Reblog Suggestions

A suggestion blog composed of reblogged suggestions and the occasional nicety

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your first love doesn’t have to be your last. happy fairytale endings can exist without being a childhood best friends to lovers romcom plot.

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don’t settle for being the “useful” friend. be there because they want you to be there and you want to be there, not because they need you there.

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you’re allowed to have mixed feelings. you don’t have to settle on just one or even fully understand the ones you have.

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i will heal no matter how long it takes and no matter what it takes

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don’t be embarrassed for having big feelings. i love that you have them. they’re a part of you.

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having bad days won’t erase your progress. taking a step back doesn’t mean you won’t keep taking steps forward.

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reminder to self: you can anticipate good outcomes, not just bad ones

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don’t be embarrassed for having big feelings. i love that you have them. they’re a part of you.

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*takes your face carefully in my hands* we will be just fine

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the fact that you’re trying is a big deal. that’s all that really matters.

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as long as you’re not hurting anyone (including yourself) there’s no wrong way to grieve. take your time. do what you need to do to move forward even if it feels unconventional.

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as long as you’re not hurting anyone, big emotions/reactions are not “toxic”

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one thing at a time. one chore, one assignment, one task, one day. one at a time and go from there. breathe. you can do this- this one thing.

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you have permission to still feel heartbroken over things you feel like you should have moved on from by now

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you are not too much

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gentle reminder: you’re beautiful and lovely and deserving of good things

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you’ll heal over time. but there will be highs and lows. it won’t be linear. it will never feel completely over. but you will heal.