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The dying star that fell to earth

remember to cry for help without guilt-tripping. i know it feels like you’ve been abandoned and betrayed, but it’s probably not true, and it’s not okay to accuse the people around you of something they might not have done.

“i guess none of you like me” could be better phrased as “i feel unloved right now”

“but nobody cares anyway” could be better phrased as “i feel insignificant and i need reassurance”

rather than assuming others’ feelings, give them time to explain them. you’ll usually get a much better answer.

randomslasher

This is really important for future predictions, too. “You’re eventually going to leave me” is impossible for someone else to disprove without just sticking around forever, but no one wants to stick around when they’re being constantly accused of future abandonment. Giving someone no choice but to either stay with you forever in order to prove you wrong or leave you and prove you right is incredibly emotionally manipulative, whether you mean it to be or not.

“I get scared sometimes because I’m afraid of being alone again” is easier to address and doesn’t leave your partner(s)/friend(s) feeling as though they’re being preemptively accused of something.

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these are called I Statements arnd are super healthy to focus on for general communication! Any time you feel the urge to call out others, say “you xyz”, try to think of a way to make it an I sttement instead. You cant control the actions and feelings of others; focus on properly communicating how YOU feel in a constructive manner and you’ll get a much more accurate read on reality, which will help support and ground you towards better decision making and engagements with others.

dead-ghouls

hinata appreciation post

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we’re all gonna be sixty posting shit like: cranberry juice…

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crimegoku

Capulets vs Montagues

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When you fall through a kiddy pool and end up in the Coca-Cola Hellscape.

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Item: rubber kiddy pool containing a portal to the Elemental Plane of Animated Text & Logos

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Want to be a big titty green haired anime bitch tearing into a whole mutton leg at the medieval feasting table surrounded by rowdy men with huge arms who will not hurt me

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This is where i want to be

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akane and santa every time junpei chooses the wrong door

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I drew a wrap cover for Hope, Faith, Love, Luck: a Zero Escape zine! It’s got 40+ pages by 31 artists who all love 9 Persons 9 Hours 9 Doors. This is the textless drawing and some closeups.

Preorders open on tictail!