WE RECRUIT

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[farmerlesbian]

Personal Ads for Pride!

Okay dykes let's do it! We're going to host personals on here. The goal is to get you connected with each other in fun and fabulous ways! Whether you're interested in something friendly, flirty, romantic, sexy, or something else more creative, send in your personal ads via the submission box.

I've updated our submissions page with some quick info and more tags. Use that link or type it in at farmerlesbian.tumblr.com/submit to create your personal. You can request to make your personal ad anonymous, just make sure to include some method of contact information for interested parties to reach you.

If you see a personal ad that you're interested in, you can comment on the post or reach out to the poster to express your interest. If you do not hear back from someone you messaged, please do not repeatedly message them.

Everyone - be gracious, be respectful, have fun!

This is a work in progress so if you have issues, ideas, or feedback, please let me know, I'm happy to hear it! If you experience any problems or there is any harassment that I may be able to help with, please do not hesitate to let me know and I will work with you.

[farmerlesbian]

We're off to such a great start with lots of wonderful, beautiful, friendly, sexy, creative, juicy, joyous personals already submitted, posted, and in the queue! I've created these header and footer graphics you see above, which I'll be adding to each post, to help catch your eye as you're scrolling because I think that's extra fun and cute :3 I'm also tagging all related posts with #farmer lesbian personals so you can easily find them. Keep sending your personal ads in, this is going great and I'm loving everything you're sending in so far!

[farmerlesbian]

I hope you’re all busy writing your personal ads, because I can’t wait to share them! There are no requirements other than you should probably indicate how people should get in contact with you. Get creative, say as much or as little as you’d like!

And if you see a personal that catches your eye, makes your heart race, or you feel a connection to a potential new friend, please reach out! please get connected!

I don’t have any more personals in the queue right now so please send yours in if you’re thinking about it

[farmerlesbian]

If you're considering participating take this as your sign that you absolutely should! Look at how wonderfully it's worked out for these people. This could be youuuu too. Yes you, thinking there's no one out there for lil ol' you. There IS and we will get you connected. Write your little personal ad and send it in! Message someone on who posted an ad! Send one to your friend who would be a great match! The dykes of your dreams are just a personal ad and a message away 💘

[farmerlesbian]

40 y/o animal-loving, nature-loving, disabled lesbian looking for friends and/or romance in NW Florida

Hey y'all, I’m Maeve, and I’m a reader, writer, gamer, gardener, former equestrian and brand new birdwatcher!  I’m a sci-fi/fantasy nerd, a former theater kid and farmgirl, and I also love to bake.  I live in a Florida swamp near Pensacola, which despite the heat, humidity, and the ridiculously high pollen count also contains a lot of beautiful flora and fauna that I can see from my back porch, which makes up for a lot.  I’d really like to make some new local queer friends, but I’d also be happy to make friends from any part of the world! 

I don’t really consider myself femme, but I’m not sure I qualify as butch either, at least not anymore.  Maybe soft butch?  In any case, I don’t have a dating preference when it comes to butches and femmes.  I love butch women, I love feminine women, and I love women who fall in-between or even outside the butch/femme spectrum.  I just think women are so amazing, no matter how they express their gender, and that goes for trans women and cis women alike.  I would like to date someone taller than me, though.  I’m 4'11" and physically disabled with balance issues, so I’m not just a hobbit, I’m also a fall risk.  This makes getting things off of high shelves a challenge at the best of times, and a tall girlfriend who can help me with that would be fantastic!  XD 

I was once a very active person, always either on my horse, on my bike, or in the water, but unfortunately that was a long time ago.  The chronic health/pain conditions I’ve developed/had worsen over the years have left me unable to do the first two activities at all anymore and only able to go swimming every once in a while.  I miss all of it, especially my horse, and honestly I just miss horses in general.  These days, I’m rarely able to leave the house at all for anything but doctor’s appointments and grocery runs, but I’d still welcome the opportunity to meet up for coffee or movies or other non-strenuous activities like going to museums, hanging out at the library or tabletop gaming, which I’ve always wanted to try but haven’t yet had the chance.

My life definitely isn’t what it once was, and it’s certainly not what I hoped it would be, but despite everything I still think I’m very lucky in a lot of other ways. If nothing else, at least I still have my plants, my books and games, my wonderful cats, and best of all, a really good relationship with my parents, which is a treasure in and of itself and something to be very thankful for. 

You can reach me here at @cakemagemaeve​ or at [email protected] if you’re interested!    

[ohdovegoslow]

[farmerlesbian]

nerdy femme in search of pals (pen and otherwise!)

hi y'all! i’m a capital-m Mad femme dyke in the greater nyc metro area (north of the bronx) looking for friends. i’m 21, an aspiring librarian, poet, cat dad, & amateur burlesque performer. i <3 writing, ttrpgs, crafting, gaming, & lesbian history, and would love a penpal to exchange fun sticker-covered snail mail with and/or to hang with some other dykes without schlepping all the way out to brooklyn (the train fare is killing me!!!) dm me here @thatwizarddyke​ and i’ll show you my beautiful angel kitty grilled cheese sandwich :)

[transfixmagazine]

Issue 10 | Summer 2026 of Transfix Magazine is HERE! Get your free digital copy of the new issue (and all the other ones) here!

On the cover: Testosterone Injection, 2026, oil and acrylic on canvas by Quinn Thomas.

The team:

Achilles Toledo - Staff Writer Azuli Rodriguez - Social Media Graphic Designer Korbin Richards - Social Media Copywriter Leo Oliveras - Layout Designer silas denver melvin - Social Media Graphic Designer Wren Coulter - Editor-in-Chief/Creative Director

[mercythokozaneminah]

float ❤️

inspired by the song from Janelle Monae's Age of Pleasure. This month I want to make work that reminds my mind and body of ease, of sensuality, of cool queer confidence, of deep pleasure. The Age of Pleasure feels like the perfect soundscape to inform that process.

[abutchrambling]

@ butchmonologues on instagram

[farmerlesbian]

29 y/o nature loving dyke looking for a friendship/penpals/connections

Hello, I’m 29 dyke with a weird relationship with gender and located in western Montana USA. I work in natural resources doing large scale restoration and spend much of time traveling, kayaking, bouldering, and caving. Love to travel with someone else in my truck around the country (don’t worry, I’ll drive), bake for, and generally share the time together, even if it’s brief. Would love to get to know you, from snailmail to the internet to coffee and talk about our interests! You can message me @ghostpyre​ 

[farmerlesbian]

im the guy who left tags about not being in the west and you've convinced me, i'll send in a personal soon-ish hehe

ohh i'm so glad to hear that! you can do it, be brave 🧡 i'm looking forward to receiving it! and i'm so sorry that you felt like this wasn't for you, i hope you feel like you are part of it a little more

[farmerlesbian]

butch nerd looking for likeminded folks

27yo transmasc butch looking for more connections, especially in person. located in north florida but often in orlando for events, and can drive so willing to travel. working at a hotel until i can start a medical program, but when im not at work im often working on gunpla, crafting (everything from drawing to sewing to 3d printing to vulture culture), adoring my pet tarantulas and other creepy crawlies, or thinking about my ocs. looking for another nerd whos not afraid of the “gross” hobbies and is down to be weird together. sub-leaning switch but slowly trying to get better at this domming thing, if we get to that point. message me @sawvidae​ and we can chat for a bit before moving to discord or somesuch.

[crreature]

portraits of butches of color pt 2. via butchisnotadirtyword

[farmerlesbian]

30 y/o butch dyke looking for friends, penpals, and maybe more

I am a brand new gardener in central florida. I enjoy reading, especially fantasy and sci-fi. Just started getting into ren faires with some friends. And i absolutely love crafting/being creative. I would absolutely enjoy a penpal or two. Listening to other people talk about their days/lives/whatever they are passionate about is something i eat up. I am butch4butch and flirting is always fun, if something more happens i would not be upset about it! We can connect on here and figure out the best way to communicate after :). @lookingforjunipero​

[farmerlesbian]

Nonbinary tmasc lesbian seeking connection

Hiii! 24 y/o from Maryland!! I like drawing (mostly ocs), gardening, and entomology. I am also a novice at crocheting and fishing. On weekends and evenings I enjoy visiting art museums, going to shows (I’m into noise rock, industrial, and post-punk), watching movies, playing games, and going to local queer events. I’d love to find like-minded people to text or hang out with :) you can reach me at @autoparasitoid​ on here, IG, or discord (preferred). I’m a recent grad (env sci) starting work + audhd so I may be slow at texting but I’ll try my best

[gentlemosses]

oh to be a small cat tenderly held in butch arms

here is my wife with our new baby, mushroom

8x10 in acrylic on canvas

prints

[farmerlesbian]

friends/penpals/slow burn? ;)

Hey y'all! 23yo nonbinary lesbian located in Central Texas and looking for queer friends, penpals, and/or romance! I can do in-person meetups, snail mail, or email, but email me first ([email protected]). About me: crafter, gym rat, curious about everything, will make you laugh, needs to take things slow emotionally. Shoot me an email (I’m rarely on Tumblr) and tell me about you! 

[farmerlesbian]

nerdy stud looking for friends + lovers!

24 (soon to be 25), 5'5 located in metro atl. open to friends anywhere, i’d prefer if my love interest lived nearby but i can do ldr if that’s how it goes. film major, passenger prince that’ll cook and give you all my attention. 420 friendly. sub switch. stud4all with a weakness for bossy femmes and fellow studs.

certified yapper and makeout enthusiast. interests include writing, gaming, music, movies, anime/manga and women’s sports esp basketball! flirt in my dms or tell me about your passions. i’m easy either way <3 @stvaltiel 

[farmerlesbian]

Sorry if I double-submitted just now, I tried to submit a personal but tumblr threw up an error so I assume it didn’t send so I rewrote it :(

💔 i didn’t receive either one :(((( try again!

i haven’t rejected any personals, so if you tried to submit one and it hasn’t been posted, it’s because i didn’t receive it. please send it again! i’m sorry tumblr is having issues with processing submissions 😩 it’s breaking my heart, i want to post all your personal ads!

if i have any issues or questions about your ad, i will reach out to you in a DM from my main blog @invisible-explosions. usually it’s just that people forget to indicate how they want interested parties to reach out to them, no biggie.