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@s1llyfreakx3
BITCHES I'LL BE MOSTLY TRANSFERRING TO A NEW BLOG WHERE I WON'T LIVE IN CONSTANT FEAR OF ACCIDENTALLY REBLOGGING ON THE WRONG BLOG
and i'll be able to follow people now yayayayay :333
anyhow go over to @sillyfreakx4
i might occasionally use this if i'm too lazy to log into that one, but this'll be mostly dead
*sees wonderful post about consent, and how our culture doesn't teach about power imbalances fucking up consent in the same way it won't admit that things like shitty minimum wage jobs or paying a landlord to be able to live aren't consensual. Like actually incredible post, it says a lot more*
*the post has "tw: pedophilia" at the top*
"tw: pedophilia"
WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
csa isn't pedophilia, pedophilia is what I, the reader agreeing with you, have TwT
happy 6/9
Happy REAL 6/9, not the american one /j /lh
I haven't seen this coin yet so I guess I'll.
Gender-parasexuality: a sexuality that's based on both the gender-based system(ex: homosexual or asexual) and the para-based system(ex: MAP or zoo). So demizoo, homoMAP, asexual-necro, etc are gender-parasexualities. I hope it'll help people who were looking for a term like that.
being self aware suuuucks like yeah this thought pattern/behavior is stupid and pointless and a symptom. i know this. [does it anyways
radqueers deserve to fucking die you're all pedophiles and animal fuckers and groomers go kill yourself you don't deserve to be alive anyways
OMG YESSSS LET'S GOOOOO
and this is anon hate with SPUNK. Calling me an animal fucker, and a groomer, AND suibating?
need to take off a few points for it being overly generic though, I'm assuming the same thing was sent into multiple inboxes :c
and unfortunately this isn't an active account :((( pls send hate to @sillyfreakx5 !!!1
pspsps termed blog :3
i'm worried my posts from my new blog wouldn't show up in tags, so if you were moots with sillyfreakx4 my new blog is @sillyfreakx5 !! :3
(this is an old blog i don't use anymore)
TransSkrunkly CisSkrunkly
Where a being identifies as being (a) skrunkly :3
I GOT MY FIRST TERM NOOOO
shit i really regret not backing up my posts now
anyhowww thankfully i still have my old radqueer blog :3
i'll be making a new one soon but yeahh rip sillyfreakx4
cool ascii/kaomoji/etc stuff i found!! >w<
emojicombos.com my beloved
for any cool folkel to use if they want to :3
ok list of transids that i kinda want to start using and need to check if they are coined in some form or another :3
Anything related to my nonhumanity really (transhorned, transhooves, if terms related to habitats existed they'd be cool af)
Transacademicpressure
Transhairlength
Transandrogynous (like appearance)
Transshapeshifter ?
Transimmersivedaydreamer (i need to transitio aaaaa)
Transontopunk
aaaaaaaa i need to get around to coining/requesting some terms, since i couldn't find most of these >w<
i'm putting effort into the intro of my new blog
fear me
me when i get out of my mentally-low-state:
damn i was so cringe ;_;
omg i scheduled this post ages ago when i was trying to study and not break my tumblr exile :ccc (i was only supposed to return today now that my exams are over)
also damn this is a blast from the past XD it feels like longer ago tbh
radqueer miku again because she's fun to draw and i love her (also changed her design a bit just since i think it looks better)
also because pride month!! happy pride month all radqueers!! i hope every radqueer remembers that they're valid and deserve to celebrate their identity just as much as other queer identities are celebrated this month, you all deserve to be proud of who you are and not be ashamed and uncomfortable with it just as much as anyone else does <3
free to use, just don't claim it as your own or remove the watermark! and transparent version under cut as usual if you wanna put another flag or smth behind her :-)
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the urge to tag my posts with community tags just because i wanna make friends with people and talk to them but also i dont wanna clog the tags with my posts and dont want rude people to be mean to me
if you mean like radqueer tags
more random shit in the radqueer tags is always nice :3333333 It's mostly coining stuff/alter packs anyhow, it's not full of radqueer discussion or whatever
if you mean other community tags then idk, depends on the community
obviously if people are mean that's a problem though :/
oh yeah there's always tags like "X please interact" or "X safe" or whatever!!! those definitely would be good to use imo!!!!
talking to people recently out of prison: a do-and-don't guide
Don't ask, "How was prison?" (Answer: traumatic!)
Do ask, "What are you most looking forward to doing again now that you're out?"
Don't ask, "How long were you in for?" (Answer: too long!)
Do ask, "Is there any technology or pop culture I can help catch you up on?"
Don't ask, "How are you going to avoid getting back into bad behaviors?" (Leave the paternalistic bullshit to their PO.)
Do ask, "How's your support network? Do you have people helping you adjust?"
Don't ask, "Do you have a job yet?" (Their PO is asking them ALL the time, don't worry.)
Do ask, "Are there any opportunities I should keep an ear out for and let you know about?"
Don't ask, "Do you have an ankle monitor?" (And definitely don't ask to see it - no one likes to be gawked at.)
Do ask, "Do you have parole restrictions we need to accommodate when making plans?"
Don't say, "Hey, you shouldn't be doing that - it's against your parole!" (A lot of parole restrictions are bullshit, and they are an adult who deserves agency, even the agency to take risks.)
Do ask, "Are there any bullshit parole restrictions you need help working around?"
Don't ask, "Are you an addict?" (Not everyone in prison is, and they'll tell you if they want you to know.)
Do say, "If there's stuff you might get in trouble for, like empty alcohol containers, I can throw them away at my place."
Don't say, "It's probably best if you put your whole prison life behind you and start fresh." (Just because it was traumatic doesn't mean important experiences and relationships didn't happen there.)
Do say, "If you have letters from friends on the inside that you don't want your PO to find, you can keep them at my place."
Don't say, "You paid your debt to society." (Regardless of what they may have done, harm cannot be repaid through senseless suffering.)
Do say, "You are more than the worst thing you've ever done."
Do not ever ask "What were you arrested for?"/"What did you do?"/"Were you guilty?"
People are more than the worst thing they've ever done.
Hey. Don't do this shit on my posts.
Criminal justice reform cannot be "for everyone except..." It is for everyone.
"Rapist" is not a separate species. Even child sexual abuse is not as strictly pathological as media would lead you to believe. Rape, sexual assault, and child abuse are acts performed by human beings, who have families and social connections. Pretending otherwise makes it harder to identify and prevent them.
Thought patterns like, "My friend's girlfriend says he raped her, but that can't be true, because I know him and he's a good person!" or even, "This person is lying/exaggerating when they say I assaulted them because I'm not a monster!" are born from the assumption that rape can only be committed by some evil, subhuman creature lurking in the bushes. It, of course, also leads to victims saying, "Well, it can't be assault because they're my partner, and they love me."
Furthermore, only offering horrific punishment as justice discourages victims from reporting. Most people who are sexually assaulted are assaulted by friends or family members. I chose not to report a former friend who raped me, because I didn't want to ruin his whole life. He did something awful to me. Afterward, I was dealing with that trauma and betrayal and mourning a friendship that ended. I didn't want, on top of all that, the burden of ruining the life of someone I cared about. If I could have asked our justice system for what I needed then, I would ask for a safely mediated conversation with him. I would have asked for him to go to therapy. I would ask for reassurance, over time, that this was a terrible one-time mistake and he never did it again. The justice system said, ruin his life or go it alone. I went it alone.
Finally, I find it insulting that you would forgive murderers before rapists. I have been raped. My life is precious to me. To say that rape is worse than murder is to say that rape survivors are better off dead. To plant that seed in the mind of someone who will be raped in the future is to tell them, in that already horrible moment, that this experience is breaking them in a way that can never heal. That is a lie. People heal from it all the time, and they live whole, precious lives after. Rape is awful, but I would rather be raped again than be murdered. I would rather live.
That you would, in that same sentence, express your own murderous impulses, is deeply disturbing.
