so about the Rocco Liu âissueâ, I feel like I have already made a case with my candy post on the same day. I have 3 points to address and people are free to hate him or whatever because thatâs on you. however, itâs ridiculous to project those thoughts and make up stories that WYB feels the same way as you do. Or that he should do certain things, because if you have all forgotten, he is a grown ass man that can make his own decisions. he can decide who he interacts with. i understand that most of the negative reactions come from a place of love and care for yibo but we should still try and be rational.
disclaimer, this is all my personal opinion based on my own values and experience. i donât represent any fandom with this post. for those of you who wanna know what i think about his 227 kadian then scroll to the last part.
I see a lot of people making a big deal about how RL allegedly has a crush on WYB and therefore that makes him a creep.
My dudes, let me tell you a secretâŚ..
99.9% of people who meet WYB will end up having a crush on him. Will be a little bit in love with him, after spending 2 minutes with him or even having the slightest bit of interaction like an eye contact. Thatâs just the kind of person he is. He is the main character.
The narrative of certain fans who get threatened of people like RL or CZX because they are in a position of power and seem to have ulterior motives with WYB is ridiculous. WYB is not some starlet who needs to get his foot in the door. RL & GQ need someone like him in that event. He has the upper hand or they are at equal footing. If people really know WYB like they say they do, it would be very clear that he sets boundaries. Itâs not like WYB is defenseless.
If RL has a crush on him. Can you blame him? Whatâs so wrong? That makes him part of the majority. So where is the creepy part coming from?
Some are giving example of incidents that RL was inappropriate with WYB.
First of all, it is very clear that he was not being forced to ride the boat with Rocco. We all know Yiboâs standing. There is no one there who can match up to him. He is also not actively promoting a drama to join a certain set of people. So the next best thing is to be with the âhostâ of the event. I was actually thinking he might be alone but realized the theme was you will have someone to ride it together with you. It makes perfect sense to me. Itâs the most logical choice. Yibo is the guest of honor.
Second, I donât know where people are getting the idea that he was uncomfortable with that 3 minute ride out of very short clips. Did we even watch the same thing? As soon as he rode the boat, he was chill. He even said hi to Li Xian who called to him first. He had his coffee and was relaxed. All entertainment blogs praised him for his state. Unlike other celebrities who were so awkward or did unnecessary things. The hot search was RL & WYB rode the boat together. Thatâs all. No one commented on main that the two were awkward with each other. If you monitored the hot search, you would know that. The discussion and critique was more on people mocking how boring it was and that itâs just a simple boat. How it looked âcheapâ and asking why is there no host to interact with the celebrities. There was nothing majorly bad about WYB. He was on hot search in a positive light even on the next day.
EXAMPLE ONE: RL was trying so hard to be close and sit next to WYB but he said no. Because his gege will be mad uwu
But if you look at it, he was asked if he wants to switch seats. Look at RLâs hand, pointing to his side of the boat. WYB declined. He was okay with his position. Does that smile look faked to you? Itâs a genuine smile thatâs all good with the person they are interacting with.
EXAMPLE TWO : I canât find the video but it was RL touching WYBâs waist like guiding him and WYB moved away. I can understand why people will find that too touchy feely. I see it was WYB was surprised so he did that. RL is not someone he spends so much time but to say itâs because WYB was so uncomfortable is a stretch. He was talking to him and was v chill even in the old town red carpet.
These examples are mostly from cpfs who are irrationally threatened. Going as far as saying that the original iconic boat ride featuring WYB is the 9 min boat video with XZ. đ¤Śââď¸đ¤Śââď¸đ¤Śââď¸ Here we go again with the unnecessary double standard just to make a point. Trying to make it seem that the experience was horrible to WYB. The notion that WYB can and should only have good memories connected to XZ and vice versa is so unreasonable. There are times that the difference is clear but going as far as to twist things is too much. What if certain accounts picked up on it? I donât even wanna imagine a hot search that says something like RL harassed WYB all because of what others are posting.
&&& Iâm just gonna copy and paste this here:
During the boat ride, he was clapping for Rocco, like applauding him for the event i guess. In the meantime, on Weibo, the top hot search were people criticizing the âboatâ thing on GQ ( literally something like GQ boat embarrassment was the tag ) As soon as the live started it went on 1 or 2. I donât know if Bobo saw that but I just like how he showed his appreciation to Rocco, and by extension, his team. Thatâs just my interpretation and it could be a completely different thing but knowing WYB, he is very generous with acknowledging people. Maybe we can take a page from his book in this aspect.
He even shook RLâs hand and smiled. If you think this is somehow WYB being fake. I donât even know what to say to you.
I also wanna point out how some are saying these things because of their prejudice against queer people who look like rocco liu. If they look a certain way then itâs most likely they are queer perverts who will take advantage of young men like WYB. While I do agree that incidents like that happen, itâs horrible how people are jumping to conclusion because of a few second clip and his âlookâ. Iâm sorry but queer people come in all shapes and sizes. They do not look like the boys in your manhua/manhwa. Itâs like you pick and choose who is the kind of queer thatâs ok and palatable. Which is still homophobia by the way. Itâs okay if itâs two guys who are handsome like ZZ and WYB, but if someone else comes close who doesnât look as fine as them then itâs disgusting.
I remember that one incident, a photo of ZZ with a handsome doctor. CPFs were loving it! Already making up head canons that WYB is jealous or ZZ probably tried to make WYB jealous by using that person. How it would be cool to write a fic about that. đđđ Which makes me think that if WYB rode that boat with Yangyang for example, someone who he finds handsome and have the bare minimum interactionâ CPFs will be elated! It would be twisted into something like a âomg zz is jealous blah blah blahâ. This is my problem with some CPFs and how limited their understanding is of the real world. How treating the boys as fictional people is so easy and encouraged. I cringe at those who even implied that XZS suddenly posted a vlog cause he wants to assert his ownership of WYB because of what RL did. If you think that statement doesnât make sense, then we are on the same boat. đś
Which leads us to big argumentâŚ
The whole narrative of how can WYB work closely with GQ even if they dissed XZ back in 227 era.
The whole article was not made by Rocco. It was a different person. Even the âaccountsâ they say are RL cannot be verified. Second, this whole we will never forget mentality is so fuckin toxic tbh. Why canât their be healing from all the hurt back in 227? Do people really think XZ is out there with a fuckin notebook with all the people who took a jab at him that time? One way or another he will work with these people. Thatâs how the industry is. I donât remember XZS saying his fans should seek vengeance. What i recall, repeatedly being said is to not join in on unnecessary conversations that will cause negativity amongst people.
Tho I believe that XZ is more wary of certain people, especially with those who stabbed him in the back.
Now some fans are so angry cause RLâs response with the height HS ( which i talked about here ) is to Kadian 227. The answer is simple. Itâs đ¤đ¤đ¤ who were commenting and doing the most to spread this rumor. So this shade was for them and a reminder what may happen if they are not careful and stay on their lane. We are not new to this. XFX are known to do shady things that do not reflect Xiao Zhan. Tho itâs sad how he gets affected by it when he didnât even do anything.
This is not special treatment to XFX or that he has some deep seated hatred for XZ. Itâs XFX who has the vendetta and capitalized on what some blog and antis were implying. Just the other day, top hot search was Rocco Liu is not embarrassed. This bitch reposted the top post on the GQ boat embarrassment hot search by some blog and said he wasnât embarrassed. Yep. He is that petty. đđđđ He will not take things lying down. If you look at context, itâs pretty obvious.
I also saw Gabrielle, who is GGâs friend and someone who defended him during 227 shared a photo he took of his friends WYB & Rocco. So should we cancel Gabrielle too cause he is friends with Rocco? Where do we draw the line?
In conclusion, it wouldnât kill you to take a step back and look at things without a cpf lens on. Look at the context. Trust XZ and WYB. It was honestly distasteful how some were focusing more on the drama than how amazing WYB looked that night.
Thatâs all. Now back to the normal posts. âđź















