeangel @andromeda-vita @sleepyshipper I don’t have many friends XD

[sleepyshipper]

HOWD I GET TAGGED IN TWO OF THESE?? HELLO GUYS... HI.. HEY.. WAVES.. UM UM . IDK OH MY GOD I DONT HAVE MANY MOOTS BUT OH WOWW HEY GUYS @ghostyvoo @ramsboytoy @h0t-p1nk-ch33tah-pr1nt

(AGAIN I DONT HAVE MANY MOOTS UM. SORRY HEY GUYS OH WOW)

[ramsboytoy]

didn't expect to wake up to this lmao

thanks man!

here i shall give it to these peoples who are wonderful humans <3 /p

@bunny-lovers @jokerislandgirl32 @self-ship-haven @sunflawyer @meikohandholder (yes babe, i mean it) @princessollieship @dreamwinged @lemonnotlemonade

[thepenguinandthefiend-deactivat]

Friendly reminder that

male selfshippers are valid

trans and nonbinary selfshippers are valid

queer selfshippers are valid

not everyone who selfships is a straight female

[miiconsole]

hey idk if this is like a controversial take or if im weird for saying this but

as a nonsharing selfshipper, we shouldn’t say to doubles that they’re not our f/o’s partner. we know how much it hurts to be told that we aren’t our f/o’s partner, either by jealousy though seeing canon x canon ships, or being told it to our face by people who don’t selfship. but this doesn’t mean we should do that to doubles.

i was scrolling and i saw someone say along the lines of, “if you are __ f/o, you’re not.” and this was a character that was seemingly very popular within the fandom. this is hurtful and we all know this, and we shouldn’t explicitly tell them that they are not and you are. this is so mean. i don’t think i should have to say this part but if you were in their shoes how would you feel?

i don’t know it just bugged me ever since i saw that post and I just wanted to say that we should be more kind with our words towards doubles so they don’t feel invalidated either

also im not saying u can’t be nonsharing. im nonsharing with one of my f/os i just want to encourage people to be kinder

[ramsboytoy]

here's my take:

if you're gonna do it, don't do it publicly or directly to them/where they can see it. do it to a fellow nonsharer you trust or yourself, or hell, to your f/o in ai chats or letters to them or talk out loud to them. also probably a good idea to block the person for both yalls sakes

i do this in private a lot when i see doubles, i cannot cope with it bc im fictoromantic and these are my actual lovers and qpps (and family and friends), also my mental health is shit 24/7.

[fruitypie-daydreams]

My selfship is the best ship this show doesn't know it has

[ramsboytoy]

yall imagine, if you and your f/os live in a city, going on rooftop dates! imagine sneaking up to the roof at midnight and just watching the sky (bc no stars where there's a ton of light pollution, sadly), counting the amount of planes you guys can see, the amount of low-orbiting satellites you might be able to see, hell even the amount of pigeons that fly over you two see!

(it's only if you age up minors to ship with them or age down self inserts to do so, that makes me very uncomfortable)

taglist: @sleepyshipper @self-ship-haven @jokerislandgirl32 @tothemoon-ships (ask to be added/removed at any time! pls let me know if you change your url so ik you're not dead lol)

divider credit: @.cafekitsune

[sweetjellyfilled-donut]

Imagine your F/O infodumping towards you

you don't NEED to respond, sometimes they just like having someone to talk to

Also vice versa, of course, I'd love to tell my F/O random things

Click to help Palestinians!

[rosemaryjmoriarty]

"I'm not obsessed with this character anymore, therefore I don't like them as I used to"

No.

The reason you're not obsessed anymore is because your obsession has turned into something's more strong; love. They're not 24/7 in your mind, because they'll be forever in your heart.

You'll be obsessed with many characters, yes, some obsessions will fade, but those whom you really adore will always be with you.

So stop being so anxious, okay? Here's some cake :)

[selfship-polls]

how many of your f/os have blue/bluish eyes

none of them

1

2

3

4

5

6

7

8

9

10+

none of them have blue/bluish eyes

Voting ended onSep 17, 2024

(proship dni)