✧˖°. your future partner/spouse's first impression of you ✧˖°.
in this pick-a-card reading, we will uncover how your person will feel when they see you for the first time, what do they think of you, what about you grabbed their attention, what makes you unforgettable, and maybe….we could even discover what trope you guys will have😉👀🤭. what was it about you that captivated them so intensely? is it love at first sight? or is it a slow-burn typa connection? well, buckle up and get ready my love, because you’re going for a ride😳😏
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My lovely pile 1, you guys might be the introvert pile or you guys just tend to keep more to yourself. I'm seeing here that your person's first impression of you is that you are someone who does not talk to a lot of people or you are someone who just ends up enjoying your own company. You guys are more on the quiet side and I'm seeing here that your person might be a little intimidated by that. What I'm sensing here is that you are going to be in your self-love era where you're only gonna care about your emotions and your needs rather than pleasing others, you get what I mean? You aren't here for fun and games, babe. You are here for you.
Your person's first impression of you is that you are someone who is more focused on yourself and not gonna lie, this is kind of very intimidating for them. I feel like before even knowing you, they will judge you a lot. They will think that you are too protective and you are someone who is hard to read - they might also feel a little insecure around you. Like, when they look at you, they will be like, “damn, I could never be like them. I wish I was more like them”. And you know what the funny part is? I see them going through a lot of emotions when they see you for the first time, and these emotions are like how teenagers feel when they fall in love for the first time. I know it's a very classic example, but it's very funny because I'm seeing here that they do not know what to do with their emotions and they will try to play it cool, and they will try to be very nonchalant - like “yeah, whatever” type energy. But trust me, that is the COMPLETE OPPOSITE of what they will be feeling. They know that they can't be all mushy mushy about you, especially if it's the first time they're seeing you. They need to be in check. And let me tell you something babe, I'm seeing here that you will leave a lasting impression on them to the point where when they go back home, they will literally think about you.
Your person's first impression of you is that you are someone who's been through a lot and someone who has gone through a huge transformation, and this could explain why you might be an introvert and why you only care about your needs. Let me make one thing clear, babe - the transformation which you will be going through is going to be so positive - that even other people will notice it. I'm not even kidding when I tell you that other people will try to win your attention and because of this, your person will feel very challenged. I'm seeing here that when they see you for the first time, they feel like they need to compete for your attention. They will be thinking of ways on how to grab your attention, and this is when they need to cool their emotions. They know that they can't be protective and possessive over you during your first meeting itself, and they'll be even more surprised - wondering as to why they're getting so worked up over someone they just met. You're playing games with your person, pile one. And honestly, I’M HERE FOR IT.
I'm seeing here that when your person sees you for the first time, they'll just know it's you. Like something in their heart, something in their mind, something in their soul just knows that you are the one for them. There is this sort of acceptance they will go through. Like they know that they only want you and no one else. I think it's because of how transparent you are. You are very realistic and you will not sugarcoat anything for anyone. You're just very straightforward and you will say things bluntly to anyone's face. And I think this is what attracts them to you a lot. They want someone to give them a reality check. They want someone to put them in their place, you know? And most importantly, they want someone to challenge them. The reason they're so intimidated by you is because you give off this very challenging and competitive energy and they feel like they're never, ever going to be good enough or they can't go up to your level - and this is why they feel so insecure around you. But this insecurity isn't a bad thing. I'm seeing here that this insecurity will motivate them, and they kind of like how you are more authoritative than them - is what I'm seeing here. What sort of kink does your person have?🙂↔️😭 Is this even a kink or do they really feel like this? Because I'm seeing here that they love when the people they're attracted to have more power over them. UM SIR/MA’AM, keep this in the bedroom🤨🤭. Anyways, so we were talking about challenges. Sorry, got carried away a little bit over there. Your person likes it when you challenge them. It seems like they want to work for your love. Like they want to earn your love. And again, I see them feeling all giddy for you. But they know that they cannot be such a yearner during the first meeting, so I see them bottling up their emotions and trying to figure out why they feel so intensely towards you.
Your person's first impression of you is that you are someone who does not want to stand out. I see you trying to fit in the crowd and I see you limiting your energy, but something about you, babe - something about you just makes you stand out. It's your energy that glows, like no matter how much you try to hide yourself, people will always sense your energy. Your energy is so captivating and your person literally cannot ignore your presence. I'm also seeing here that they are kind of scared to approach you and to start liking you because they feel like you are too, too good for them. At some point, they might even deny their feelings for you in the beginning, but after a lot of contemplation, they'll realise that they actually like you.
Your person sees through you, babe. Like you try to fit in and you try to close yourself, but they see through you. They see you for who you are. They know that you are a kind person and you are very generous. Some people might mistake your bluntness as you being rude, but your person knows that that's not your intention. You aren't someone who beats around the bush. You get straight to the point and this is why they understand you. They don't consider you as someone who is mean or rude. They consider you as someone who is transparent, who is not afraid to speak their mind and they will find this so damn attractive.
Your person's first impression of you is that you are someone who is blessed with abundance and security. You seem like someone who is doing very well in your career life, and I'm also seeing here that you will be in your best era where everything is working in your favour. You are starting to love yourself. There has been a positive transformation that has taken place and everything just feels right. Your person's first impression of you is that you are someone who is there for the ones you love. You might not be a very-openly-affectionate person, but you show your affection through subtle ways. You don't proudly talk about loving someone. You love them in silent whispers, and your person instantly notices this when they meet you for the first time.
Babe, your face card is SERVING like I can't even explain how GORGEOUS you are. Like holy I had to take a pause and just admire your beauty because GAHDAMN, how do you do that? Like pile 2, you are so beautiful inside and out. There is no way someone so ethereal exists. Your person's first impression of you is that you are someone who is beautiful - like your beauty is so breathtaking, their jaw will literally be on the ground. I wish I was kidding, but I am not babe like oh my god you are literally breathtaking and because of you being so beautiful, your person is going to think that you are full of yourself and that you do not give a damn about anything or anyone around you - which is completely wrong because you are literally such a wonderful person. Like not only is your face card eating, but your personality is equally beautiful - but again, pretty people hardly get the chance to explain themselves or let people explore them because people just have this assumption that pretty people are really full of themselves, and this is the exact impression your person will have. But don't worry, you will prove them wrong. But their first impression of you is that you are someone who is quite self-centred and that you do not care about what other people think of you. You are at peace with yourself, babe. You gain attention, you gain a lot of love. You have many admirers, especially secret admirers and many people want to be you. But be careful. I see a lot of envious energy around you, so please protect your peace.
When your person sees you for the first time, they know that they can stop searching, because you are the answer they have been looking for this entire time. You are the confirmation and you are their belief. You are exactly what they have been searching for. You are the peace. You are home. You are the fulfilment they have been desiring for their entire life - not only will they worship you, but they will only have their eyes for you. You don't have to worry about anyone stealing your person because no one can. You are your person's person and once they meet you, no one else will matter to them except for you.
Your person’s first impression of you is that you are someone who is so damn sexy. They literally cannot control themselves. I see them having a lot of sexual and physical desire for you and you should be surprised if they don't fall down to their knees and worship you, because trust me, their self-control is on the verge of breaking down when they see you for the first time. They will try their best to keep themselves together and honestly, congratulations to them if they do because I don't think they can hold themselves back for long. They're desperate for you and I see them begging for your love and attention. They are basically at your mercy. You can do anything to them and they literally just smile and be like, “thank you”, like they are such a fool for you. Your person desires you very intensely, babe, like not only physically, but they also emotionally desire you. They have a deep craving for closeness and when they see you for the first time, they know that you are the right person they can give their heart to.
When they see you for the first time, I see them being fearful. I see them being afraid to give their all to you because when they love, they love deeply. They have been hurt in the past, and because of this, they have completely shut themselves out in regards to anything romantic. But when they see you for the first time, they just know that you are the one for them. Like, you guys feel so right. You were the missing puzzle they have been searching for and they're going to try their best to control themselves when they see you. They know that they just can't go all crazy over you because there is some sort of self-respect they hold. They're literally going to hold themselves back from submitting to you because they know that they cannot do any of this during the first impression.
When your person sees you for the first time, something in them just feels… right. It's like the world stops for a minute and they have found the peace they have been searching for. They've been manifesting you, babe, and they've been very patient. I swear to God, when they look at you for the first time, they will instantly know that they want to make you theirs and they want to be yours. Everything feels easy with you and they know that they shouldn't force this connection, especially when they see you and meet you for the first time - so they will take things slow and they will go with the flow, but they will be holding themselves back because they know that they cannot be a sucker for you in the beginning itself. They want to expose their love to you in a slow and steady manner. They're afraid that if they give their all to you during the beginning, you will take advantage of them, so this is why they will be a little slow while showing their love for you, but I can reassure you that what they feel for you is real and what they feel for you is very deep. They have been waiting patiently for you, my love.
I have a feeling you might be meeting/have met this person in your workspace or your work environment because when this person sees you for the first time, they will remind themselves of their career life. They will toss you off as a distraction in between their work life and they might even shut themselves out when it comes to you. You will notice that they are more closed off towards you and they are more chatty with other people and you might feel hurt because of this, but trust me, they are behaving this way towards you because they have strong feelings for you.
When your person sees you for the first time, they know that life is going to be hell for them. Why? Because your presence, your energy, your aura is such a damn distraction for them. They can't stop thinking about you. During work, they think about you. During the shower, they think about you. Before sleeping, they think about you. In their dreams, they dream about you. While having lunch, they think about you. You are constantly on their mind 24/7, and instead of honouring their feelings in the beginning, they are going to dismiss their feelings and label you as a distraction - but what they fail to notice is that they have strong emotions and strong feelings for you.
They are not an easy person, let me tell you that, babe. They are someone who has completely closed themselves off and they are someone who is very protective of their energy. I feel like I'm doing a reading for pile 1 again, but here the roles are completely opposite. Your person seems to be having more of pile 1’s personality. I think you might have been attracted to pile 1 and if you were, I suggest you go give that a look and then come back here so that you'll get a better understanding of what I'm trying to say. But now coming back to your reading, your person is going to dismiss ALL their feelings for you. They're gonna come up with stupid excuses just to get their thoughts off of you. The reason as to why your person is behaving this way is because I'm seeing here that they are currently focused on their career and their seeking change. They are unhappy with the way things are going for them and they're manifesting for a change, but you will be surprised because that change is you. They have been manifesting you this whole time. You are the change that they have been seeking for, but they will not accept this very easily during the beginning because, again, they see you as a distraction. But later as you guys progress in your relationship and in your connection, I'm seeing here that they will actually honour their feelings and they understand that what they feel for you is real.
Imma be honest with you, sweetheart - when your person sees you for the first time, they know that you just feel right, like your energy, your presence, everything feels right, and a part of them knows that you will heal them, but they are afraid of opening up and they are afraid of losing their track in terms of their career. It will take them some time to realise, but once they realise that you are the one they have been seeking for - they will honour you.
Okay, the reason as to why I felt like you guys might be working in the same work environment is because they will notice you when you guys are paired together in a project or something of that sort. Or maybe you guys will have to work together as a team and that's where you will stand out. They will notice how you work well with others. They will notice how you respect others and how you support each and every individual. And not only that, your contribution, your idea, your intelligence is what makes you stand out. And this is the first impression they will have of you. It's your intelligence, it's your instinct, it's your practical nature that makes you so attractive to them and I see them focusing more on you rather than the work, and this is why they label you as a distraction - because they feel like you are pulling them away from their work life, but what they don't realise is that they need to pull back a little bit from their work life because they have spent so much time in their career to the point where they fail to notice the feeling of belongingness their soul desires.
And you know what's cute and hilarious at the same time? Though they label you as a distraction, they will be very protective over you. Don't ask me why because I don't even know why and don't even ask them because they themselves don't know - but something in them just wants to protect you. And if anyone talks bad about you, they will literally be your number one supporter. Like, you will never catch anyone bad-mouthing about you when they are around. They will shut your haters up in a second. I think that will be one of the moments they will realise that they like you. They will pause and think to themselves, “why am I defending her/him/them so much? They're nothing but a distraction for me, but why are they always in my mind”, like you get this person so worked up and they're so puzzled. It is so so cute.
Your person’s first impression of you is that you are someone who is very passionate and you're very nurturing. People are naturally drawn towards your energy and everyone wants to be your friend, including them, but they're afraid and this is why they will be holding themselves back in the beginning. You are a lovely person, pile 3, you make people feel comfortable around you and people naturally open up to you and this is what scares your person. They're scared you will see their true naked self and they are scared of being judged. This is why they are so defensive around you, but they will soon realise that you are the tenderness they needed in their life. Your touch is the medicine they have been craving for. They're afraid they will feel comfortable around you and they're afraid they will let their inner child out around you, but I see them eventually doing this because they can no longer contain their feelings for you. You are their calling and you are their awakening and do not be surprised when one day they develop a soft spot for you because that is the day they finally let you in.
hiii my lovely angels🫶, i hope this reading finds you in good health and i hope you all are doing well. its been so long since i've posted and i miss posting regularly, but ugh life is just not letting me🥹. i've been trying to find the time to post, but something or the other always comes up and i get busy with that. but i finally got some time to do a reading and i hope you love this one! i would be so glad if you could like my post and re-blog it, and please let me know which pile you picked - i would love to hear your thoughts and know if this reading resonated with you!! take care of yourself, and i will see you in my next reading. thank you for being here💞
(note - tarot & oracle cards provide guidance and possible insights into what could happen based on current energies, thoughts, feelings and actions. the cards can highlight potential paths or outcomes, but they do not predict the future in a fixed way. this is a general reading so take what resonates!)
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