“Oh, you know, you realize that grief is perhaps the last and final translation of love. And I think, you know, this is the last act of loving someone. And you realize that it will never end. You get to do this, to translate this last act of love for the rest of your life. And so, you know, it's– really, her absence is felt every day.
“And ever since I lost her, I felt that my life has been lived in only two days, if that makes any sense. You know, there's the today, where she is not here, and then the vast and endless yesterday where she was, even though it's been three years since. How many months and days? But I only see it in — with one demarcation. Two days — today without my mother, and yesterday, when she was alive. That's all I see. That's how I see my life now.”
“Oh, you know, you realize that grief is perhaps the last and final translation of love. And I think, you know, this is the last act of loving someone. And you realize that it will never end. You get to do this, to translate this last act of love for the rest of your life. And so, you know, it's– really, her absence is felt every day.
“And ever since I lost her, I felt that my life has been lived in only two days, if that makes any sense. You know, there's the today, where she is not here, and then the vast and endless yesterday where she was, even though it's been three years since. How many months and days? But I only see it in — with one demarcation. Two days — today without my mother, and yesterday, when she was alive. That's all I see. That's how I see my life now.”
below is a guide for the channels, as well as tips and tricks for using this template and a few recommendations for bots. ( link & image heavy )
GET THE SERVER | FREE ( tips appreciated !! )
BOT SUGGESTIONS.
tupperbox ( for proxying your muses for discord roleplay )
writerbot ( for writing sprints, goals & prompts )
reminder ( for reminders / birthday updates )
threadtracker ( for tracking threads on discord )
TIPS.
messletters ( for fancy text )
this entire tag by @dayslily ( for discord tips & tricks )
turn on community for the forum features ( linked to tutorial )
using webhooks to get tumblr notifications on discord ( linked to tutorial )
WELCOME CENTER.
📌 · updates / generally in large community servers you can subscribe to get updates sent to you personal server, this is a good place to send them. alternatively,
📌 · emails / i use this channel to keep track of my logins for various tumblr blogs and other websites.
📌 · reminders / using a bot, i set this channel to have reminders for various things, such as personal reminders, roleplay to do list and even character & partner birthdays
📌 · to · do · list / you could use a bot, or just manually update this channel with your current todolist.
📌 · drafts / i will occasional leave drafts to replies here so i can come back for them at a later point
TUMBLR NOTIFICATIONS
💻 · blogname / you can utilize webhooks to send your tumblr notifications to your discord server in this channel. ( see tutorial linked above ).
BOTS.
🤖 · writing / my preferred bot for this is writer bot - linked above, i use this channel to set/check my goals, set up writing sprints, and occasionally get prompts for writing.
🤖 · tupperbox / i like to set up all my tuppers in privacy, so i find having my own sever with a channel makes it easy to change my avatar and other tupper information quick and also to test them without spamming a group tupper channel. ( tupperbox - linked above )
🤖 · reminders / i will often set up a channel for reminders because i'm super forgetful and having a reminder bot helps me get to tasks in a timely manner ( when i remember to set up the bot!! lol ) ( reminder bot - linked above )
🤖 · tracker / i'm not sure if this tracker has the function to work cross server yet, you'd have to check with the makers on their github, but this is great for 1x1 and group servers. ( thread tracker - linked above )
DEVELOPMENT.
✨ · names / a channel to store ideas for muse names, etomology, etc
✨ · prompts / a channel to store ask memes, character & writing prompts, etc
✨ ·inspiration / a channel to store character/muse inspiration, photos, videos, posts, even just a list of words/aesthetics, etc
✨ ·brainstorm / a place to spitball ideas for new muses and/or plots, i like to utilize the voice message feature here and just talk out my ideas so i can listen back to them later when incorporating them into a new muse.
✨ · ideas / a channel to store ideas for plots & muses ( if utilizing the community feature, you could make this a forum and separate the headcanons into posts for each muse/plot : see image below for example ).
✨ · faces / a channel to store resources for you muse face claims, i would store social media posts, photoshoots, gif set links, etc ( if utilizing the community feature, you could make this a forum and separate the faces into posts for each face claim : see image below for example ).
ROLEPLAY INFORMATION.
💖 · plots / a channel to post links and ideas for plots wanted for muses and roleplay groups.
💖 · wishlist / a channel to post roleplay wishlist items, links, ideas, etc
💖 · promotions / a channel to post links for roleplay promotions either to your own groups or groups that you'd like to keep an eye on.
💖 · groups / i use this channel to store the links to my current roleplay groups, links to the main blog, any relevant sideblogs, as well as a list of muses i currently have active within them.
RESOURCES.
all of these are pretty self explanatory, you can store resources you use for tumblr and other types of roleplay in these channels, gifs, icons, templates, themes, etc.
( if utilizing the community feature, you could make this a forum and separate the category into posts for each face claim : see image below for example ).
GROUP ROLEPLAYS.
new category !!
📍 · masterlist / a channel for keeping a masterlist of the groups you are currently active in + a short list of the muses you play in each.
within the category you can keep channels for each seperate roleplay & keep your muse, headcanons, task & connections information within. ( if utilizing the community feature, you could make this a forum and separate items into posts : see image below for example )
ACTIVE MUSES.
📌 · muse · name / you can basically store your muse information, biographies, links to blogs, musings, edits, and whatever else you like. ( if utilizing the community feature, you could make this a forum and separate items into posts : see image below for example )
CONNECTIONS.
💕 · muse · muse / similarly to the muse section, you can store your ship dynamic and details here, links to you partner's blog, ship tag, edits, headcanons, etc ( if utilizing the community feature, you could make this a forum and separate items into posts : see image below for example )
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kaledo-art
jbbartram-illu
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germansingergirl
annaxmalina
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