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[sereinede]

I always struggle with drawing characters consistently unless I draw them a 100 times orz figured I might as well play with different headcanons!

[advicefromsurvivors]

When your child says “Why can’t I get a puppy?”

Instead of defaulting to “My house, my rules”

Try “Any pet is a lot of responsibility. A puppy would have to be fed, walked, and taken outside to use the bathroom several times a day and taken for regular check-ups and vaccinations at the vet. You can’t do all of that by yourself, and I/we don’t have the time or money either.”

When your teenager says “Why can’t I come home at 2:00 this Saturday?”

Instead of defaulting to “My house, my rules!”

Try “The time you come home is a matter of respect and consideration. I/We will not only be concerned for your safety, but we would either be disturbed in the middle of the night when you arrive or forced to stay up for several extra hours waiting.”

When your child says “Why am I not allowed to do this thing?”

Instead of defaulting to “My house, my rules!”

Try actually communicating a legitimate reason, because children pick up on subtlety and on context and on the unspoken messages, and it’s better to teach children lessons like “You should think really hard before taking on new responsibilities” and “It’s important to show consideration for the needs of the people with whom you share a living space” than lessons like “It’s okay for people to demand your absolute obedience so long as you’re dependent on them for survival.”

[shadywinters]

TRUTH

[blackwoolncrown]

Also worth knowing: training your child to accept arbitrary ‘reasons’ for obedience like ‘because I said so’ and ‘my house my rules’ etc trains them to be more susceptible to peer pressure because in their mind, when someone who is at all an authority (older than them, bigger than them, more impressive than them, more confident than them) demands something, they should accept it and not think about it critically. Let them ask why, and give them a real reason. If not, don’t be surprised when they fall for lots of bullshit when they are older. You’re the one that made them believe ‘BECAUSE’ was reason enough.

[knightofiris]

^^^ This. My mother never pulled the ‘my house my rules’ shit with me. She always explained why I wasn’t allowed to do something. So instead of resenting her for not letting me do things I learned why certain activities were bad or not something I should be doing at that age. If you explain something to a kid or teenager they’re more likely to understand why and more likely to be receptive to your criticism.

[reapersthighs]

hi! i’m alive yet.  i disabled links to this blog's about. i have not logged into this place since i was 15 and i will be 18 in january 2019. if you want to reconnect,  my discord tag is sneel#2376

[gaynfl-moved]

sometimes i get a little stressed out because i’m living in a part of history that’ll one day be talked about and discussed and papers written and what am i doing? what have i done? laundry, barely

[meladoodle]

This is New Zealand’s national soap opera and an episode just ended with the greatest cliffhanger of all time

[ifunnny]

[videofunnyhorse]

ask me anything about clowns

[videofunnyhorse]

I have the answers you seek

[damion1060]

When will the creepy clown sightings start up again?

[videofunnyhorse]

Find your answer at www.videofunnyhorse.net

[splendidland]

this is the most frightening ad i’ve encountered on here

[magicalsapphic-deactivated20171]

My dad has a doppelganger named Eric. For years people have been coming up to him, thinking he was Eric. Sometimes people get a whole conversation going while my dad stands there politely wondering why this stranger is talking to him before they stop, wide eyed, and realize “you’re not Eric.” None of us have ever seen Eric, but we know he’s out there. Sometimes a couple years will go by without an Eric incident and we worry. But then my dad will come home like “good news guys, Eric’s still alive, I met his cousin today.”

[siriusplack1-deactivated2015112]

troy bolton chad danforth potter you were named after the two raddest Wildcats i ever knew now take this basketball and get your head in the game

[parakeet]

{This user still eats floppy disks lmao like what year is it? get some proper food in you ya whalloper}

[alycyn]

[marsmall0ws]

one of the best things about samurai jack is that, YOU WANT HIM IN AN OUTFIT???? ITS LIKELY CANON!

Suit? CANON. Dress? CANON. Turtle neck? CANON. HEELS? CANON! CROP TOP?!?!? CANON!!!!!! I HAVE CANONICAL PROOF OF ALL OF THESE!!!!!! NOTHING BUT UNDERWEAR?!?!?!  I T  H A P P E N S  A L M O S T  E V E R Y  E P I S O D E!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[thehauntedumbrella]

PICS OR IT DIDN’T HAPPEN

[marsmall0ws]

YOU WANT PICS?

I GOT PICS

[brusk-ghost]

he is even perfect with anything

[zvaigzdelasas]

one down....

[smallwelshmonastery-deactivated]

This just does not become any more acceptable no matter how often i walk past this building

[phibrizo-moved-deactivated20181]

@maoh

[hivs]

i work there

[ndnmccree-moved-deactivated2023]

[triprobellant-deactivated201709]

the no fear / one fear comic edit meme will always be an absolute failure in my eyes because the original unedited middle panel was “what if simpsons porn was illegal” and literally nothing else, no matter how absurd or relatable, can top that