biting enthusiast

callum-23-he/him

[redtiercel]

18+ ~ NSFW

he/him - bisexual - trans man

hi my name's cal, this is my personal blog for nsfw and kink stuff. new around the block. sometimes i draw/write, and i'm hoping to do more original/non-transformative work. verse + switch in theory, but i almost exclusively dom nowadays. i lean heavy t4t. i don't sext or roleplay with ppl online. follows/likes from @redmackerelsky

writer's barely disguised fetishes -> biting, collars, leashes, overstimulation, gear *sports editon* (pads, gloves, firesuits... ect) and bike gear, cnc, corruption, forced orgasm, age gap. generally just a sadist, and i fuck with most of the related kinks.

i will curate what i don't want to see

[redtiercel]

the worst part about having dead friends is that sometimes i will be like, i should talk to ~~~~ about this, and then in the brief, tiny, split second i forget they are dead, i get really excited, and then the reality that they are dead cleaves through my chest again

[redtiercel]

need to tie a boy's wrists up and sit him up against the headboard and overstimulate him with a vibrator until he cries i think.

[sadist-posting]

Btw if you've never done kink before or have limited experience and you want to start it's a good idea to start out as slowly as possible. These things are exciting and fun but diving in too quickly can lead to negative experiences, especially if you're engaging with someone who doesn't have much experience on their own.

Don't do anything unless you're certain you feel entirely comfortable with it.

[the-sensitive-sadist]

Also, if you're sexually inexperienced in general, it's a good idea to attain experience gradually over time before you jump into anything with kink. You wouldn't learn calc before learning division. You wouldn't even learn them at the same time. Kink should be a gradual journey not a dive into the deep end.

All of this is doubly true if you're young. ESPECIALLY if you're a sub leaning person under the age of twenty-one and you're getting attention from people who are four-plus years older than you. I hate to break it to you but being a younger adult in kink spaces can be dangerous, and lots of bad actors and abusers will want to take advantage of your inexperience. Please don't let anyone tell you that you're "mature for your age" there's no such thing.

[redtiercel]

i was telling my friend recently about this girl i've been seeing (in a fwb context) and i realized a trans girl pegging a trans guy with a strap because her dick doesn't get hard anymore might just be the gayest straight PIV sex to ever happen

[redtiercel]

one of my favourite shirts :)

[faithfucked]

🖤🌿 Wanna share? 🌿🖤

[redtiercel]

"no but like, what's in between your legs"

[redtiercel]

learning to not feel guilty about being a sadist is just. it's been a ride. like this doesn't make me a bad person, and consensual violence is a beautiful thing actually.

[spiral-d0g]

"my daughter is fine"

No ur SON is reading yaoi at 9 am as soon as he wakes up

[bittsandpieces]

my size kink vs my inability to take more than like six inches: fight

[redtiercel]

i am thinking about when i was like 18/19, dirt poor babygay still kinda not passing, getting into kink and like. i bounced off some stuff i thought i was into because it just didn't feel right irl - like oh maybe that was only hot as a fantasy. but over like the last 2 yrs i'm slowly realizing i was just shoved in the sub box because i was scrawny and short and young and asian... like no i was into d/s, just not in the way i thought i was. and not in the way anyone let me try it.

and like, i was still so shy and self conscious and inexperienced, i was not prepared to tell anyone to do anything with any kind of confidence even if i was asked. part of what i really like about domming now is just that- i wouldn't be able to do this if i hadn't grown up a little first. developped some self confidence and learned about who i am and what i want. grown as a person you know, outside of the weird ass sex i have.

i remember being like 19 and my 49 yr old coworker making fun of me for always talking too quiet on a loud ass job site, and that job is where i learned to fucking speak up. or being 18, fucking a stranger more than twice my age, and him very quickly realizing that i am saying yes when i don't mean it, and forcing me to practice saying no, and saying it with confidence.

like yes, i think it's nice to make a pretty boy beg or whatever, but it's also more than that for me.

[finalset]