Thereâs an interesting phenomenon that Iâve witnessed over the past few years. The names of trans women of color will be in the mouths of the queer community after theyâve been murdered, but support for us while we are still alive is sporadic at best. Trans women are pushed out of queer spaces by cis people, dfab genderqueers, and trans men, just to name a few. Womenâs spaces are frequently hostile to us because we arenât âreal womenâ but trans men almost always get a free pass. And Iâve seen more than one cis queer say that trans women are âappropriatingâ the gay rights movement, totally ignorant of the fact that we started the damn thing. I have seen more than one cis queer say that we have nothing in common with them, that our issues are completely unrelated. We have a hard time finding dates, finding support, finding community. And when we dare to call people out for their transmisogyny, we are labeled crazy, hysterical, divisive. I have been called Austin âqueer sceneâsâ number one enemy. All for daring to share my thoughts on the world around me.
Via gazettenet.com
Trans Day of Remembrance is filled to the brim with the names of murdered Black and brown trans women, but is a single evening of remembering enough? And what does it mean that TDoR doesnât explicitly talk about race and is often dominated by white people? Here in Austin thereâs this tradition of calling the names of the dead and then having an audience member sit in a chair that represents where the dead trans woman would sit. The seats are always filled with white people and non-trans women. What do our deaths mean when we our bodies, our lives, the physical space we take up, is appropriated by white folks? How can I mourn for my sisters when the space set up for that mourning is so thoroughly colonized? And how can I even see hope of living a full life when I donât see myself reflected in what is supposed to be my community?
Donât get me wrong, itâs important to honor those women who came before us, those women murdered by colonial patriarchy. But it seems like more often than not, the queer community at large is content with just remembering. We only hear about trans women after their deaths. And even our deaths are not our own. A week doesnât go by without a white queer citing the deaths of trans women of color as the evidence of how oppressed they are. These stats are often used in service of their own assimilation; meanwhile, theyâre happy to leave us out in the cold. We donât even have dignity in death, nor the ability to decide what it will mean for us.
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Support for trans women dwindles when we are still alive. Nowhere is this clearer than in fundraisers run by and for trans women. There have been some success stories, but they always seem to be few and far between. More often than not, a trans womanâs fundraiser will get a few signal boosts, maybe a couple of dollars and then languish. Meanwhile, trans menâs fundraisers for transition related care often get fully funded. This funding disparity is also clear institutionally, where organizations that focus on the concerns and issues of trans women of color get a miniscule amount of all the money from LGBTQ foundations. This is especially true in the South, where LGBT organizations only get 3-4% of domestic LGBT funding. Again, cis, white, rich institutions are quick to use our murders in their statistics then turn around and spend their money on organizations that look like them: cis, white, and rich. Organizations that push for assimilation.
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Obviously financial support isnât the be all end all action to support trans women of color, but it certainly doesnât hurt. And the fact that itâs a struggle for trans women to acquire financial assistance is symptomatic of our societyâs priorities. It points to who is valuable and who is disposable. At the bottom of this article is a list of fundraisers and organizations for trans women that I would strongly encourage you to support. If youâre not a trans woman and youâre reading this, think long and hard about the ways that youâre supporting trans women in your community. Do you see trans women in public community spaces? How are your actions pushing them out? Donât think that just giving money nullifies your collusion in transmisogyny. Financial support is important but it is not the only step. As we honor the memory of those girls who have been murdered, ask how youâre helping the living.
Fundraisers to Cover Living Expenses
Via gofundme.com
Backing Biko Support Cherno Biko in advocating for folks like us!
Love Aaryn Help Aaryn reach her dreams!
Support CeCe Support CeCeâs work!
Lift Up Lourdes Support a trans leader!
Save Fake Cis Girl from Financial Apocalypse Help a trans woman of color keep her lights on!
Support Monica Roberts Help Monica stave off homelessness!
Operation Zipzap Help a trans woman go to electrolysis school!
Support Michelle Help Michelle get money to go to school!
Miss Major Monthly Giving Circle Help support a TWOC elder and living legend!
Fundraisers to Cover Transition Related Care
Via gofundme.com
TRANLATIN@ needs HELP for Surgery Help a Pervuian trans women get access to gender affirming surgery!
Support Vanessa on her medical need Help Vanessa get chest reconstruction surgery!
Proud Trans Latina seeking help with GRS Help Naiymah get access to gender affirming surgery!
Sophiaâs Breast Fund Help Sophia access breast augmentation surgery!
Help a Homegirl out! Help a trans latina get access to transition related care.
Idaâs Surgery Fund Help writer and activist Ida access surgery!
Fundraisers for Organizations that Serve Trans Women
Via gofundme.com
Support the TWOC Collective The TWOC Collective in NYC needs your support!
Alexis Documentary Help a documentary about a trans woman activist get off the ground!
MagniFLY! Donate to support TWOC filmmakers!
Trans Tech Support an organization giving trans women the tools to support themselves!
Quirell Help a social network by and for marginalized folks get started!
El/La Para Trans Latinas Help fund an organization working to advocate for trans latinas!
Trans Latina Coalition Support an organization doing national movement work!
Support Casa Ruby Help a community center stay afloat!
If you are aware of any other similar fundraisers, please share them in the comments.
Reblogging this now in light of Leelahâs suicide. Honor the dead but remember the living. Rest in power.Â
This a million times.
