wriggle transbug

wriggle! | he/she/it | 19yo

[wriggle-transbug]

intro!

hello everyone! you can call me wriggle, and this is my blog!

quick facts

age: 19

pronouns: he/she/it (no preference, used interchangeably)

gender: transandrogynous, genderqueer/fluid

orientation: aplatonic allorose lesbian

etc: white, autistic, plural, mentally ill, disabled

the purpose of this blog: to post about queerness, mogai and microlabels, politics, disability, and whatever else i want!

no dni but i obviously don't want to interact with bigots and will block you if you are one. beyond that if i don't want to interact i will still just block you

discourse tag - i tag posts with "#discourse" not to minimize the discussion being had, but to make my views on commonly debated subjects easily accessible. if you are wondering where i stand on a certain subject, i recommend checking that tag.

this blog has existed in various forms for nearly 6 years! the latest being mogai-angel, which was only now changed to wriggle-transbug as of 7/16/26. this change was due to no longer wanting to be a mogai centered blog, and also getting a haircut which makes me look like wriggle nightbug (who is also my favorite touhou character!)

[ryotouzukai]

Multiple people will come out and very clearly explain why trying to rehabilitate the idea of "transmascvoicesproject" is a bad idea and there's still people coming out of the woodwork insisting that "no, we're actually good!" while agreeing with the original in his notes and tagging their posts with "transandrophobia"

[nekokiwa]

as a tma nonbinary person i don't trust anyone talking about "exorsexism" because they almost universally are just the theyfab version of transandrobros. they don't actually care about oppression of nonbinary people they care about transmascs exclusively but pretend tma nonbinary people don't exist because they're misogynists and just say they care about all nonbinary people while excluding me and every other transfem from their ideas of nonbinary people

[zzzeezeezzz]

Being a trans woman means you arent allowed access to womanhood or the supposed good/positive masculinity often claimed by trans masc folks. This idealized and positive masculinity is one that is supposedly above all negative traits of masculinity and the patriarchy in society that influences it. Trans fems are conversely allowed only access to the negative aspects of masculinity as inherited from patriarchy. We are referred to as being male socialized whenever we do something negative. We are overshadowed in discussions about womanhood and our claims to it are seen as dubious at worst and partial at best. Trans fems are allowed neither womanhood or the idealized manhood that trans mascs are. Instead we are seen as men in disguise waiting to enact our underlying patriarchal socialization. While trans mascs are seen as forging a new masculinity/manhood. One that is both divorced from the patriarchal expressions of masculinity in our society and one that is inherently linked to an experience of "womanhood" and its associated oppressions.

[capnsoapy]

Feminists and misogynists both want to stop arguing about whether men or women have it worse, but the crucial different is feminists want to stop because they already know the objectively correct answer, and misogynists want it to stop because being reminded of the truth makes them uncomfortable.

[partywithponies]

"Your personality comes from the way you were parented" "Your personality is inate and genetic" wrong!!!!! your personality comes from that one piece of media you were unhealthily and irreversibly obsessed with when you were 13 years old

[fallenangelyeen]

if you are TMA and disabled the world wants to kill you. don't let it have the fucking satisfaction.

[monidoll]

its difficult to know if youre being reasonably cautious or unreasonably paranoid if you are transgender

[bitchautism]

here's two articles about how JK Rowling just posted on X an upskirt photo of Freda Wallace, a transgender woman, after deadnaming her and misgendering her repeatedly online.

JK Rowling deadnamed and posted 'upskirt' photo of trans woman on X

The wealthy author escalated a social media spat that resulted in posting a photo from a 2023 event at the Institute of Economic Affairs in

JK Rowling posts upskirt image of trans woman while begging to debate her - LGBTQ Nation

Rowling posted the picture taken from below because the trans woman, she said, was "refusing to debate me."

[sailatina3]

Thank you for posting without the fucking destiel meme

[crypticarchivist]

So in summation; Rowling demanded access to a woman’s time and when she couldn’t get it she retaliated by posting an upskirt image of her and called her fat, and some of her fans even went “I think I can see her genitals”.

She literally went “debate me! Debate me!” Over and over like the grifter she is and when she couldn’t get what she wanted and when “no” wasn’t enough she resorted to retaliatory sex-pestery, posting an image of somebody’s body with intention to shame and embarrass and spawn more waspish tittering from her internet followers.

Rowling is trash and this is disgraceful behavior, in case anyone has forgotten.

[shabby-blog]

She had also claimed Freda "deserved" this sexual harassment because of what she was wearing... You know... The same excuse used over and over to try and justify rape.

[villainessbian]

J K Rowling committed a sex crime against a trans woman (specifically, violating the Sexual Offences Act 2003)

(1) A person (A) commits an offence if—

(a) A intentionally shares a photograph or film which shows, or appears to show, another person (B) in an intimate state, (b) B does not consent to the sharing of the photograph or film, and (c) A does not reasonably believe that B consents.

(2) A person (A) commits an offence if—

(a) A intentionally shares a photograph or film which shows, or appears to show, another person (B) in an intimate state, (b) A does so with the intention of causing B alarm, distress or humiliation, and (c) B does not consent to the sharing of the photograph or film.

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

the fact that I feel the need to go, "and don't forget about Black people" is the most damning indictment of tumblr that I can give without being tempted to mention photovoltaic bartholemew. I have to browbeat you people to reblog any kind of Melanistic Mention. I love you, but i despair of you understanding the way I interpret your suburban accent.

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

13 year ago eminem (marshall mathers) said,

"I don't know how to make songs like that I don't know what words to use."

you have to do better than 13 year old eminem lyrics. stop treating people as a social obligation.

deal with it, talk about it, stop hiding it away in your private suffering chamber. do your communism dishes

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

you do this to me and ignore Black women. I am irritated with you.. resolve this.

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

Tears that are driven by white guilt are self-indulgent. When we are mired in guilt, we are narcissistic and ineffective; guilt functions as an excuse for inaction. Further, because we so seldom have authentic and sustained cross-racial relationships, our tears do not feel like solidarity to people of color we have not previously supported. Instead, our tears function as impotent reflexes that don’t lead to constructive action. We need to reflect on when we cry and when we don’t, and why. In other words, what does it take to move us? Since many of us have not learned how racism works and our role in it, our tears may come from shock and distress about what we didn’t know or recognize. For people of color, our tears demonstrate our racial insulation and privilege. I asked the woman of color I refer to in the opening of this chapter if I was missing anything in this list. This is her response: It’s infuriating because of its audacity of disrespect to our experience. You are crying because you are uncomfortable with your feelings when we are barely allowed to have any. You are ashamed or some such thing and cry, but we are not allowed to have any feelings because then we are being difficult. We are supposed to remain stoic and strong because otherwise we become the angry and scary people of color. We are only allowed to have feelings for the sake of your entertainment, as in the presentation of our funerals. And even then, there are expectations of what is allowed for us to express. We are abused daily, beaten, raped, and killed but you are sad and that’s what is important. That’s why it is sooooo hard to take. White Fragility, Robin DiAngelo (emphasis mine)

[sin0fempathy]

looks like the whispers of lolcow forums infiltrating transfeminist spaces is very true. i’ve found multiple twerf sock puppets in the transmisogyny and transfeminism tags spewing out hate just in the past few hours.

and oh hey, look at that!

transandrobros (at least those of you who haven’t already dived headfirst into twerf ideology), this should be a fork in the road for your beliefs. transfems specifically are disproportionately targeted by these hate groups, and they’re using the language you invented- language that was invented primarily to complain about trans women pointing out that we’re privileged over transfems- to do it. all i ask is that you think about that for a moment.

from transmascvoicesproject to the first user of “transandrophobia” (who became a TWERF shortly after coining it), i can’t trust spaces curated specifically for transmascs anymore, any more than i can trust spaces meant just for men. it’s proof of our privilege, that they always manage to become breeding grounds for transmisogyny one way or another.

either y’all actually hear out trans women as to why that is, or y’all will inevitably fall down this pipeline. which will it be?

[tonysopranoproskater69420]

once you notice half of all memes are just a picture of a black person with unrelated text over them you really cannot unsee it

[taken-up-the-junction]

Hate to see a transmasc egg thinking he needs permission to be a boy. If you want to be a boy, just do it. “But what if I don’t experience enough dysphoria?” Doesn’t matter. I didn’t ask if being a girl makes you miserable, I asked if being a boy makes you happy.

You don’t need an endless list of reasons to transition, you can transition just because you want to. You can transition just to have a deeper voice, just to have facial hair, just to use a different name, just to kiss boys in a gay way. It literally doesn’t matter. Do what makes you happy and fuck all the rest or whatever that gay little twink said in little miss sunshine.

[dodykeahedron]

Actually I was born non-binary. I just didn't know it until my 20s.

Actually trans women are born women. Even if she doesn't realize it at first.

Actually trans men are born men. Even if he doesn't realize it at first.

I don't care if you're trans too. Disagreement with this is called misgendering. And frankly you should know better by now. Especially if you're trans too.

[ispyspookymansion]

to be honest, kitten doesnt know how many more “ok 💗 yay 💗”s they have left in them

[noelle-ism]

Somebodys gotta get into the freaking oval office and tell our Lump of a "President" that racism = small dick energy!!! 🤨😬

[mxjackparker]

Making motivational "it's never too late to transition" posts is really undercut if the age you're highlighting is still young. Claiming that your transition was late and it worked out great for you actually makes older people more afraid to transition if you're saying that shit in your 20s. How do you think a trans person in their 50s, 60s, 70s and 80s feels when you're 23 and calling yourself a late transitioner?

It's never too late until you're in a coffin. It is worth it for a single day of being yourself, even if you're 110.