Ryan

24 | Brooklyn | Goon

[ryaniguess]

you should ask for a refund on your double mastectomy; your nipples are misplaced lmao

Hope the rest of your day is as productive as sending this message was, cheers 🤙

[ryaniguess]

god… another delusional, homophobic straight woman larping as a gay man lmao. Chopping off your tits and taking testosterone doesn’t make you a man, it’s makes you a woman who’s taken testosterone and chopped off her tits. How pathetic.

The hatred you carry must be exhausting dude. I wish you peace

[ryaniguess]

Hey tumblr. Been busy growing older

2016 / 2022

[ryaniguess]

I'm confused about that anon that accused you of homophobia. Haven't you said you're bi before? And isn't "listen to gays about their experiences with trans people" as backwards as "listen to whites about their experiences with POC"? Trans folks are still significantly more marginalized, even in the LGBT+ community...

I’m confused as well! But no worries, I won’t lose sleep over that anon. And yes, I’m into men, women, whomever so that could be classified as bi or pansexual

[ryaniguess]

Out of curiosity, what kindof job do you have?

I’m a designer at an advertising agency

[ryaniguess]

Is it difficult for you to get jobs? Or was it, earlier in your transition? Especially when they asked for previous names?

I transitioned while I was a full-time student at undergrad, so this was not an issue for me as I had already made legal name changes when applying and have not been asked about previous names

[ryaniguess]

Gay men are same sex attracted. Same SEX.

Thanks I had no idea

[ryaniguess]

Remember when you were homophobic and a bunch of gay men rightly called you out but you just deleted the post and didnt answer the asks so you could pretend you were never bigoted. Anyway you shouldn't be a 'teacher' of anything since you still have a LOT of learning to do yourself. Don't talk over gay men and listen to gay people about their experiences 2020! You wont post this cause you're a coward but just so you know, you got a lot of growing to do bro

I don’t remember ever being homophobic, please remind me

[ryaniguess]

I’m not saying trans people are disabled sorry if it came across that way. I said able-bodied cis person just as you could say disabled cis person or able-bodied trans person. I only specified it because the topic of injuries, people with disabilities etc was brought up in a different anon that you answered. I’m just asking if in your eyes it’s transphobic to decline to participate in certain sexual activities with someone who isn’t cis such as declining to give oral sex pre-surgery.

Thank you for clarifying! People are definitely allowed to have this sexual preference when it comes to certain sexual activity. There are plenty of people, regardless of cis/trans status, that don’t enjoy/wish to give oral and I don’t regard that as transphobic

[ryaniguess]

Seems you enjoy drama. Just delete that crap or turn off anon

Wouldn’t say I enjoy educating naive individuals but someone’s gotta try

[ryaniguess]

I am GAY!!!!!!! AND WE CAN DEF SMASH TO THE MAX!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lmao

[ryaniguess]

Looking good, dude! If I may ask, as someone thinking of changing their own birth name, how did you settle on Ryan?

I wanted something that would’ve fit in the year I was born, something that kept my initials, asked the opinion of my gf at the time to what fit me, then I gave my mother a few options to ultimately give her the honor of naming me a second time 🥰

[ryaniguess]

So... boxers or briefs?

Briefs

[ryaniguess]

Coming from a cisgay, regardless of whatever these phallus-obsessed anons are saying, you're easily one of the most attractive men on this hellsite.

🥺🥰😘

[ryaniguess]

Is it transphobic to set limits in bed that you wouldn’t have for an able-bodied cis person? Such as declining to give oral sex to someone who hasn’t has bottom surgery?

Trans people are not ‘disabled’.

[ryaniguess]

People don't know this about you. But I'm making it public. You're a very patient and amazing teacher when it comes to trans sensitivity. So these trolls need to sit down and shut up because they ain't gonna find a better teacher on here.

🙏🥰 I try to be patient because I’ve found if I challenge a hard headed person with a hard head myself it’s impossible to learn

[ryaniguess]

why do your anons have such bad takes tonight? to say you're not attracted to trans guys means you're saying ALL trans guys have or are this one way. which is generalizing, aka the bases of bias. aka aka transphobic.

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Something funky in the water I suppose☹️ thank you for your support !