Random Redhead Ramblings

The following are the Random Ramblings of a feisty Redhead. On a Mission to Promote Acceptance, Remove Labels, and Question "Social Norms" Each & everyday, I strive to make someone's day, by providing whatever they may need. No matter how quick or difficult, big or small, simple or complex the task may be. No matter whether we're strangers, family, friend or foe. No matter their age, race, religion, economic class, or nationality.

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Never sacrifice your happiness...

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I'd rather be alone and at peace then surrounded by anyone's negativity.

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Your parents probably know a lot more than you think, but let it slide because they were kids too (source)

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These bad boys can pull off an illusion better than David Copperfield...

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.....When I'm tired of hearing about your bad relationship/terrible job/shitty "friend"

The only person responsible for your happiness, is YOU! You are making the choice to accept the bullshit and suffer. And I am politely declining the invitation to your pity party.

Stop whining and Do Something About It!

End the relationship. Find another job. Get a better circle. Or don't. That is your decision to make. But I live in a Bullshit Free Zone.

We can still be friends, hang out, and chill, but do not pollute my ears with drama.

But only you can make the decision to step away from what is destroying your happiness.

Oh, but best believe, when you've finally had enough... When you're ready to make moves and push through the hard times. I got your back!

I'll be there to help you to your feet, dust you off and give ya a pat on the ass to get you going in the right direction.

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Never sacrifice your happiness for anyone. Love may disappoint, but it should never hurt.

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Life comes at you fast

A few months ago, just as I was getting this blog going... Shit happened, Life struck, Plans changed, and fetlife/Tumblr/whiplr were pushed all to the back burner... The dust has now settled, and I'm reeeaaallllyyyy gonna try to check/visit/post more consistently.

Allow me to RE-introduce myself...

I'm also a college graduate, successful Merchandising Manager, published poet, MS advocate, and dedicated life partner to a man with a physical disability.

We all have dirty laundry, I have no problems airing out mine. I'm divorced, polyamourus, bisexual, practicing submissive, and domestic violence survivor.

I have 3 kids... to 3 different men... born in 3 different states. That's my level of white trash, and I own it.

I'm the Jessica Rabbit to my Roger, and I believe he is the one true love of my life. The One, Soul Mate, Destiny, God's Plan... Whatever you call it... Yeah, He's that.

I enjoy chatting and sharing stories/experiences with respectful, open minded people regardless of gender, age, experience, race, religion, nationality, sexual orientation, kink, political affiliation, martial status, criminal history, employment status, zodiac sign, or any other label society slaps on you.

I have had great triumphs and also wallowed at "rock bottom." So, I started this blog to share my personal experiences, and opinions. Offer what advice I can, listen to those feeling unheard, accompany those feeling lonely, inspire hope, and at the very least make ya smile every once in awhile.

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Or a crop, or a whip, or a cane... Let your Kinky imagination explore the Sub-Shop.com

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Family don’t end with blood don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened

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BDSM Kink Explained In 12 Simple (And Sexy!) Pictures

Come find out where you fit in! (Puns always intended.)

Have you only just fantasized about tying up your partner during sex? Or wished you could be their pet for the day, drinking from a bowl and wearing a collar?

You are not alone! BDSM, which stands for bondage & discipline, dominant & submissive, sadism & masochism, is a huge general umbrella with a gigantic community backing it up. A community (for the most part) ready to teach, support, and advise anyone interested in exploring a SSC lifestyle. (Research that one yourself😉)

Try to think of it more like a kinky buffet. You may have tried some things before and already know you want more of. Some things you're just not ready to taste yet. Then there's some things that look sooo appetizing and you can't wait to try.

This article only reveals a portion of the buffet. This is a great way to open communication with your partner. Look through the photos together, each of you discuss what turns you on or off, and what will require time and patience before trying. Do some research online, then discuss it again. Maybe find a porno to help you visualize each other's fantasies. And then talk some more. Honest communication is essential! If you have concerns or apprehension about anything, bring it up! BDSM is all about consenting to scenes that is satisfing for all involved.

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Who else gonna teach em right?🤷