reciprocity is salvation

Lion she/they 2S sapphic Minors DNI DNI if you identify as white, a man, religious, a TERF, or cis/het. I'm a misandrist. I also hate white people. Go away, Cracker. Y'all invented hell to cope with the awful things you do in life. This is a safe place for people who identify as First Peoples, PGM, Intersex peoples, 2Spirit peoples, Trans women, Transfeminine peoples, Nonbinary peoples, Demi-gender peoples, people with any and all forms of disability, and Aspec peoples. Overall TW: I will never tag for triggers

[monster-bugs]

They hated on her but she was onto something

[reciprociutiyvhi]

trans women and trans men perform their respective binary genders' more authentically than their cis counterparts ever can or will. Cis women are not as womanly as trans women and cis men are not as manly as trans men. Which is hilarious considering the way trans men are acting towards femmes and androgynous people. Like dudebro you just became the right hand of the patriarchy lmao

[reciprociutiyvhi]

the funniest part of this discourse and what I think will seriously kill any transandrobros argument is that androphobia is a real diagnosable psychological condition where people are terrified of men they have no relation to due to mistreatment from previous men imparting trauma over the course of their lives. Like now you're being ableist too?? smh

[morganitism]

Well see I don't like the term "white genocide" because that implies whites are people and it makes me really uncomfortable that you would compare them to real people

[wriggle-transbug]

i saw a post and comment thread essentially saying how all the transfeminists on tumblr are some manufactured psyop because the real trans women they've known are all super kind and helpful and don't talk about things like transmisogyny.

hmm. i wonder why all the trans women you've encountered have been nothing but ingratiating to you, not expressing any needs or problems that may make you uncomfortable. hmmmmm.

[reciprociutiyvhi]

No solidarity until disparity is addressed

[reciprociutiyvhi]

hah more like wrong-wing theory

[mooned-knights]

we have to hold the line on misandry not being real. it's getting scary out there

[realshy]

not even a little bit real. not even a little bit. you can quote me on that. "tumblr user realshy said misandry is 'not even a little bit real" end quote.

[rednines]

I’m putting estrogen in the jet exhaust to crop dust the world with femtrails

[petrichor4719]

Can you like... release a warning so the trans men can seek shelter?

[rednines]

You go to Jupiter to get more stupider

[worlds-tiredest-girl]

attention transfems:

from now on, any post about the transfem experience must include at least one of the following:

- direct featuring of trans men

- a detailed and exhaustive acknowledgement of how the post may make trans men feel

- At least one (1) paragraph of profuse apology and groveling to trans men for liking things they do not like, having experiences they cannot relate with, or having thoughts that do not involve them

Failure to comply with this regulation is punishable by account termination and/or public execution

[reciprociutiyvhi]

all men are inherently pedophiles

[reciprociutiyvhi]

all parents are encouraged and inherently prone to abusing and enslaving children for economic benefit as their private property

[badtundra]

"we'll figure it out together" is a love language

[reciprociutiyvhi]

Privilege survives because the privileged abandon themselves to remain privileged.

[kiwineverdies]

The fact of the matter is that feminism hasn't progressed socially at ALL because we're STILL ON the part where gender is a class system and men, in every demographic, are still fucking shitting and crying over it. Motherfucker this is step 1. You're on step 1.

[agpgigarapehon]

the more i use this app the more i understand how TMEs view biological sex. they genuinely do think that biological sex is immutable and no matter what a trans woman will be a biological man and a trans man will always be a biological woman. this view is why they think trans women (in their eyes biological men) have privilege over trans men (in their eyes biological women).

in their eyes, seeing trans women as men is not wrong or transphobic, its seen as an unarguable truth. it is simply just "rude" to actually point it out. its like pointing out a womans weight to them - while its true a woman might be larger, it would be rude to point it out

[morganitism]

*swings a pendulum in front of you* oooooh you wanna stop using psycho/psychotic as insults so badly. and psychopath. and sociopath. and antisocial. and homebound. and schizo. and narcissist(ic). and braindead. and mouthbreather. and delusional. and

[grfygrf]

It's occurred to me that the core of pretty much any name-calling is going to be some level of ableism, racism, sexism, etc. so maybe we all would benefit from being more direct in the criticisms we have for people we don't like. Like, say what you actually mean instead of using disabilities as a proxy for the word "bad"

[8akesale]

you're not gonna believe the origins of the word "bad"

[the-peoples-puppy]

It is a bit of a bitter pill but like, it's really genuinely excruciatingly difficult to try to be friends with girls who aren't communist transfeminists because they just like haven't gotten their vaccinations against rancid, festering bits of mainstream ideology that tell them that they and other girls hurting themselves and letting themselves be hurt is no big deal, so then like every other conversation with them is to the tune of 'hey I'm being treated like shit by someone in my life that makes me chronically stressed' 'wow they sound like a piece of shit' 'oh no they're not that bad they did something else good for me and really I'm a bad [daughter][partner][friend] anyway so they deserve to treat me that way' and you just like. Sigh really loud as you go through the process of wrestling a stray down for a vaccination.