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Common Themes for Victims of Bullying

Common Themes for Victims of Bullying

None of these things should happen and they’re all bullshit. But here they are:

  “Alpha” Moments

I’ve heard some say they bullied because they had an “alpha” moment with the other person. So they pick on people because they have a big ego and feel the need to unjustly put someone else down or dominate someone else, because in their mind they’ve rationalized/assumedthat they’re better than the…

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"Revenge" Gets an undeserved Bad Rep

“Revenge” Gets an undeserved Bad Rep

It’s strange. Some people are allowed and even encouraged to get revenge on someone when they are wronged in life. And some people often do successfully. But for others, the world constantly tells them that revenge is wrong; that they shouldn’t hit back, argue, get the last word or insult, etc. But why the hell not? That’s how people treat them. For some that’s how a lot of people treat them…

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Dumb Girls

I’m talking about dumb girls that supposedly like you, but instead of just telling you or at least being nice to you; they tease or and are really mean to you. I ABSOLUTELY HATE BITCHES LIKE THAT.

For one thing, it’s usually girls who are unattractive that are like that. So they’re ugly and they’re obviously bad people with no sense of ethics if they can’t even treat people right. And I’m not…

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Lying to Kids About "Good Always Triumphs over Evil"

Lying to Kids About “Good Always Triumphs over Evil”

It’s wrong, it’s mean, it sets up good kids to grow up to be disappointed, and it sets them up ultimately for failure.

Good people do not always win or come out on top. In fact the polar opposite is true. They usually don’t. Bad people usually win and reap the benefits of life. And they do so with impunity. Bad things hardly ever happen to bad people. There is no justice. It’s just a TV word to…

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Indirectness in Bullying

In a lot of environments, like high school or if you work in certain environments; bullying is more direct and obvious. But after childhood in certain environments, it is more subtle. Bullies will disrespect you in subtle ways and of course people won’t want to discuss it. If other people see it, they won’t want to have a real conversation about it with you either. They will just do something…

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It's Not OK To Bully Just Because You Were Bullied

It’s Not OK To Bully Just Because You Were Bullied

I’m appalled, shocked, and offended by people justifying, rationalizing, and making excuses for bullying. Instead of empathizing, supporting, and being on the side of the victim (the good side); they side with the person who’s making someone else’s life miserable.

People will explain, “oh it’s ok. You see they just treated you like that because that’s how they were treated”. And they make it…

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There is no Such Thing as "Tough love"

There is no Such Thing as “Tough love”

The phrase “tough love” is one of the biggest oxymorons I’ve ever heard. Basically some people just like to be mean, so they just try to put a positive spin on it to make it look like they’re doing something good.

People have rationalized by being what they call “hard on someone”, that’s a good thing. You don’t want to be nice to people. That would be being “soft” And apparently being “soft” is…

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Never Ending High School Culture

Never Ending High School Culture

Everyone knows that high school is a popularity contest. Sure if you’re an academically strong student, a star athlete, talented in some other way (music, drama), or active in the community; high school can be used as a good stepping stone for future success in the adult world. But the thing is most people (especially at that age) are just average. Sure there are lots of kids that excel at those…

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The Stigma of "Tattle-Telling"

The Stigma of “Tattle-Telling”

In elementary school, you’re told that if someone’s picking on you that you should tell an adult (parent, teacher, counselor). But at around that same time the stigma of being a tattle tell has already started to pressure everyone (especially boys). It’s one thing for your peers during childhood well into adulthood to stigmatize “telling”, but what’s an even bigger offense is that most parents,…

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Mean People are Annoying. "Sensitivity" is Not

Mean People are Annoying. “Sensitivity” is Not

Some harsh assholes have the audacity to say that what they consider “hypersensitive” or “easily offended” people are annoying to them. Well most people that they use those labels for are actually good people with good qualities that probably just don’t like assholes bothering them and ruining their quality of life. I hate that bad people consider good people to be annoying.

So called…

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Women Are Racist (In dating)

Women Are Racist (In dating)

Growing up, I didn’t think that it would be hard to date outside of my race. I thought that most people were at least open to it nowadays. But I see that I was wrong. Most women prefer to date men of their own race. This applies to all groups of women, but especially black women and white women. And I’m focusing on these 2 because these are the 2 groups of women that affect me the most. I’m black…

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People Should Have Empathy for Those Who Don't like Conflict

People Should Have Empathy for Those Who Don’t like Conflict

Conflict is scary. Especially if you’ve been through a lot of it consistently throughout your lifetime, and bad things usually happen to you when it happens. People are often ruthless, harsh, and unapologetic. People don’t usually listen, have compassion, or put themselves in the other person’s shoes. People make it sound like you’re cowardly if you don’t like conflict. But if you’ve lost a lot…

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How People Treat People They Don't Like

How People Treat People They Don’t Like

I realize now that most people don’t have any ethics, but it’s appalling how mean and nasty people will be to others because they don’t like them. It’s not morally justifiable to disrespect or mistreat someone just because you’ve decided you don’t like them. I would’ve hoped most people would’ve learned that sometime during their childhood. I guess most people don’t agree with that and a lot of…

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Criticism of "social skills"

Criticism of “social skills”

It’s insulting to be told that you don’t have any social skills. Especially as an adult. Because most people learn them as kids, and they learn them fairly quickly. If you haven’t learned them at least by junior high, then you’re in for a world of trouble. Basically if people tell you that you don’t have social skills, it sounds like they’re saying you’re an idiot or socially incompetent when it…

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Feminism Makes Men Lose Empathy

Feminism Makes Men Lose Empathy

When I was younger, I was naive about feminism and how much it hurts men. I didn’t know there were so many feminist man haters out there. I was actually thinking that it’s easy for men and women to get along because the sexes need each other for procreation. But that doesn’t matter. Feminism has radicalized western women in recent decades. There’s nothing wrong with women being independent,…

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Most Guy Friends Are Not Real Friends

Most Guy Friends Are Not Real Friends

Some men are actually good men. But there’s also a lot of guys out there that are assholes. And apparently they think that’s kind of a good thing or at least they think it’s normal for guys to act that way. They think that being kind, caring, emotional, expressing yourself, or anything along those lines is “soft” or only for women. And apparently for men, being “soft” is the worst thing you can…

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People Have Crazy Expectations

People Have Crazy Expectations

One thing that drives me nuts is continuously running into people in life who have the crazy expectations of me. People expect me to be bullied and not be hurt or affected by it. To have what they call “thicker skin”. People have an expectation of men to be what they consider “hard”, tough, and to never show emotion. So in a way, society robs men of their right to be human beings. If you’re a guy…

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