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[rubyatarah]

Looking at Father’s Day card inspo in preparation to watercolor a little portrait and make a cute silly card and crying crying you guys. Folks. There are so many ways to feel and I just cannot pick one but should I do a little scene of a guy holding a child and they’re hanging out in a garden maybe or it could be on the bay. He loves sailing but is a scary and under practiced boat driver if you ask me. I do not know what to make him but this will be the first Father’s Day he’s been able to see his kid in a very long time and I need to say I cherish and admire and forgive and celebrate him but in a chillax way and then I’ll probably bear my teeth at him menacingly after or pick him up like he is a little doggy

[haterrific]

lps shorthair cat 027 vs nine inch nails the fragile poster

[umbrellanumber5-deactivated2021]

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This.

This is why people who stay in my life are neurodiverse like me!

[nottoolateforthegame]

Huh

[thisisnotjuli]

this!! I swear I lost like all my friendships bc of this, like I had a group of friends in hs that one day I realized “huh I haven’t talked to this people in a while” and popped in to say hi and they were all awkward?? because they hadn’t seen me in a while?? and that’s when I realized that friendship works different for them?? I was like yeah I haven’t talked to you in like four months but it’s not like I’ve forgotten about y'all why would anything change, and they were all like we haven’t talked to you in four months why are you here again acting like nothing happened? and it was really confusing for me

[mimir-bashir]

YEAH! THAT!

Also I have a thing where I just put the people on pause. If I don’t see them or contact them, my brain kinda put them in stasis. I don’t think about them nor misses them, and I stay on what I last knew about them (how they look, what they study/work). So when we meet again I’m like “wait, you’ve aged?” and I have the same familiarity with them thanI had before.

[gender-snatched]

Anyway all my mutuals I haven’t messaged in forever - this is why

[official-lucifers-child]

oh my gods this makes so much sense??? there are people who i haven’t talked to at all for literally over a year and we’ll pick up like nothing happened, but for their people it’s just like…… falling apart but onesided???? i think we’re still on the same level but actually we’re strangers??

[link-the-feral-anon]

Ohhhhhh

[shark8-my-leg]

OHHHHHHHHH….

[quarra]

Ok but listen, on the other side of this, as a person who moved hundreds of miles away from everyone i knew and then became a hermit for several years, it was SUCH A FUCKING RELIEF to get in contact with an old friend and have him be like, “my friendship levels do not degrade, so in my mind we are still awesome close buddies” and i almost fkn cried. I thought he would be mad or would have moved on because i had slacked on my reaching out to him and staying in touch and doing all the friendship things. But NOPE. 800 miles of distance, depression, and life changing circumstances didnt steal our friendship and i am SO GRATEFUL.

[thatlittleegyptologist]

#came back to tumblr after four years #lottie and I immediately went like that spiderman meme yknow tags via @rudjedet

I have literally no friendship degradation whatsoever. I will not have spoken to someone for 5 years or more, and they’re still as much a friend to me as if I had only seen them yesterday. I’m just very bad at communicating if someone is not in my direct orbit. So when Sonja reappeared on this site I basically screeched into her notes like a banshee because I was delighted and we picked straight back up where we’d left off.

[elodieunderglass]

Happy to go on the record that I don’t expect regular contact and will welcome hearing from people after a long time

[beyondthisdarkhouse]

Holy shit, I didn’t actually realize this was a Thing.

[shengraf]

Just recently reconnected with a friend I hadn’t heard from or spoken to in ~2.5 YEARS and we both not only were very happy to reconnect, we spoke on the phone for over 4.5 hours. I love my friends, am terrible at reaching out to them, but think of all of them as though they are still as close friends as when we hung out all the time in the past. I recognize that they’ve changed, and part of the awesomeness of reconnecting is getting to hear HOW they’ve changed, or what awesome shit they’re up to now. Also, not to be somber at the end, it is also great to hear from friends who have not only had great things happen - friends who have gotten bad news, friends who have experienced loss, friends who have been diagnosed with diseases or found out about lifelong disabilities- it is also great to hear from you, hear about these parts of your life, hear about how you are doing, and learn that you are doing okay.

[dancinbutterfly]

This is because Time Does Not Exist for ADHD brains. That’s not figurative. It doesn’t exist. There is Now. And there is Later. There are neuroscientists who get into the mechanics of it better but honestly, without coping mechanisms with external support structures in place? This will continue forever. The end. Because Time Doesn’t Exist.

[juuls]

*blinks* Oh.

[lamignonette]

[pangur-and-grim]

I feel so insane about ai. I've had face-to-face conversations with people who use it for therapy, who use it to calculate the safety of pill interactions, who use it for all their emails and grant applications and legal documents and academic papers and finance sheets and for every single question they have about the world, and if you tell them about the ecological costs they just laugh and say "I guess I've used a lot of water." and I've been in multiple gatherings of 10+ people where I'm THE ONLY PERSON who doesn't use chatgpt. it's turning me into a ranting raving pariah, because how don't you people see??? why don't you understand??????? this bullshit didn't exist five years ago, you absolutely do not need it, and it is destroying everything

[rubyatarah]

Little best friends 🥹

[trans-ralsei]

[trans-ralsei]

[caughtthedarkness93]

I love my job, but reblogging employment jelly for someone else I love.

[aspiringbelle]

I loathe my job and need a new one. I need all the help I can get.

[the-haiku-bot]

I loathe my job and

need a new one. I need all

the help I can get.

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

[rubyatarah]

a chorus of wind rustled moss, shit-talking frogs, shallow breaths, careful steps, and sweaty backs, hushed by jumping salmon within rushing rivers. a sweet kitty yawns with a stretch to greet the gentle night. water flows downhill and all is well (is what i pretend when i go outside and turn my climate conscious, socio-political & economically anxious brain off).

[cansu-m]

[thedaddycomplex]

Trump’s staff hides negative news from him to keep him happy. Musk was so affected by getting booed at Dave Chappelle's performance he had a mental breakdown. Their egos are horribly weak. This is how we defeat them—unyielding insults and mockery.

This is what we trained for. This is our moment. We need to get a lot louder and way more petty.

I believe in you.

[rubyatarah]

🎳🪿💖🦄

[rubyatarah]

this manic pixie princess is trying so hard to be a punk fairy girlypop you guys. healing and coming into yourself after growing up without autonomy takes time. of this she is constantly reminding her silly little life-romanticizing self

[weltenwellen]

Ada Limón, “To Be Made Whole”, On Being with Krista Tippett

[weltenwellen]

Rebecca Solnit, Hope In The Dark

[weltenwellen]

Rainer Maria Rilke, The Dark Interval: Letters on Loss, Grief, and Transformation

[12h51mn]

Alessandra Sanguinetti

[dishesoap]

the worst part about being an adult is thay its no longer socially acceptable to just roll down a really big hill and then run back up it and roll back down again. "oh is this a syphilis metaphor" passerby would ask. "is this for a tick tock". no i just wanna come home covered in dirt and scratches and bask in the the solace of childlike mirth

[wearenotjustnumbers2]

This youth from Palestine here, was called after finding his friend's house got bombed. They asked him to call his friend in order to determine his exact location so they can start digging.

Remember that in gaza there are no resources to dig people up from underneath the rubble, so civilians from the neighborhood have to use their own hands and be very careful because of the bodies underneath. I can't even imagine the trauma he's experiencing, his shaking voice and hands. I would never bear witnessing my best friend in such conditions and having to call them bc I'm not even sure they're alive.

How would anyone heal from this? And yet all are we asking for is just a ceasefire. This genocide should stop.

[wearenotjustnumbers2]

Let these videos remind you of why we shouldn't get distracted, why we shouldn't give up on advocating for a free Palestine. The occupation has to end!