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Call me Em. This blog is for 21+ only. 30, Queer, She/He Butch4Butch/Butch4Femme Soft bottom/Gentlemanly top. Cis men, minors DNI

[hexes-and-foes]

Did you know you can just marry your favorite mutual?

[s0ftb0tt0mbutch]

I do know! Because I did. 😍

[babybels812]

I agree

[thebonehoarder]

[prettysheepy]

Daily reminder to protect and love your gender non-conforming, gender fluid, agender, trans and any and all genderqueer partners, mutuals and friends. You just have to, they need us more than ever.

[notbeingnoticed]

[curvedbullets]

Thick thighs are glorious ok.

[lesblackwidow]

butches that become big babies for their femmes. let me kiss your forehead and run my fingers through your hair while we snuggle up. butch who tells me they feel safe with me. need need need need.

[thebutchmessiah]

Photo from the Dirt Dyke Dive, Leeds, 2025

Custom carabiner made by J West Engraving (you can order your own here)

📸: Eli Williams

[ffuscous]

“Playbutch” November, March, June

Intaglio with Chine Cólle

[bobdylanyaoi]

i cannot emphasize how much it sucks that people in movies don’t look real anymore. like conventionally attractive people have always been cast more as leads but up until like a decade ago they had visible age lines and textured skin and double chins and imperfect teeth. like whenever i’m feeling insecure i just have to watch a regular movie from the 70s and remind myself that im actually not unhygienic and disgusting for having teeth that are a little yellow and visible pores

[bobdylanyaoi]

genuinely social media has fucked everything up and we need to realize that the average person is normal and you are in fact allowed to make art and exist in the public eye while not looking like an airbrushed 20 year old and that your personal appearance really does not matter that much

[rottenslow]

devote yourself to that weird girl on tumblr

[s0ftb0tt0mbutch]

I did.

[tf2heritageposts]

did u go protest today

good evening officer

[tf2heritageposts]

don’t tell social media if you went to protests or not(especially if you didn’t), don’t give cops an easy way to track down protesters. punk life advice

[ao3cassandraic]

Just reblogging this. No reason.

[wizardarchetypes]

When I went to my first bdsm & kink safety introductory course I remember the instructor said something like, "in our society if you want to learn how to safely exercise, you can go to a gym with a personal trainer. if you want to learn how to swim, you can go to a pool with a lifeguard. if you want to learn to sky dive or rock climb or scuba dive or any other high-risk activity that pushes your body to its limits, there are courses for that and you don't have to hide.

but if you want to learn about sex, explore your boundaries, and learn the limits of your body in a sexual context, where can you go to do that? who can you trust to guide you without fear of being exploited? and if you're lucky enough to find space and guidance, why are you still supposed to feel ashamed?"

it's stuck with me for a long time.

[insomn1agrl]

[urloserfemgf]

When I opened my eyes and unlocked this knowledge, I found exactly what I was looking for the entire time

[crown-jule-deactivated20250606]

“-and this is my emotional support dog” I say gesturing towards a very human butch lesbian.

[iamthespell]

What color are my eyes?

[s0ftb0tt0mbutch]

Are they pink?? 🤤🤤🤤😍😍😍😍

[s0ftb0tt0mbutch]

Forever being a sexy masc chef at work but that's how I got my wife so