I am 100% okay with sharing F/Os. I actually love seeing them be appreciated!
I have a LOT of F/Os, including platonic ones.
I have only one S/I, but more may come in the future.
I'm a communist. I don't support fascism. You won't see politics being brought up on my blog, though.
I lose interest in things sometimes, so I may not post about certain F/Os very often. Some of the F/Os on my list are only there so I'll remember their tags.
This is a side-blog, so I am literally unable to follow people under this username. If @coonyhq interacts with you, that's me.
DNI !!
If you are a: Monarchist, queerphobe, racist, islamophobe, or xenophobe.
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What are you smoking? Which of you rolls, or do you use pre-rolls? Which one of you coughs the most? Are they giggly or anxious? There's so much to think about!
When you go out to buy groceries, which one of you pushes the cart and who grabs stuff to put inside it? Which one of you indulges too much? Do you guys make a list?
We’ve all heard of the ‘beach episode’ or ‘dinner party episode’ or ‘christmas special’.. now imagine you and your f/os (of any kind) having a GHOST episode. It’s not an uncommon trope, but I find it fun to think about :]
Is it an actual ghost, or is a scooby-doo villain situation? Who’s the most scared? Who’s excited? Is anyone taunting the ghost like Shane on buzzfeed unsolved? Feel free to reblog and tell me (or put it in tags!)
doodling on your f/o. just grabbing a pen or a marker or something and doodling on them. drawing little hearts or a smiley face or whatever silly things you feel like. that is all
F/Os catching you right before you go to sit next to them and grabbing you by your waist/hips to pull you into their lap instead……. And then either leaving their hands there or wrapping their arms around you and nuzzling their face into your hair or neck with a little hum of happiness…….
Imagine your F/O calming you down after a huge panic attack.
They try their best to comfort you by holding you in their arms, making sure that you feel safe.
They whisper affirming words in your ear, telling you that this will pass, and that it is only temporary.
They will provide other things that you may need when you have these attacks. Do you want to have food, a drink, or a blanket? Your F/O will be able to provide that for you.
Your F/O cares so much about your mental health. They never want you to have anything like that.
Imagine the soft shuffles and muffled movements as they taker off their shoes, perhaps shrugging off their jackets too. They look around the dim room, ready to announce their presence—
—And then they see you. Sprawled across the couch, fast asleep. Presumably from waiting so long.
Imagine the smile that crosses their lips, the soft chuckle that escapes them at the display. They could feel their shoulders relax, for simply the sight of you calmed them.
What would they do next? Would they gently pick you up in their arms, cradling you close as they carried you to bed? Or would they make themself room, wiggling in and cuddling with you on the couch?
Either way, you’re met the same outcome; surrounded by your lover, held dearly even in the deepest of sleeps.
don't feel bad if you "haven't done much" with your life. don't feel bad if you don't wanna go to college or a trade school or are nervous about getting a job.
don't feel bad if there are things stopping you from doing all of that. your f/o wants you to know you're doin alright. and, I'm sure, at least to some extent, they may have felt the same way at some point. imagine how they felt if they ever had to figure out if they wanted to go to college, what they would go for, what they would do with their life now that they have the option.
and if you're thinking right now "yea but my f/o has accomplished so much in comparison to me" I'm sure they think the same about you.
