Has anybody else seen an increase of porn bots in the asexual tag?
I swear it feels like I’m blocking at least 10 of them everyday but somehow it feels like they just unblock themselves somehow and I don’t remember it being like that
Honestly it doesn’t really make sense to me as I’m pretty sure the whole point of it is that people are so blinded by their sexual attraction to the people in the posts that they don’t recognize that it’s a scam, or at least that’s the idea of it
If that is the case, then I don’t get why they advertise it to us asexuals, considering the fact that, y’know, we’re not really known for feeling sexual attraction
It just feels really strange, all things considered
I’m bored so I’ve decided to answer all these questions
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1. Which labels do you use?
I use a TON of labels so if you want to see them all, it’s linked in the pinned post on my profile
2. Do you like to use the term queer for yourself? Or just LGBT, etc?
I use both because I like ‘em
3. Which pronouns do you use?
He/They
4. Are you "out" to your family and friends?
I’m not out to any of my family members but I am out to a lot of my friends
5. Are you "out" publicly?
No because I only come out to people I trust
6. (If you're out) do you wish you came out sooner?Later? Or was it the right time?
I think all but one of the times it was the right time. However, there was this one guy who was shipping me and my other friend so I straight up told him that I don’t like girls and now there’s drama between two of my friends because of it
7. Are you the "token" queer person in your family?
I mean kinda???? I don’t know if any of my siblings are queer but none of the give off the energy that they are
8. Describe your gender without using any words traditionally related to gender:
Bleak
9. When did you realize you weren't cishet?
Sometime during middle school when I learned about asexuality through a fanfic but I remember being attracted to men in elementary school but I was still convinced that I was straight
10. Something that gives you gender euphoria (whether you're cis or trans):
I haven’t discovered anything that gave me gender euphoria because most things are “meh” or “DEFINITELY NOT” so yeah
11. Favorite (or just one you love) piece of LGBT media?
Probably The Owl House but it’s over :(
12. Name some queer artists/bands or songs you like most:
I listen to a mix variety of artists but I don’t know if any of them are queer and I’m not gonna look it up because there’s A LOT
13. Do you choose to reclaim slurs, why or why not? I
Personally myself I don’t say them and when other queer people say it I just get a bit shocked and then move on with my day
14. How do you think other factors like neurodivergency or upbringing have impacted your identity?
Hell if I know ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
15. How has your identity changed over time?
I’m gonna say a shortened version of it because I can’t remember it all straight -> gay -> bi -> gay -> gay and asexual -> bi and asexual -> gay and asexual -> polyromantjc and asexual -> + a whole lot of acespec identities
16. Do you attend Pride in person every year?
I’ve never went to a Pride Parade before
17. Have you ever attended Pride in a big city/ large metro area?
Same as above
18. How old were you when you got to attend your first Pride? Who did you go with?
Same as above
19. Do you feel safe and accepted in your local community?
The only local community I’ve been in is my school’s GSA club and I think it’s pretty cool
20. Do you feel like you "fit in" with the queer/Pride community overall?
I’m not really sure what this is asking me
21. What message would you give to your younger self?
Stop being convinced you’re straight, you literally liked men and knew that but still denied that you’re queer
22. How do you usually celebrate Pride month?
For the first couple of days I’m usually like “yippie!!!! :D” but then after it’s just same as usual
23. Do you prefer loud parties or quiet?
I don’t go to parties but I think I would like a mixture of the two
24. Do you practice any religion, if so how does it play into your LGBT identity? Do you feel welcomed by your spiritual community?
I currently do not practice any religion
25. What queer discourse frustrates you the most?
All of them
26. How do you feel about the term partner rather than husband/girlfriend/etc?
I like it :D
27. What gender-neutral terms for yourself or others do you use (i.e. joyfriend)?
Not really a whole lot
28. Do you experience both romantic and sexual attraction? Do you experience them the same across any gender(s) you are attracted to?
I only experience romantic attraction to men
29. Are you currently partnered, or if not are you interested in having partner(s)?
I’m currently not, I’m fine not having one but I would like to have one in the future
30. Are you monogamous or polyamorous?
Monogamous
31. Post a pic in your pride gear (or it can just be a selfie or anything else Igbt):
I’m not comfortable posting myself on the internet, but these are all the Pride stuff I have. I got the flag and the progress flag pin from GSA club which is pretty cool
32. Do you do arts and crafts? Post a pic of a project you've done:
I don’t really do arts and crafts that often
33. What about your LGBT identity do you feel proud of/ want to recognize/celebrate?
I probably recognize my asexuality the most
34. What are you needing most right now (what would make your life easier or more fulfilling in regards to existing as queer)?
Probably having rights
35. Anything else you want to ask during Pride:
None, but if you made it this far, thank you for getting to know a bit about me!
Another quiz for if you were a fictional character how would your fandom treat you (if you think your life is too boring to have a fandom just think of yourself as living the domestic!au of some sci-fi or fantasy)
At first we played 2 truths and 1 lie but afterwards we voted for the club’s president, vice president, secretary, and treasurer. Two of my friends even got to be vice president and treasurer! It was a lot of fun, I can’t wait for the next meeting next week!
Secondly, I took 1 of 2 tests and I think I did pretty well on it!
There’s only a few days left in Ace Week so celebrate as much as you can!!!! 🖤🤍💜
This week hasn’t started off so great, with me being sick and what not. But I hope it’ll end with something great!
Speaking of which, there’s going to be another GSA Club meeting tomorrow! Last time it was so fun actually being around people like me in real life! I can’t wait for tomorrow!
And most of my friends will be there!
Oh yeah, I also got 2 tests I gotta make up but I’m sure that’ll be fine ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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