you couldn't have done a worse thing to me!

medazza/ruzty | late 20s | usa | i love music, movies, tv, & old things | sometimes i create

[rockestra]

I’m Medazza, and this is my tumblr. I’ve been on here in some shape or form since 2012, and what I post on here is strictly for my benefit. If you enjoy what I’m posting or reblogging, feel free to join in on the fun! I usually follow back if we have a common interest or two.

Here’s some guidelines going in that I feel important to get across:

- If you’re under the age of 18, don’t follow my blog. I’d rather not have minors interacting with my posts either, but if you catch my post due to the improbable scenario of it ‘blowing up’, then I can’t control that. But if you’re under 18 and you follow me, I will soft block as a first offense and hard block further from that.

- I’m multifandom. Right now I'm obsessed with All Time Low, but my music taste ranges far and wide and throughout many decades so you'll see me talking about a LOT of artists (my top three bands are R.E.M., Duran Duran, and Fall Out Boy). I also talk about movies and television, though probably not anything that's popular at the moment, sorry! I'm a bit old school when it comes to my movies & TV. I interact in RPF (Real Person Fiction) spaces pretty regularly, though mainly with musicians more than actors, and I keep that strictly on here and on AO3. If you find my RPF works, do not share them with the persons mentioned.

- I check my followers regularly. If you fit into spammy criteria, I will swiftly block you. No ifs, ands, or buts. I am extremely vigilant about this and it doesn’t tire me. I keep my experience on here tightly controlled.

- Don’t hesitate to drop an ask if there’s a question you’d like answered, I’m pretty friendly so long as I’m not pissed off. It takes a lot to piss me off.

Please have a wonderful day or night! :^)

☆Other Places You Can Find Me☆

Archive Of Our Own - i primarily post under reverendbingo(tambsi)

Discord - medazza (but pls let me know who you are if you add me or i won't add you back!)

Letterboxd - cosmicthing

Serializd - cosmicthing

Pinterest - bostondoggs

last.fm - breakfastinohio

bluesky - supernovaclover

dreamwidth - reverendbingo

[hirsuteandcute]

I'm just going to say it - body hair (and beauty standards in general) is truly one of the final frontiers of women's issues in the West. Too many women just love their gilded cage too much. It shocks me how virulently women will defend it. I barely open my mouth and the "well I like how it feels. it just makes me feel cleaner. sensory issues. I do it for me. feminism is about choosing (to conform)." brigade come rushing in by the dozens.

Well I don't like how it feels. I don't feel cleaner without body hair. I don't prefer not having body hair. But who will advocate for women like me, but me? For women who do like hair removal, they are advocated for every time they step out of the house and see 99% of the female population also conforming to that standard, or when they watch a movie and see all the shaved actresses, or view an advertisment, or open a magazine, or watch a music video, or scroll through social media, or walk down the streets without receiving insults and glares for having a completely normal bodily feature.

You genuinely can't even point out that hairlessness is a man-made standard without women losing their shit and acting like they are totally immune to propaganda they've been exposed to from birth. I'm so tired.

[thedreamthieves]

i think one of the worst things the left wing internet ever did was push the idea that oppression is basically a virtue, and being oppressed is a sign of your morality. it has made it like…impossible for some of you to hold the idea that most people are privileged in some ways and oppressed in others. AND a lot of you seem to have it in your mind that terrible people cannot be oppressed, and that oppressed people cannot do terrible things, which is a dangerous rhetoric to hold imo.

[allhailthe70shousewife]

[thebumblecee]

some of you are so fucking talented and you’re using it to spread joy and happiness around for free

magnificent creatures, the lot of you

[liarsblade]

[rockestra]

thinking about doing a bit of a crash course redford & newman movie spree this weekend, but i gotta go renew my library card so I can take full advantage of hoopla first 😵‍💫

[bongjoonhoe]

MOTHER MARY (2026) dir. David Lowery

[highvictoriana-blog]

Antique Double Moonstone Heart Ring. Most likely English in origin; circa 1880 – 1890.

[hqbeatles]

[anxietyproblem]

[teathattast]

[haveyouseenthismovie-poll]

Have you seen Good Burger (1997)?

Yes

No

Haven’t even heard of this movie

Remaining time: 3 days 20 hours

[fuckrozanov]

the worst writing crime you can ever commit in my opinion is watering down the dirty talk because you’re self-conscious that it sounds like it’s from a bad porno…..i cannot stress this enough……leave it alone. the moment you tell yourself he would not fucking say that you’re doomed. people will say almost anything if their dick is hard enough

[solarprominence]

I maintain that the best summation of my feminist beliefs are that men and women are not fundamentally different. There are a few quantifiable differences if you average out every woman and every man, but they are not qualitative. And most of them are socially constructed, and would be fixed if we started treating men and women the same. Neither is inherently smarter, neither is inherently kinder, neither is inherently more stoic or stronger or angrier or softer. Everyone is obsessed with the differences between women and men, with finding them and creating them and distancing themselves from the "other half". It's fucked up

[wingkink]

btw it's so fucking stupid you can be anxious physically in your body even after you've decided mentally you don't care. I'm supposed to be in charge here

[authentictaxi]