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FIGHTING the disordered thoughts by channeling into growth

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SOMEONE decided restrictions overrated. Fighting the relapsing thoughts with weights. I want strong arms, not noodles.

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i HATE the gym. HATE. it. I WANNA SWIM

i mean ive burnt almost everything ive eaten but like

UGH

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My LGBTQ hot-takes.

Queer people should know a certain amount about our history. Things like what life was like for gay people before decriminalisation and before same-sex civil partnership, the AIDS epidemic, the fight for our rights.

I prefer the term transsexual, and I see it as a good sign in a person if they also prefer that term for themself.

I don't like the progress flag. The segregation of the trans flag suggests we weren't represented by the rainbow flag prior. The inclusion of the intersex flag ignores the MANY intersex people who do not identify as LGBTQ. AND people like to say the black and the brown stripes are for queer POC, the brown stripe is (good) but the black is AIDS memorial, which is a VITAL part of the flag. I like the 8 stripe progress flag and the 8 stripe original flag the most (both acknowlege our history).

Trans men + trans masc people can be lesbians. I think its stupid that this is discourse. WHY DOES IT MATTER WHAT SOMEONE CALLS THEMSELF, AS LONG AS THEY'RE HAPPY.

LGBTQ is enough letters. I will never use more than that.

Gender assigned at birth labels are important. An AFAB person will have been raised as a girl and an AMAB person as a boy. Misogyny is the basis of how we learn about gender, someone socialised as male will typically have the same faults as a cis guy, and vice versa. To unpick misogyny in queer spaces, we need these labels. Also discussing healthcare.

AMAB non-binary people deserve to be ignored WAY less than they are.

The intersection between queerness, disability, neurodivergence, race and women's rights is ignored way too often.

The majority of the queer people in queer spaces online should go out and meet real life queer people.

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The My Fitness Pal UI is so shite now oml

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352 avoidable calories today, stupid and out of control. tomorrow i wont let myself slip again.

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I dont want this. I dont want this. I dont want this. I want to be normal and healthy again but im not able to stop now I'm here again. This is hell. This is my hell. Its of my own making. I'm just scaring my friends. This is scaring my friends.

[whimsweed]

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Spiraling with my best friend in my bedroom, asleep. I want to hurt myself so badly, but they'd hate themselves if they found out.

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This shits gonna do wonders for my alcohol relience.

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never had friends who really cared when restricting. this is HARD. theyre so sweet but I just want to stop, stop eating, stop feeling. I cant do this.

[yellow-cat]

actually hate that the bodys response to anything is nausea. ate too much? nauseous. ate too little? nauseous. an imaginary threat got you scared? be nauseous. on your period? you guessed it. sawed into your hand and need to go to the emergency room? perhaps throwing up into your open wound will be of help

[solarprominence]

I maintain that the best summation of my feminist beliefs are that men and women are not fundamentally different. There are a few quantifiable differences if you average out every woman and every man, but they are not qualitative. And most of them are socially constructed, and would be fixed if we started treating men and women the same. Neither is inherently smarter, neither is inherently kinder, neither is inherently more stoic or stronger or angrier or softer. Everyone is obsessed with the differences between women and men, with finding them and creating them and distancing themselves from the "other half". It's fucked up

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[yearningdaughter]

[americanredrum]

NIKACADO AVOCADO LOST ALL HIS WEIGHT BEFORE ME??!??!?!??!!??

[02bunnygirl-deactivated20250925]

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One thing ive learnt as someone who has had the ages of 13-18 defined my disordered eating is that socially you dont develop normally.