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doomguy-gay

doomguy original concept art

the-real-skeletor

I see it was a pussy out kinda look

teathattast

SCP-529 REQUIRES THE CHEDDAR

teathattast

GIVE HER THE FUCGINK CHEES

goonsoftheweb

porterr-robinson

bluu-spectre

just as advertised

maajenka

the-real-seebs

So. Imagine that you read a story, and in that story, there is a child who is sexually abused. And whether or not you are okay with this is dependent on whether or not the writer, too, was sexually abused. Because they’re allowed to write things like that if and only if they are a survivor.

You have just created a circumstance in which finding out that an actual living human child was raped will make you happier.

You are fucked up. It is you. That is the problem. It is not someone writing fiction that is at fault here.

This is why “X is bad, but okay if you are doing it to cope” is not even a tiny bit okay. It is wrong. It is in and of itself fundamentally fucked up. It is an abusive narrative, and promoting it is in and of itself, directly, abusive. It’s not possibly going to lead to abuse; it is already abuse.

Stop it.

a-puzzled-pisces

I agree tbh.

Why is this so hard to understand though?

Why can’t people acknowledge that it is NOT okay to get off to someone else’s pain??

Why is it even considered a valid coping mechanism?

“Watching children get raped makes me feel better.”

Um?? No??

If you need help, get it professionally, because I promise you, a psychologist //who also spent 8+ years studying this shit// knows a hell of a lot more than you do.

Get REAL help, I can tell you right now that these kinds of things ALWAYS escalate.

One of these days, watching children get raped won’t be enough.

You’ll want to perform these acts yourself, and before you know it, you’ve committed a heinous crime and thrown in jail.

And you’ll blame society, your parents, etc. But you won’t realize that it was actually your own fault.

Something as simple as reaching out can solve so many of your problems.

thatkindoffangirl

The sad part about this type of answers is that you clearly have never talked with an actual psychologist, or at least a good one.

Trust me that if you talked to a specialist they’d tell you that you’re wrong and that these can indeed be healthy coping mechanisms, since we’re talking about fictional situations where the people have awareness of how the coping mechanism impacts them.

If these thing did ALWAYS escalate we’d be seeing an extreme amount of women committing this type of acts, given that a high percentage of women having this type of fantasies has been well documented since the 70s. But the statistics look different because the problem is not the fantasy.

I understand this topic scares you, but I assure you that doing some research will go to great lengths in reassuring you that this is not something harmful.