- DNI if you’re: homophobe, racist, misogynistic, TERF/radfem, lesbophobe, transphobe, biphobe, aphobe, or if you’re (or support) someone who is a “bi lesbian”, “bi gay” or someone who is a man and identifies as lesbian.
- IF YOU’RE A MINOR PLEASE BLOCK THE TAG #lgbt nsfw (I accept receiving nsfw asks as long as it’s not about men)
- Here’s the link of my sapphic server on discord (lesbians and other sapphics, and also minors can join)
- Here’s the link that explain very well why the “bi lesbian” label is problematic.
- I talk about my own experiences, LGBTQ+ related issues, and my asks are always open to anyone who wants to talk/vent whatever.
- If you want to discuss anything that you don’t really agree with me then it’s okay, as long as you’re not being rude and prejudiced like people who usually want to argue with me are.
- Most posts are more focused on lesbianism, but there’s a few about the queer community and other identities. So even if you want to talk about other identities my blog is also a safe space for that.
- My dms are always available
- There’s some people who use specific emojis whenever they send anon asks, so if you want to do that so I can know which anon I’m talking to feel free to choose an emoji and do that! Emojis that were used already: ⛄️🧸🍓🫐🍄👽🍎🥩🦇🦈🐸🌻🌙🐶🪻🐱🌺💥🌸🥀📛🌝🎸☔️🦤🖍️🧬🦋🎀
Tags:
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- #screenshots : self explanatory.
- #lesbian characters :every character that is canon lesbian.
- #famous lesbians : every celebrity who identifies as lesbian
- #lesbian rep : it has both lesbian characters and famous lesbians
- #stephanie talks : basically all my posts I vent about stuff are tagged with this.
- #stephanie answers : all my asks.
- #not lgbt related : all posts that are not related to the community.
- #comphet : experiences/issues related to comphet and understanding more fake attraction vs real attraction.
- #cultural shock : just me talking about differences of my cultures with others.
- #long post : self explanatory
- #ask game tag : reblogs of ask games in case anyone wants to do it.
- #ask game : answers from ask games.
- #queer terms : all my posts that I explain the meaning of LGBTQ+ terms.
- #pride flags : posts showing pride flags and their meanings.
- #tik toks : videos usually lgbtq+ related.
- #lesbian experiences : my experiences of being a lesbian.
- #queer rep : posts about characters and movies/shows/books with queer characters.
- #queer tropes
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- #queer latines : queer representation of Latin Americans.
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- #femme4femme
- #’bi lesbians’ : posts to talk about “mspec lesbians” and men identifying as lesbians.
- #american moment
- #my headcanons : characters I headcanon as lesbians (some of them are headcanons sent by other people)
- #male crushes : this will be tagged whenever I receive asks that involve male crushes like celebrities or fictional characters
- #lgbt facts : series of posts about random lgbt facts that are not about the US.
- #tw corrective rape
- #free blocklist : exposing blogs that go against my dni list for anyone interested.
- #famous tropes : this will be a series of popular movie/book/show tropes that are prejudiced/problematic.
- #lesbian culture : series of posts about what I think is lesbian culture (pls they’re not supposed to be taken seriously, it’s just for fun).
- #my crushes: fictional characters and celebrities I had/have a crush on.
- #my favs : my favorite canon lesbian characters
-#brazilian rep: famous brazilians
-#favorite male characters
-#stephanie listens to : songs I recommend (usually latin american songs)
I remember when I was a kid and was obsessed with Alice in Wonderland (the live action) because of Anne Hathaway but a the same time even though I didn’t really know wlw couples were a thing I still unconsciously shipped Mirana and Alice lol
Hi it’s anon with potential lesbian friend. This may sound crazy but I actually unfollowed her on instagram and I did it because it’s not really for my mental health or being to someone who I barely know or who I try to befriend and I don’t want to keep chasing things but thank you for your advice. There are different lesbian/sapphic events that I go to not worry about her 🙂 but I’m just afraid I might see her or run into her at the Juneteenth black sapphic party because she did tell me she was going and now I feel an idiot avoiding someone that doesn’t probably like me and trying to focus on having fun and maybe potentially meeting others so idk what may happen? My older friend says there’s plenty of people I will meet just like I did her (like you said not focusing on always one person who talked with me).
It does make me feel sad and disappointed too in a way because it’s hard making other lesbian friends (I know not everyone is like that) and have always go to these events alone instead of always going with friends and try not to let it stop me from doing my thing :)
And I’m going to a pride parade and cool down after party sapphic pride and sip and paints to look forward to. I try not to be sad lol and I am going to a queer race party with a girl that I met at the sapphic pole show and we going to a sluts sapphic sex positive rave party next month and I’m nervous and shy about it!
And happy pride! 🌻
Hey!
Good for you! I wouldn’t be afraid to meet her there if I were you, there probably will be a lot of people there and likely you two won’t need to interact (perhaps just acknowledging her by smiling at most).
All the things you listed you’ll be doing sound so cool! I hope you have lots of fun! Happy pride ❤️
One trope (I don’t even know if that’s what it’s called) I hate and I think it’s just lazy writing is that trope that a female character is simply a female version of an existing male character.
You want to create a completely new female character? Then actually create one from scratch, don’t simply copy and paste a male character but switching genders…
I had to see with my own eyes a lesbian say something like “bi women will always prefer men” then a bi woman responded her by saying she was married to a woman, and op replied with “then you’re a lesbian not bi” ????
Sometimes I am embarrassed to say I am part of the same community as someone as stupid as this one
Interesting to notice how making a post calling out biphobia from a lesbian gets more likes than the posts I make calling out lesbophobia from a bisexual…
Why I feel like that because she is the host and she is pretty popular so I get paranoid if others might believe what she says? It happened to me before in the past with making connection with others and it’s hard even though I keep putting myself out there. But I don’t just go to her events I also go to other different groups so at least I don’t have to see her no more. Sorry it’s a bit embrassing that I was finally connecting with another lesbian but I have a bad habit of connecting with only one person and it goes bad so bad lol she seemed nice
Don’t apologize! It’s not embarrassing at all.
It’s completely understandable to feel that way. Perhaps try to go more to the events she doesn’t host? And maybe avoid going to her next 2/3 events. We don’t know what she feels but at least doing this might help you feel less paranoid? Even if you decide going to her events try focusing on the activities or literally anyone else, like maybe greet her and smile at her at most? So it doesn’t have the chance that it will seem like you’re pressuring her or anything like that.
Hi it’s the girl with the potential lesbian friend. I messaged her again this Monday in the morning and she sent a message saying she was doing ok and still had plans going to the Juneteenth lesbian party and I’m not sure if I want to go and I’m not sure if she’s interested anymore. Our messages sound blank and it feels empty and I’m glad I’m going to other events and she says she’s busy last time but idk what to do…? I see her on Instagram and she seems to shut her activity off but idk if has something to do with me. I feel like now she finds me annoying or I’m just another Instagram follower for lesbians or something and it’s hard making other friendships and I might go things by myself for now on. She thinks I might be a stalker or crazy..
Hey. Honestly I’d let this girl go, maybe just keep going to those events and see how it goes if you meet there. Online we make a lot of assumptions because it’s harder to know the tone of people’s messages and this might be worse for anyone who overthinks and is anxious.
Why do you think she might see you as crazy or a stalker?
People post this thinking they’re so cool when actually they’re just spreading lesbophobic rhetoric. And the fact that this shit had almost 200k likes 🫠
“Oh but why do you feel the need to cry to have more lgbt characters, why do you need to be in every movie?”
Well maybe because cishet characters exist in every media and I’d like to be treated the same way?? I’d like to not have the need to “cry” about not having enough good rep to actually get more rep. It’s easy to say this when you’re actually represented.
I had to see with my own eyes a lesbian say something like “bi women will always prefer men” then a bi woman responded her by saying she was married to a woman, and op replied with “then you’re a lesbian not bi” ????
Sometimes I am embarrassed to say I am part of the same community as someone as stupid as this one
