that gobshite from Blur

Ex-decade-plus long fan of Blur tired of seeing the same cycle of Graham Coxon allegations getting buried. All posts are allegations under #britpopabuse. NSFW content so minors pls DNI. 🔞

[roomeight]

Graham Coxon Allegations Masterpost

LINKS TO EVERYTHING ARE BELOW

This is a masterpost of the accusations around Graham and how they came to be. In late Oct/November of 2021 an account with the handle @/britpopabuse showed up on Instagram. The account posted screenshots from a gossip message board about celebrities and several mentioned Graham Coxon as someone they had known as publicly cheating on his wife and kid. Another user claimed that she had been in a relationship with him at one point. Another claim posted separately by coxonexpose, that is less verified, alleged that SA happened between her and Graham.

In each part are videos, images, that were shared with the Blur fandom by whistleblowers (blurhatesme and Britpopabuse), and any relevant information/context. For legal reasons I will be referring to everything as "allegations."

Who are you and why are you posting the Graham Coxon Allegations?

// EVIDENCE //

Part 1 - DMs between one of G's young victims (a fan) and him, in his forties at the time.

Part 2 - Bonebagg aka Scarlett & Mirja, the fans who cover for him. The events that likely led up the move to London and separation. **NOTE: Part two was flagged by tumblr - so reposted**

Part 3 - The Asian fanbase speaking to an uncomfortable moment with Graham and a fan during TMW tour.

Part 4 - Previous Graham abuse whistleblowers of the past years and their context.

Part 5 - Suzy Norman - Graham's response to telling Suzy to "get fucked up the arse" on his forum.

Part 6 - The selfies he sent a lot of young fans

Part 7 - Posts from his wife Essy

Part 7.5 - Post from Essy on being a IPV (intimate partner violence) and Financial Abuse survivor

Part 8 - Graham's stance on John*y Dep*/A*ber Hea*d trial and female DV abuse

Part 9 - The band's response to Graham Coxon's allegations

// VICTIM TESTIMONIES //

Unverified*

- The rape allegation (unverified)

- Coxonexpose's post (multiple victims)

Verified**

- Pris' Story

- More testimonies from victims

- Helso6's Story

- Michelle's story

- Maria's story

*unverified defined as testimony posted, then poster deleted or went dark after backlash.

**verified defined as there was ongoing communication around testimony.

// BEHAVIOR, INTERVIEWS, SOC. MEDIA //

- Rape joke on Loveline in 1996

- Miki Berenyi claiming Graham threw her down the stairs

- Dr. Dot tiktok talking about Blur's behavior in early 90's toward fans

- Graham's support of transphobe and misogynist Jordan Peterson and Greg Ellis

- Example of Blur's enablement and cover-up when it comes to Graham's behavior

- More screenshots of G's twitter interactions with Blur fans and parasocial grooming definition

- Graham and Parental Alienation Syndrome, Mens’ Rights Activism

// FANDOM REACTION & BACKLASH //

- Reaction from the Blur fandom

- Emails to Eleven Management about allegations that were ignored by Eleven

- Dave Rowntree blocking tweets calling out the band and Eleven Management for not addressing the allegations

/ / RESPONSE TO ALLEGATIONS BEING FAKE / /

- Response/context to Britpopabuse posting that the allegations weren't real on twitter.

As I find more things, I will add them here and mark them in the changelog below.

// CHANGELOG //

(Edit:) Fixed some typos/formatting. Added Jordan Peterson support, coxonexpose allegations, and fandom reaction.

(18/12/22): Added part 8, Gra's twitter likes inferring he is a victim of female DV abuse

(27/12/22): Added rape joke on Loveline in 1996

(17/3/23): Added emails sent to Eleven Management about the allegations that received no response

(17/4/23): Fixed some critical broken links to Parts & Testimonies - broken due to Tumblr update and Miki Berenyi claiming Graham threw her down the stairs.

(1/5/23): Added Essy's bio claiming she is an IPV and FA survivor in part 7.5

(4/7/23): Added Dave blocking tweets tagging him about the allegations

(19/7/23): Cleaned up post on rape allegation and added to top.

(10/9/24): Added Dr. Dot's tiktok talking about Blur's behavior toward fans in the early 90's under Behavior/Interviews.

(1/28/25) Added Part 9: the band's response to Graham's allegations

(3/30/25) Added response to Britpopabuse saying allegations were not real. Fixed some format issues.

(9/26/25) Part two was flagged by tumblr so reposted original post. Also added a "who we are" post.

[roomeight]

hi! i hope you’re doing well. i wanted to ask if you happen to know any profiles, websites, links, Twitter accounts, or gossip pages where I could find info or fan gossip about Blur. I’ve been looking for a while for pages like yours that share that kind of content, but I haven’t been able to find much.

i’ve even tried places like old geocities sites, but it’s mostly just archived interviews. What I’m really looking for is fan rumors, stories about things that happened in the 90s, little bits of gossip like that.

if you know any accounts or have some links you could share, I’d really appreciate it thank you.

Hi there - I don't know of a ton, many are Brit-centric forums. Tattlelife is the one that comes to mind and where I believe some stuff about Graham's illicit affairs and Blur's sexual activity with fans was posted about a while back. Hope that helps! Warning: it's not a fun read.

Gossip and more at Tattle Life

[gremliamy]

PSA: do not DM Graham Coxon on social media!

posting this and tagging it properly because i want people to see it. look.......

i get the Graham Coxon appeal i really do. i fell for it too when i was younger. he's a brilliant, inspiring guitarist and musician. he's stylish (for loser lesbians like me) and endearing in all the worst ways and in hindsight i think that was a red flag because the most aggressively shy, sad poor little meow meow men are often the worst. yes, the queer shy boy hardcore punk lover in a codependent relationship with the musical theater boy best friend? the ridiculous dynamics in Blur and the lore? his contribution to the music, the clash of personalities, the drama? incredible.

however: the guy's a certified, verified predator and abuser (among other things). just to list a few. he used to slide into underage fans' dms and he'd meet up with them etc. he followed Jordan Peterson and men's rights activists on social media after his divorce, while his ex (Essy Syed, whom he abandoned after having a child with her and then slandered in his book, something he seems to enjoy doing despite his self characterisation as a loving father) was resorting to food banks and coming forward about intimate partner violence with pictures of visible bruises. other people who came forward with stories were bullied into silence by the delusional people in the fandom a few years ago. they were blocked on social media by Dave so unfortunately, we know the band is aware of it to some extent. the victims' "retraction" that many use to soothe their conscience was forced and not at all a reflection of the truth, as often happens. some survivors were about to reach out to the Guardian with their story (we're talking rape btw!) but were just too retraumatized by the backlash to go through with it. if you don't believe me, there's many well researched masterposts ( @roomeight, thank you for your invaluable work and care) on this site, and they're full of evidence. if you haven't researched it yet, just look it up and know that accusing people of making up allegations, especially when there's like a dozen+ of them, is truly ghoulish. i know it sucks but please let's remind ourselves these are men in positions of power.

i am posting this because 1. a lot of people know already, but i think it's important that people are reminded of the fact that Graham Coxon is not the sweet, innocent guy he wants everyone to believe he is. he never was that, not even when he was in Blur. Damon Albarn keeps being portrayed as the bitch of the situation but honestly? Damon's real problem is that he kept protecting his shitty abusive boy friend from day one. the "no one can fucking touch him" quote is great for rpf but let's acknowledge that it's also eerie as fuck because these are real people and Graham did real, unchecked harm. but most of all:

2. i keep seeing young people idolising Graham to the point of messaging him on social media. this is extremely concerning to me. since it all came out, he's been much quieter on his accounts, because he knew he'd been caught and i want to believe he's not interacting with fans anymore, but please. PLEASE Do Not message him. I repeat do NOT contact Graham Coxon. he is really good at exploiting parasocial situations. he's a grown man who did truly horrible things; he's not the cutesy nervous baby you think he is. he's a man like any other and i know this sucks but please be safe. i don't know - just do what you have to do, enjoy the rpf and music but stay well away from him.

there's not much to be done now except protecting younger fans. i hope someday this comes out as it was supposed to. i hope the survivors that were silenced are healing and as a survivor myself i am very frustrated with how that went down. it's just shameful.

i hope Essy gets the justice she deserves and oh, all his fucking money but despite what men like Graham like to tell themselves, women that go through such horrors are rarely taken seriously. i hope he never knows peace ngl. please let's stop defending violent men and sweeping their actions under the rug just because we admire them. it's like rule number 1. he's not even that great honestly? let's be really honest here ok. again don't message him. be aware of this stuff. listen to survivors! thanks x

[roomeight]

Thank you for visibility OP. Yes please do not message Graham. Do not tag him trying to get him to respond. There have been fake instas, Facebook accounts - again allegedly because I have to say that - but please do not put yourself in that position. I know some fans may think they want that, trust me when I say there's a trail of dead bodies and you do not.

[roomeight]

hihi i hope you’re doing well :) this is kind of a curious question, unrelated to g’s accusations and all. i was wondering about what artists/bands do you listen to/enjoy now? i don’t think this has been asked before or at least i don’t remember lol anyway thank you for keeping this blog up, it is a very important yet painful work you did. i struggle a LOT with parasocial relationships so it did destroyed me when i found out that the allegations weren’t actually debunked as other fans said… but well, it helped me to open my eyes too and stopping idolizing g and understand what kind of person he really is. anyways, i hope you have a good day or night!

Oh thanks for asking! I'm not sure what music you are into but I've been digging into some old favs that are britpop-adjacent/northern soul again.

1. Losing Sleep by Edwyn Collins

2. Claire and I'm Not Your Dog by Baxyur Dury

3. Lauren Caught My Eye by The Crash

(Finnpop - singer Teemu Brunila is the frontman of the virtual band Studio Killers and reminds me of Damon a bit..The Crash is his "Blur")

4. What Did You Expect From The Vaccines? (whole album) by The Vaccines

Post Break-Up sex and All In White in particular though.

5. To Lose My Life & Farewell To The Fairground by White Lies

6. Midnight Boom by The Kills (the entire album)

7. The Fear by Lily Allen

8. Graham Kartna - An Obsession with Kit

9. I'm Going to Spain - The Fall

10. The Repetition Kills You ft. Damon Albarn by The Black Ghosts

I don't know if the Darkpop: Best of Damon Albarn playlist still exists on YouTube, Damon Albarn Unofficial uploaded it ages ago, but I recently remembered this ^ banger exists again.

That's what I can think of off the top of my head - leans kinda into music I listened to most when I was into Blur heavily but hopefully some stuff you haven't heard of.. Hope you have a good one as well! x

[roomeight]

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hi, i hope i'm not bothering you, nor bringing up an uncomfortable topic. i've read quite a few of your allegations posts and saw a few of your general latest posts. thank you for spreading information so clearly!

i'm sorry if someone has asked this already, but how possible it is that the rest of the band knows about Graham's shitty behaviour?

because as you mentioned in one of your posts, the music you listen to just becomes a part of you and it's impossibile to pull it out. i first discovered blur when i was 13, i spent half the pandemic obsessing over them, they were my light in my formative years which i spent stuck inside. i did move on after the allegations came up, but sometimes, now that i can listen to them again, i have that tiiiny bit of parasocial relationship creeping up on me, even if it's very very manageable (i do have to say that this happens with every media i like). so i end up admiring and really liking damon and dave, and try to ignore graham and alex (which is super hard). i know about damon and dave's controversies but they're not nearly as bad as gralex's in my opinion.

however, now the band has reunited (it was 3 years ago, but it's close enough); they must know about the allegations, right? aren't they all complicit somehow? i don't want to pry into their private lives, but i wonder if graham's daughter actually talks to him? can one really look up to damon and dave (or anyone who collaborates with Graham) with this knowledge in mind?

i know that out of love children might justify their parents, but the fact graham was CONTINUOUSLY cheating on his wife to date and GROOM women his daughter's age… personally i wouldn't let that slide at all.

i don't know if this ask makes sense, sorry. i'll stop looking up blur-related stuff and i'll only listen to their music every now and then, but this whole thing was bothering me and really wanted to ask. i know there's probably no evidence for the other members knowing, but i wanted to know what YOU thought about it. sorry for the wall of text. i hope you're fine, have a great day!

No, you're good! It's a good question, and relevant to what I was trying to articulate, I think, albeit not very straightforwardly. Dave's partner Michelle knew about the allegations, talked about them on twitter, and emailed fans. There's proof of that. Eleven (and/or Dave and def Graham) blocked tweets from my alt accounts (not this username) and other fans mentioning the allegations @ them. So though I don't know them I think it's fairly safe to say the whole band knows about them.

Re: your aren't they complicit somehow? question. Yeah. They are. That's why I struggle / still struggle. I don't like Dave much but Damon disappointed me a lot. His personal life stuff sucked, too. It is different than Graham because Graham was allegedly messaging teens/very young fans. I looked up to Damon a lot, but his quiet approval of the reunion really disappointed me. I think that laws of celebrity power / class, labels and monetary incentives will always win - there's no benefit to anyone in the band distancing themselves from Graham. And if you look back at 90's interviews where Graham was really inappropriate and even physically abusive to journalists (biting them, being verbally abusive while drunk, pushing women), the band begged the journalists to not write about it. While some of that is like, OK this person has a drinking problem, it's also like, Graham is a liability and we (the band) don't want to fuck up what we have going here. You know what I mean?

I find it interesting that Damon has a pattern: pre-reunions he doesn't want to do them at all and says not nice things when asked in the media about them. "Like smelling our own farts.." Was something he said before the last one. Then they got back together, toured for a while and at the end of the tour he was like, "I am done/don't want to tour with Blur anymore/I hate this." Not the exact quote, but yk. So during the documentary he's smiley and it's all like yeahhh we love each other but then they can't get away from each other fast enough toward the end. Dave, Graham, Alex all releasing books - they need money. Spotify doesn't pay.

Any who, I hope that makes sense... I don't want to get backlash from saying this - I don't hate Damon but I was disappointed by him, for the complicit thing, him and Suzi was disappointing too but that was two adults, the complicit thing with Damon was what hurt me the most. I think I've just resolved myself to like, not putting anyone on a pedestal if I can. There are different rules for people at that class/privilege level. It's frustrating but it is how the world is. I think even in Essy's instagram posts she talked a lot about that/how people in that world are protected no matter their behavior (because they make lots of people money), and it was quite depressing.

I don't know if you've seen the movie Lurker? I watched it recently and it was an excellent example of many of these things, and also great commentary on parasocial stuff. It was actually quite disturbing how many of the characters I could directly link to specific Blur fans and even the band's behavior with employing Blur fans. Would recommend watching it if you have Mubi. Thank you for the thoughtful question! 💙

[roomeight]

Hola! Soy un fan de hace mas o menos 1 decada, hace un par de años que conozco las acusaciones a Graham y desde entonces no me he sentido tranquila con mi relacion con la banda. Obviamente soy shipper de Damon y Graham, pero cuando exploro esas fantasías es como que Graham deja de ser Graham y se vuelve un personaje default para un self insert. Quería preguntarte como esta tu relación actual con la banda? Y como consumes el contenido de Blur a sabiendas de todo?

(Sorry if this is inaccurate but just wanted to post the translation here for context. This is a very thoughtful question, thanks! ❤)

Ask: "Hello! I've been a fan for about 1 decade, I've known about the Graham allegations for a couple of years and since then I haven't felt comfortable with my relationship with the band. Obviously I'm Damon and Graham's shipper, but when I explore those fantasies it's like Graham stops being Graham and becomes a default character for a self insert. I wanted to ask you how is your current relationship with the band? And how do you consume Blur content knowing everything?

I stopped listening to G & Blur for about three years after Ballad of Darren dropped. Only recently could I revisit “13” and think about my Gramon fanfic again. Seeing Graham’s photos or videos still triggers a strong physical reaction—not just because of him, but because the fandom feels toxic and reminds me of past PTSD‑like feelings. Modern fandoms, in general, seem increasingly hostile.

My Graham character is essentially a persona I created. Since Graham himself is a crafted persona rather than his “real” self, it makes sense that maybe I would think that way. The level of infantilization I still see in the community (from kids) is unsettling.

Deleting most of my social media helped because I wasn't checking DAU everyday. I've only checked when Damon had a project and even then, I've moved a bit away from Damon just due to association with the band and his personal life.

Now I’ll listen to Blur occasionally, but never Graham. I still enjoy Gorillaz, though I’ve reduced support because Eleven Management is terrible. I used to fight for rail to to see Damon, but I don’t anymore, which saddens me. Life changes, I guess. 💔 I am by no means morally perfect about it, but it has helped me to learn more about parasocial attachments and how they affect people.

Sorry if this feels messy—hope it makes sense. 😅 Thank you for the thoughtful ask.

[roomeight]

i know you're not a fan anymore but i figured i should ask since youve been a fan for a very long time - what's the significance of graham's cigarette ash? i found this blur iceburg on pinterest and i genuinely cannot find anything about what that could mean

I looked up the iceberg you mentioned and tbh I...don't know. 😔 But now it's bothering me that I don't because I recognized everything else on it. So someone should explain please lol

[archivegramon]

“Back in 2004 the NME magazine asked to Graham Coxon, Blur’s former guitarrist, about a slash fanfiction work called Graham in Wonderland, which was kind of pornographic. He openly expressed his dislike, but that never stopped the members from the blurslash community over Livejournal.”

Graham's alleged commentary on Blur fanfic, Graham in Wonderland (via gramon-my-otp)

[roomeight]

What isn't mentioned here is that NME were fucking morally horrible and all the coverage they did of fanfics (for the article mentioned I think) linked to said fanfics which people target and harass the young authors (children) writing Blur and bandom fan fic with people telling them to kill themselves. NME is shit.

[roomeight]

To be vulnerable - this blog is strange because I've fond memories of gramon writing that I so miss. Especially talking to readers/engaging with y'all. Like, really lovely memories. Also lots of moments I regret sometimes. On occasion I feel like deleting them all out of embarrassment, but I don't. It's my museum, warts and all.

And grief is weird, man. Like loss (music? comfort person? fandom community?) Yeah, that's grief. I've a box of letters and handmade gifts from readers/fans who blocked me after I posted about the allegations. Do you know how weird that is, to sit with that? It doesn't really matter, but it hurt a lot then.

I know no one will read this, but I just needed to write it here. I'm trying to figure out what to do with this parasocial mess. Maybe the answer is that I will never be perfect about it, because it is confusing and painful and obtuse.

[roomeight]

This is a really good, balanced video essay - with perspective on both sides - about parasociality and celebrities/influencers and relevant to bandoms.

[sss-o]

[roomeight]

Who are you and why are you posting the Graham Coxon Allegations?

I see people constantly making this mention of oh the allegations fans are just these crazy fans, you know, some axe to grind because Graham didn't message them back, etc.

Everyone who put the master list together is a grown adult. None of us have had, at any point, contact with Graham nor wished for it.

Okay but why do you care so much?

All of us were fans for a long time (10+ years) and had witnessed multiple fandom cycles/periods online of graham interacting with fans both as a young person, and as an adult. Because of this perspective, it became clear that the behavior we had seen as teens was toxic and harmful to young fans/fans in general.

Why post it on tumblr?

For one, I had/have a platform from writing Blur fic for 10ish years. So if there was somewhere to post all of the information about allegations we had, this acct was the most visible platform. It also hopefully shows that I'm not just some random who popped out of nowhere to accuse someone, but someone who has been a part of the fandom for almost two decades on and off. Tumblr also makes it easier to spread the word through reblogs or linking to the master post from Twitter, etc.

What are you trying to achieve by posting the masterpost allegations?

Transparency. Visibility that this is very common with the younger fans and him. That is is something to watch out for if someone sneaks into your dms. We as adults in fandom all have a responsibility to look out for young fans who are too parasocial and will get into these situations only to cause themselves long term hurt/trauma/be used.

And that's it. Not trying to cancel. Not trying to get clout or "win" something. Just to put the information out there of the brave folks who were willing to share their traumatic experiences in the hopes it would save another fan.

[roomeight]

Graham Coxon Allegations Part 2

**this is a repost thanks to tumblr blocking the original/post from view**

Link to masterpost

In 2019 an Instagram account named Blurhatesme began posting photos & videos of a Mexican fan named Scarlett (aka bonebagg and the fan friends with Mirja) with Graham Coxon. These photos/videos were saved from Scarlett's public Instagram stories and included her and Graham together in L.A. a hotel elevator, dinner, an arcade, and a video of Graham buying her a Psyduck plushie and eating an in-her-hotel-room (in MX?) meal together which she posted earlier this year.

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These videos came as shocking to most fans because they didn't know who bonebagg was. A Tumblr blog named grahamcoxoncult2 (I think, username has changed since then) posted much of the drama/fans discussing it at the time. Grahamcoxoncult2 came to the conclusion that the videos were not as bad as they looked and that blurhatesme was just a troll who wanted to smear Graham, when in fact, that was not based on any evidence, and the question of who this fan was remained a question well after blurhatesme deactivated in anger that Graham's fans were covering for a well-known, longtime alleged predator in the Blur fandom. More context around Blurhatesme in this post.

A teddy bear with the name of Graham's London college on the shirt

Around this same time, Essy saw these posts with Graham and Scarlett all over social media because fans posted them in their stories. Shortly thereafter, around when the pandemic happened, Graham left his kid and Essy in LA alone and moved back to London by himself. At the time it was unsure if he'd moved back because his mother had passed away from cancer, or if his marriage was falling apart because of cheating. Scarlett found the entire thing hilarious because all the fans swarmed her accounts. As the months play out, Scarlett and Mirja continue to post images to make fun of how dense the blur fandom is, going as far to wear Graham's t-shirt he gave her on Instagram and laugh at how stupid fans were for thinking it was anything innocent.

In Spanish this says, "Hahahaha so they shut up"

Scarlet laughing at this person mentioning the cheating Graham did on Essy in 2013 that Scarlett, Michelle, and Mirja were involved in.

Meanwhile fans flocked to Graham's oldest daughter Pepper's TikTok to ask why her dad was cheating on her with someone Pepper's age. This same thing happened in the early 2010's on Pepper's Ask.fm page when she was a teen and the allegations came out the first time. Again, after all this, even after there were whispers about Graham splitting from his family (based on his wife's vague tweets about ptsd and very stressful times after being with an abuser), all the fans went back to acting like everything was normal and it was sweeped under the rug.

[roomeight]

Hello, someone recently let me know that not all of the Graham allegations masterpost content is accessible to some accounts but I'm not sure what parts.

Please let me know by replying to this post (or asking with the ask button - I will reply privately so your username is not shown if you are worried about privacy).

Thank you.

[roomeight]

Okay it looks like tumblr marked the Sc*rlett and M*rja post (Part 2) as explicit - I wonder why 🙄 I'm sure it was reported. Reposted Part Two here:

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💬 0  🔁 0  ❤️ 0 · Graham Coxon Allegations Part 2 · **this is a repost thanks to tumblr blocking the original/post from view** Link to maste

[roomeight]

Hello, someone recently let me know that not all of the Graham allegations masterpost content is accessible to some accounts but I'm not sure what parts.

Please let me know by replying to this post (or asking with the ask button - I will reply privately so your username is not shown if you are worried about privacy).

Thank you.

[roomeight]

Hello, I just came to say that I really admire how you didn't let the fanatism blind you! I used to love Graham. I really fell for his tale. When I first knew about the allegations it made my heart ache.

At that moment I didn't realize but as soon as I knew about the allegations I started to slowly drift away from his work. Now I look from afar and it's disgusting how he sells himself as someone completely different.

The problem from me is that I still love blur's music. It has been such a significant part of my life that it's hard for me to let go. Even more of Gramon! I feel weird when I tell myself how horrible Graham is but at the same time I still read about them. That's how I discover your account.

I haven't read all the proofs. It makes me really uncomfy.

I admire how you put all of it on the side and you have put such effort in showing the truth.

I really hope someday more fans can face the things as they are and stop thinking Graham didn't know what he was doing.

Sorry if I have a mistake. English is not my first language.

Thank you for the kind comments. Not a ton of fans say this so I appreciate it a lot. I always feel bad when others have to reconcile it because I know how devastating it is. I also have found lots of inspiration in writing gramon, just as a creative output, so it's been difficult. At some point I had to admit to myself that all these things I came across were counter to all the stories I'd heard / seen about my favorite person and I could either keep burying my head, or try to shine light on it in the hopes maybe it would help some people avoid bad situations. I'm not sure if it is Graham's fault or our fault for projecting the narratives we have onto him, perhaps more us, but devastating nonetheless. One thing is for sure - that most fans will defend him so much that he doesn't even need to defend himself because the online mob will. Kinda sad. But that's how society is unfortunately. 💙

[roomeight]

Been confirmed that it is Rebecca really fucking disappointing tbh ://

Just the fact that they knew each other before Damon and Suzi split 😬

Now that it’s more or less confirmed have your views changed on this matter??

Sick of fans praising these middle aged men.

Sorry, what is this photo from/referencing in regards to it being confirmed? Is it a twitter thread explaining?

I already assumed he was cheating with his band when they split for reasons I don't want to mention because they are speculation, so I would say my opinion on him is still the same (sad, disappointed).