WE RECRUIT

a lesbian positivity blog for all lesbians trans and nb inclusive byf / about

[farmerlesbian]

nerdy femme in search of pals (pen and otherwise!)

hi y'all! i’m a capital-m Mad femme dyke in the greater nyc metro area (north of the bronx) looking for friends. i’m 21, an aspiring librarian, poet, cat dad, & amateur burlesque performer. i <3 writing, ttrpgs, crafting, gaming, & lesbian history, and would love a penpal to exchange fun sticker-covered snail mail with and/or to hang with some other dykes without schlepping all the way out to brooklyn (the train fare is killing me!!!) dm me here @thatwizarddyke​ and i’ll show you my beautiful angel kitty grilled cheese sandwich :)

[transfixmagazine]

Issue 10 | Summer 2026 of Transfix Magazine is HERE! Get your free digital copy of the new issue (and all the other ones) here!

On the cover: Testosterone Injection, 2026, oil and acrylic on canvas by Quinn Thomas.

The team:

Achilles Toledo - Staff Writer Azuli Rodriguez - Social Media Graphic Designer Korbin Richards - Social Media Copywriter Leo Oliveras - Layout Designer silas denver melvin - Social Media Graphic Designer Wren Coulter - Editor-in-Chief/Creative Director

[mercythokozaneminah]

float ❤️

inspired by the song from Janelle Monae's Age of Pleasure. This month I want to make work that reminds my mind and body of ease, of sensuality, of cool queer confidence, of deep pleasure. The Age of Pleasure feels like the perfect soundscape to inform that process.

[abutchrambling]

@ butchmonologues on instagram

[farmerlesbian]

29 y/o nature loving dyke looking for a friendship/penpals/connections

Hello, I’m 29 dyke with a weird relationship with gender and located in western Montana USA. I work in natural resources doing large scale restoration and spend much of time traveling, kayaking, bouldering, and caving. Love to travel with someone else in my truck around the country (don’t worry, I’ll drive), bake for, and generally share the time together, even if it’s brief. Would love to get to know you, from snailmail to the internet to coffee and talk about our interests! You can message me @ghostpyre​ 

[farmerlesbian]

im the guy who left tags about not being in the west and you've convinced me, i'll send in a personal soon-ish hehe

ohh i'm so glad to hear that! you can do it, be brave 🧡 i'm looking forward to receiving it! and i'm so sorry that you felt like this wasn't for you, i hope you feel like you are part of it a little more

[farmerlesbian]

butch nerd looking for likeminded folks

27yo transmasc butch looking for more connections, especially in person. located in north florida but often in orlando for events, and can drive so willing to travel. working at a hotel until i can start a medical program, but when im not at work im often working on gunpla, crafting (everything from drawing to sewing to 3d printing to vulture culture), adoring my pet tarantulas and other creepy crawlies, or thinking about my ocs. looking for another nerd whos not afraid of the “gross” hobbies and is down to be weird together. sub-leaning switch but slowly trying to get better at this domming thing, if we get to that point. message me @sawvidae​ and we can chat for a bit before moving to discord or somesuch.

[crreature]

portraits of butches of color pt 2. via butchisnotadirtyword

[farmerlesbian]

30 y/o butch dyke looking for friends, penpals, and maybe more

I am a brand new gardener in central florida. I enjoy reading, especially fantasy and sci-fi. Just started getting into ren faires with some friends. And i absolutely love crafting/being creative. I would absolutely enjoy a penpal or two. Listening to other people talk about their days/lives/whatever they are passionate about is something i eat up. I am butch4butch and flirting is always fun, if something more happens i would not be upset about it! We can connect on here and figure out the best way to communicate after :). @lookingforjunipero​

[farmerlesbian]

Nonbinary tmasc lesbian seeking connection

Hiii! 24 y/o from Maryland!! I like drawing (mostly ocs), gardening, and entomology. I am also a novice at crocheting and fishing. On weekends and evenings I enjoy visiting art museums, going to shows (I’m into noise rock, industrial, and post-punk), watching movies, playing games, and going to local queer events. I’d love to find like-minded people to text or hang out with :) you can reach me at @autoparasitoid​ on here, IG, or discord (preferred). I’m a recent grad (env sci) starting work + audhd so I may be slow at texting but I’ll try my best

[gentlemosses]

oh to be a small cat tenderly held in butch arms

here is my wife with our new baby, mushroom

8x10 in acrylic on canvas

prints

[farmerlesbian]

friends/penpals/slow burn? ;)

Hey y'all! 23yo nonbinary lesbian located in Central Texas and looking for queer friends, penpals, and/or romance! I can do in-person meetups, snail mail, or email, but email me first ([email protected]). About me: crafter, gym rat, curious about everything, will make you laugh, needs to take things slow emotionally. Shoot me an email (I’m rarely on Tumblr) and tell me about you! 

[farmerlesbian]

nerdy stud looking for friends + lovers!

24 (soon to be 25), 5'5 located in metro atl. open to friends anywhere, i’d prefer if my love interest lived nearby but i can do ldr if that’s how it goes. film major, passenger prince that’ll cook and give you all my attention. 420 friendly. sub switch. stud4all with a weakness for bossy femmes and fellow studs.

certified yapper and makeout enthusiast. interests include writing, gaming, music, movies, anime/manga and women’s sports esp basketball! flirt in my dms or tell me about your passions. i’m easy either way <3 @stvaltiel 

[farmerlesbian]

Sorry if I double-submitted just now, I tried to submit a personal but tumblr threw up an error so I assume it didn’t send so I rewrote it :(

💔 i didn’t receive either one :(((( try again!

i haven’t rejected any personals, so if you tried to submit one and it hasn’t been posted, it’s because i didn’t receive it. please send it again! i’m sorry tumblr is having issues with processing submissions 😩 it’s breaking my heart, i want to post all your personal ads!

if i have any issues or questions about your ad, i will reach out to you in a DM from my main blog @invisible-explosions. usually it’s just that people forget to indicate how they want interested parties to reach out to them, no biggie.

[thebutchmessiah]

a few dykey badge designs

[farmerlesbian]

I noticed this tag on the personal ads post and i’m bummed to see someone is feeling that way

i am totally aware that tumblr and this blog’s demographics skew Western, but I know for a fact that it’s not exclusively. a couple years ago I did a survey of followers and there definitely were people from every part of the world. i also have had a tiny bit of code on my blog theme that picks up visits to the blog - now this isn't perfect, because not everyone actually goes to farmerlesbian.tumblr.com, most people probably stay on their tumblr dash, whether on a computer or a mobile app, but it does show a small sampling of where people are looking at the blog from - and it has always shown visits from across the globe.

you absolutely can and should participate! a lot of the personals so far have been from people in the west but not all, and it doesn’t have to be. by no means do you have to send in a personal ads post, but if you are wanting to, you really should think about it! the ads don't even have to be in english. these personals ads are for YOU i promise. if you want to and are comfortable sending in a personal, you should go for it. i am sure you’re not the only one thinking it isn’t for you. it is. personals are for all of us, everywhere.

[filmphotofranz]

which trans generation are you? (the years are the date you started social and/or medical transiton)

old times (2008 or prior)

proto-Tipping Point (2009-2013)

Tipping Point (2014-2018)

Pandemic (2019-2023)

post-Pandemic (2024-present)

Voting ended onJun 13